why are people so nasty and so rude to folks minding their business?
it has happened to me and people i know.
you could be minding your business,
looking and feeling cute,
and a big-body bully jackal bitch(es) decides to pull up in public.
you don’t even know them but it’s “fuck with you” o’clock.
some of ya’ll likes to fight so yall live for these moments.
others end up shrinking and it can ruin their whole day.
this vixen by the name of @jackielabonita was minding her business,
looking cute at a baseball game,
and recorded two bully she-jackal bitches trying to pull up on her…
@jackielabonita Please be nice #meangirls #meangirlvibes ♬ The Loser – Verzache
i hate that she shrunk for those two goofy she-jackal hoes in the back.
she was alone it seems so i get it.
so this coulda went two ways.
she could have turned around and asked:
Q: “Do we have a problem?“
in which the answer would have been:
A: SILENCE.
She would have heard crickets chirping or a mouse pissing on cotton.
You know these mofos love to pop shit but when you confront them,
they suddenly don’t know how to speak.
B: “yES wE havE a ProbleM!!!!!!“
…and now she has to hop back there and be the answer to their problem.
cardi chose b:
I would of put that ring to use https://t.co/4CWhwtZqBI
— Cardi B (@iamcardib) April 23, 2023
…and you know she loves to fight.
“i’M StandiNg RiGhT hErE…”
Jackals just love being mean…
…until they get their ass whooped or exposed.
I really feel her angst and entire letdown energy 💔. Microagressions comes in all shapes and sizes and they hurt the most when you’re feeling good and it comes out of nowhere.
I’ve always ignored stuff like this and this is also the reason why I don’t like Hispanics
^why don’t you like hispanics?
are they prone to doing this?
Funny you say that. I’ve experienced this more with Latin gays than any other. Black gays give me competitiveness or they want to be me while white gays just want to fuck me. I don’t know what the mean girls stance is supposed to give off but I usually ignore them or give them the same energy they give me which is stank. I’d actually dick DOWN quite a few of them but miss me with that bullshit. They actually had a Mean Girls themed birthday party that I was invited to unbeknownst to me of who it was for or what the theme was. We all was shocked when I arrived lol. The girls just watched me be the life of the party and seethed. And I’m like you know you can dance with me or on me and have fun too smh. The gays can be exhausting and annoying.
^ i hate when people have experiences like this.
people can really try to destroy you with their nonsense.
What? Redneck much??
I remember when I was about 20 I was in the mall with my family. I have always been somebody that is fashion forward and risky with my fashion. I never wore what everyone else wore at the time they wore it. Long story made short this was around the time people were wearing doc martens and ripped jean shorts or combat boots in fashion . Everyday people were wearing sperrys and urban outfitters still. Well this gay boy with a white girl snickered looking me up and down. I didn’t see it my mother did and she began to lash out at him being overprotective. It was a whole situation in the mall. In retrospect it wasn’t that serious but I realize I internalized it and that’s partly why I don’t deal with a lot of the community now bc ppl are most critical towards their own brothers and sisters out of Jealousy and inadequacy. This girl is a Latina and Latinas are ironically the ones hating and mocking her. It’s like they project their boring bitch energy on someone who is shining. And these are the main ones preaching about acceptance of whatever marginalization they face
^ this is deep!
i can def feel this.
honestly,
this has been many of our stories too.
when we wanted to be ourselves and be different,
only to get someone pull up with the foolishness.
some fight and others shrink,
but many internalize and give up behind themselves to fit in or create a bias.
thank you for this comment TTT2.
It doesn’t always have to resort to violence. Option #3 and/or 4: Turn around and laugh at them laughing at you. OR ignore them/seem unbothered by it. Nothing short circuits someone more than crickets. They are goading her FOR a response and they got one. Their behaviour was rewarded so they will do it again (and again, and again). Untrained children is all they are…smdh
^ 110%
Except that’s what she did. She ignored them and in turn felt bad about herself. She allowed someone to dim her light instead of sticking up for herself which does not have to equal violence. I’d be damn if I let a bunch of basic bishes make me feel bad about myself.