f0x Asks… (4)


As much as we talk about Foxes/Wolves in public…

Would you be comfortable enough if one approached you in public setting?
And, what has to be done to NOT get your number?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

31 thoughts on “f0x Asks… (4)”

  1. You definitely get major points for approaching me because I don’t really give off a friendly vibe until you actually talk to me. I would ony be uncomfortable if I was approached in an indiscreet way while with straight friends, but if I am out shopping alone (which I usually am), I’m cool with it.

    If you:
    1) Come on too strong.
    2) Give me the impression you do it for sport.
    3) I sense any bullshit.

    You won’t get the number.

  2. I also will give out major points for approaching me
    but if you come at me corny, a hint of queen drops off your tongue, or you telling me to go into some alley so you can exchange numbers…

    …you are GONE.

  3. So if I “pimp” strolled up to you in my lime green coogi set and my icey white k-swiss and dropped a line like “Your parents must be terrorists cuz u da bomb!”, you wouldn’t give up the digits? Lol

  4. Lmao!
    Then I’d shift my attention to your less attractive friend. Lol!

    “I was just using him to get to you baby!” lol

  5. You see you could’ve had a matching suit in purple, but since you acting funny point me in the direction of the Bronx so I can find me a big booty puerto rican. lol

  6. I’d be completely comfortable because it’s happened more than a few times. I don’t know about me doing the approaching though.

    What has to be done to not get my number? When you’re overtly sexual I’m completely turned off. When you act as if i HAVE to give you my number and i should be grateful you approached. Or you don’t really seem to be genuine and you’re just collecting numbers. I’ll give you my default line: “If i see you again, I’ll give it you.”

    1. Shit that’s just a crazies invitation to follow you. lol

      But you like them crazy though so they’re messing with the right one…

      1. If you’re that determined to get my number then perhaps you’re worth giving a shot? Usually, that line works because they tend to feel discouraged and move on to the next. I’m not good at lying so i don’t go that “I have a man” route. And I don’t have the heart tell you I’m not interested outright lol.

  7. UrSoVain :
    If you’re that determined to get my number then perhaps you’re worth giving a shot? Usually, that line works because they tend to feel discouraged and move on to the next. I’m not good at lying so i don’t go that “I have a man” route. And I don’t have the heart tell you I’m not interested outright lol.

    Yea, that line wouldn’t work on me if I was determined enough. If push comes to shove I’d “accidentally” crash into your car and then ask for you number again…after I get your insurance. Lmao

    I’m not crazy, just throwed off slightly. lol

    1. But if you come at my or anyone else correctly like “hi, my name is so and so and i saw you and i thought you were attractive and wanted to introduce myself” then you wouldn’t have to worry about any of that. A simply type of approach like that one will get you pretty far.

      1. Honestly, I don’t interact well with people I like. I regress back to elemantary school where you just keep poking someone you like or irritating them just for the hell of it. lol

  8. JAY :
    Honestly, I don’t interact well with people I like. I regress back to elemantary school where you just keep poking someone you like or irritating them just for the hell of it. lol

    That’s a quick way to get ignored and talked badly about.

  9. I’m skiddish. Like those dogs that have been abused and run iunder the bed when you try to pet them. I had a traumatizing experience with this guy following and eventually cornering me in the grocery store and I ran lol so now I’m very weary and weirded out about being approached. I would never approach a dude I didn’t know and tell him I thought he was attractive. If there’s an opportunity though I will find a way to make small talk. And I prefer guys going that route. Figure out some way to get me warmed up to you.

    I’m probably just a wierdo. A guy stopped his car and stared at me last night as I was walking to mine and… nothing. I’m like do you expect me to approach your car? I think not. Ask me somethin fool. BUT I did develop an amazing “assist” for the staring, shy kind. I’m now just gonna approach and ask “do we know eachother? You were looking at me like you knew me” and if a guy can’t take it from there, there’s no hope lol

    I first notice a guys face.. if he has a nice smile, eyes etc. I gives no fucks about attire, I can make him fly. I can’t give you a new face.

    1. Lol if a guy I was staring at approached me asking if I knew him, I think my heart would stop for a second. Then I’d be thinking “Damn do I know him? Have we fucked? Or does he just know of me, and if so what does he know? ” Lol

      But yea just walking up to a guy and saying you think he’s attractive is honest and blunt, but weird and something I’m not capable of doing.

      “Wassup?” or “How you doing?” is usually a good start to me either way.

      1. Lol which is why its called an ASSIST. I’ve done half the work, now its your turn. I mean same thing in the bedroom. If I throw it back at you, what you gon do? If ya heart stops from me speaking I’ll definitely send you into cardiac arrest in the sheets. TOUCHDOWN.

  10. Oh and yea if I feel like you probably apprached a guy 5 mins b4 you approached me I will tell you “I’m straight” my code for “no kind sir you may not have my number”

  11. I just realized this dude who works at Express may have hit me with FATC’s trick last week. I walk in the store and he immediately greeted me. Then he picked out several shirts for me and all of a sudden he asked me if we’ve met before.

    I looked at him hard and realized that was impossible because A) He was shorter than me. I don’t know many dudes shorter than me. B) He wore colored contacts or he has really nice ass, I’d remember that. So I told him no I don’t think so. Guess I’m oblivious.

    He was cute though, got me to spend over $100 easy. lol

      1. LMAO! I do! I know you guys like H&M and Zara but there clothes are DONE after the first wash. Its like forever 21 for guys..lol

  12. foxandhtecity :
    Lol which is why its called an ASSIST. I’ve done half the work, now its your turn. I mean same thing in the bedroom. If I throw it back at you, what you gon do? If ya heart stops from me speaking I’ll definitely send you into cardiac arrest in the sheets. TOUCHDOWN.

    Yessir! They’ll be lifting me into the ambulance clutching my chest with a smile on my face! lolol

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