this might be a vent or a complaint to the hr manager of life,
it’s been on my mind tho…
why is it when you meet some males and you actually think they’re dope,
they appear to have good energy,
seem like fun to be around,
ya’ll both click just off the strength,
and it seems like they were into you…
Why do they make you feel like you did something wrong for being interested in them?
i thought you were an amazing human and cute even if we ended up being platonic.
what an asshole i turned out to be.
do people actually like it when you’re genuinely interested in them?
or do they prefer to treat you like shit so you can prove yourself?
it’s so weird yet…
…it seems like it’s required in the pre-dating stages.
it’s like the premise of these dating shows these days.
Let me roll around in the mud,
wrestle an alligator,
turn water to wine,
and know how to make the Big Mac sauce just so he can choose me.
it’s the ones who chase males around,
blow up their phones,
sparkle brighter so they’re seen,
and desperately try to be on their radar who are the “winners”.
i’m seeing this interesting phenomenon everywhere tbh.
Bending over backward
Chasing them around
Becoming FWB in hope of landing a relationship
Having a trillion kids while being engaged for 9 years
it had me wondering if i should have chased a little harder?
should i have applied more pressure?
keyed up cars or climbed 4 flights into windows?
the crazy part is i’m seeing this with friend groups as well.
don’t even get me started on how i’ve been treated by people with this website.
Why is everyone so dead set in treating people who are actually into them like shit?
when did this become okay?