the pretty vixen finally watched “sex and the city” during the pandemic last year.
she never watched the show before.
i told her one of my favorite characters was samantha because of her fearless approach to sex.
“Samantha comes off like she was a victim of sexual abuse when she was younger.
All that sleeping around is not cute.
Imagine if she was a real person doing all of that.”
i still can’t unthink it.
we always talk about sex but we never talk about sex abuse.
we often focus on the female pov of sexual abuse and assault,
but many males have experienced their fair share of it when we were younger.
due to being violated at such vulnerable ages,
we lock away our inner children at that moment they were abused.
when we tried to our parents they laughed it off or intimidated us.
we often suffer in silence and destroy others along the way.
sometimes homophobia and self-hatred come from someplace deeper.
We gotta wonder if all these self-proclaimed male whores are coming from a place of being victims.
some of these onlyfans stars seem to have been victims disguised as sex-positive.
shared another part of his truth in a recent ig video called “dig deeper“…
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brave and powerful to admit that about his stepfather.
i applaud him for being so transparent and honest.
We never know what people have dealt with.
some of us have some deep shit that we are holding onto.
no amount of working out or fitting in with the cool kids will heal that trauma.
i feel like many people are becoming comfortable in sharing their truths these days,
no matter how ugly it was or had us feeling.
i love to see it.
not everyone is comfortable sharing their truths so public tho.
many of us need therapy to help unpack the things that locked us away.
if you were a victim of sexual abuse or assault:
Your inner child is begging to be healed.
please seek therapy or speak to someone you trust.
therapy has really helped me release a majority of my inner demons.
it’s time YOU do the same.
i love you.