there is nothing (james) bland about this update

i like his nose.
you know i have a thing for noses on a male.
james bland,
the brilliance behind one of my fav shows ( x giants ),
has made a ton of moves since then.
( x his imbd ) is legit poppin’ off.
i was scrolling my twitter timeline and saw that nose on my feed.
at first,
i was lustfully drawn to what i saw.
it was attached to something that could give us hope

and then i saw this on his ig:

 

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okay…

i love it for two reasons:

1 – It’s not an “I’m daying my clone” situation.

2 – I’m just gotta font it:

His manz isn’t white.

You know when most gay black males debut their manz,
it’s often the lightest and whitest shade possible.
I’m not fonting it’s bad but I’d like to see more “colorful” relationships.

regardless,
this life doesn’t always award the chance at love.
so when we find someone after a long journey alone,
or in and out of various beds trying to get chosen…

it’s a beautiful thing to witness.
congrats to james,
his sexy nose,
and his manz.
may they continue to vibe for many years to come.

lowkey: i’m not even gonna hold you but that bed pic is sexy af.

12 thoughts on “there is nothing (james) bland about this update

  1. I saw the photos on my TL too and was so happy for James Bland. I’m a fan of his work and him and thought he might be fam, so I’m glad to see he’s with a brother. I love to see Black love.

    I also wish there were a third season of Giants. I felt like it made a nice companion piece to Insecure and Twenties, but stood up on its own.

    PS: There are a few other Black gay Hollywood/Broadway couples out there. They just don’t get any play, which might be good in helping them keep their relationships safe, though seeing them together publicly would give a lot of us a boost.

  2. Giants was dope! And it’s sad that we congratulate when we see a BGM find love. Not the congrats, happy for them, (and as far as im concerned, there’s nothing wrong w liking the fact that his dude is also black Jamari, cus im w you) but the fact that it seems sooo fleeting, that we half-way pass out when seeing it, is unfortunate for us.

    Just remember yall, it’s about perseverance. You gotta keep showing up if you want to win. I’m as guilty as the rest when it comes to being over it and giving up on love. But we truly do have to remain open. Lets make patience, humility and forgiveness things amongst black gays.

    1. ^” Just remember yall, it’s about perseverance. You gotta keep showing up if you want to win. I’m as guilty as the rest when it comes to being over it and giving up on love. But we truly do have to remain open. Lets make patience, humility and forgiveness things amongst black gays.”

      powerful.

  3. Really happy for him. They’re a beautiful couple. Wish nothing but the best for them. Can’t say I’m all that surprised though tbh…he was lowkey giving those vibes even back when he was on GIANTS. I always assumed he was at least sexually fluid.

  4. “i like his nose.
    you know i have a thing for noses on a male.”

    You know how they used to say if you take a guy’s shoesize and divide it in half, that’s how big he is?
    Or if he has big hands?
    Or if he’s tall?

    Yeah, all of that mess is false.

    But phallus size is most closely related to nasal size, so do with that info what you will:

    “Nose size indicates maximum penile length” Look it up on National Library of Medicine. It’s a 2021 study done by the Japanese Kyoto Prefectural University of Medicine and its authors are: Ikegaya H, Suzuki M, Kondou H, Kawai T, Sato Y, Kitamura T, Kume H.

    Unlike other commenters, I don’t just talk out of my butthole, I actually cite when I make a claim.

  5. 1 – It’s not an “I’m dating my clone” situation.

    I heard somebody on TikTok say if your significant other doesn’t resemble you, it’s because you have self-hatred and hate yourself. I found it weird, because aren’t we supposed to be attracted to people who DON’T look like us to avoid genetic redundancy(incest)?

    I’m dark-skinned and primarily attract lighter guys. I wish I could get a dark-skinned dude, but they want white or light, so go where you’re celebrated, not where you’re tolerated or settled for. They’ll cheat on you with their true preference.

    1. “Go where you’re celebrated not where you’re tolerated.” Love that 🙌 That quote honestly made my day so thank you for that sir. Also very interesting information about the nasal and penis connection 🤔

      1. haha, I didn’t come up with the quote, but glad you found it interesting. I lowkey am extra and am always doing too much. I like big noses because I imagine they’ll feel good when I sit on a dude’s face haha

  6. I’m not surprised I knew James had a Brotha. And they’re glowing together as it should be. Giants was my show too. He’s such a great creator. The young lady who starred as Journey, his friend/love interest up there, I believe she co-wrote Giants as well.

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