i like to believe that some wolves i met liked the IDEA of me,
but are terrified of the emotions they feel because of me.
meaning:
they come in my life,
become hooked off my energy and vibe,
sexually attracted to me,
but still wanted to make sure i knew they liked vixens.
…yet,
when they dropped by mask,
they were a whole different person with me.
its like you get the boyfriend without the title.
i do believe that is why many of our ends felt like “break ups”.
i think many gay males have experienced this with DL and bi males.
society has taught them they need to be with vixens,
but they have a special closeness with other males.
they still treat vixens like shit,
but will do almost anything for another male.
if you happened to be a gay male they got close to,
they’ll do everything BUT claim.
so everyone is riled up over what this bi male said today.
@theycallmehits said he is only sexually attracted to other males…
…but he doesn’t want to date them.
he has never had feelings for another male.
tbh,
that is his truth and he has every right to say how he feels.
that is true for many DL or bi males you will meet.
they will provide endless sex,
but the idea of being with another male is downright scary or gross.
its interesting because if you’re like me,
and other Foxholers i’ve spoken to,
it comes off like ya’ll are in the talking phase.
what i’ve learned is that at least with the “lets fuck” ones,
you already know what you are getting.
the other ones:
who make you believe at some point they’ll claim you?
run.
don’t even walk.
that is a heartbreak that i would wish on my worst enemy.
I think that there are some men that are actually “gay” and there’s some men that are actually “bi”. For some men though a hole or a mouth is just a hole or mouth. They don’t want the extra attachments of it. It’s just a hole or mouth that gives them the gratification they need. It’s an act that they enjoy. They not really into the other aspects of “The Life”. They don’t want to be part of the community. They have no interest. They just want the sex! If you think about even in like ancient times you’ve always had men like that. So they like the sex and nothing but the sex. They don’t want a relationship with you like that. They don’t to want date you. They ain’t about to come out. Come Out for what??? They want to f*** who they want! They are who they are. A man will f*** a tree with warm honey in it. It’s about the sex, nothing else. I say this not to say there are absolutely some men who lie to themselves but I truly don’t believe this is always the case with men who are categorized as “DL”. Honestly historically this type of man has always existed who just don’t know history very well.
On point. There are men who self-classify as gay, as straight, as bi, and now under all these other categories like pan, etc., who primarily want sex and maybe a little companionship but not long-term relationships. You see it in the instability they have in long-term relationships and how their partners often suffer as a result. I’ve seen it many times over the years, and I always say to anyone getting into a relationship, think a bit more deeply than the nut about who you’re really dealing with, what the real foundation of the relationship is when it starts and where it might go and be down the road.