just like the title says.
so i was reading the comments from ( x yesterday’s entry ).
thank you everyone who shared something personal.
i have an opinion about all of this.
it may make some people upset
but at end of the day,
this is my opinion.
ready for it?…
i feel like…
coming out is a personal decision.
you should not be making a huge decision such a suicide if you were outed.
hell did you know if you kill yourself,
your family don’t get your life ins.
that’s a sidebar.
plus you you ain’t let me see how that dick hang.
seriously everyone who is out wants to make it seem like:
“omg i came out and it was like,
the flowers bloomed and the sung to me in the morning.
ugh it was gorg…”
…and that maybe true,
but thats where i’m confused.
why all this closet shaming?
you were once where that other person was not to long ago.
and this is no disrespect,
but its seems to me like people come out for other people these days.
“i get to tell random people i’m gay.
…does that get you a job?
are you putting that on your resume?
did it get you a man?
real friends you can trust?
the way how i see it…
there are still people with low self esteem/worth in and out the closet.
to me it has nothing to do with coming out,
it has everything to do with the person.
and don’t even look at these masculine men coming out in droves.
everything is done for a reason.
some of these men are super cornballs,
careers are over,
or they want to go and sew their wild gay oats since they did it in coochie cavern.
lets not even mention how fast they run to snow whatever or tropical exxoticals.
i don’t give a fuck anymore.
i live my best discreet life.
i don’t have my parents anymore,
i lost my job,
and lost my best friend within a year.
i use to be an open book to people.
i learned whether you are in or out,
people are still going to stupid and life still hands you lemons.
if someone asks me if I’m gay,
i may or may not tell em.
its really none of your fuckin business who i’m fuckin.
plain and simple.
if you live out the closet then live your best life.
if you discreet, do the same.
the issue with people in the closet is their pride.
or is it arrogance?
again OTHER PEOPLE need to see them with a vixen or a “straight” persona.
just a bunch of props to appease people.
how about you appease yourself?
do what makes you happy?
live for you?
middle finger to those who may disagree or judge?
how about that person id fall in love with?
become friends with?
being a “man” isn’t about how masculine or feminine you are,
who you’re fuckin,
how low you sag your jeans,
or what pictures you put up on instagram.
its about making quality decisions,
sticking to them,
and saying “i know who i am”.
like it or leave it.
what’s your decision?
…then there are the bisexuals.
who truly like both and get lost in the shuffle of “down low”.
thats a whole nother topic.