“I’m too old to be at Pride or any big Gay event anymore.
“The Stallions, the City Gworls, Barbies, Bey Hive, Bardi Gang, the And I Oops…alladem…”

one of the foxholers sent me that today,
live from dc.
i told them i don’t think you’re “too old”.
i did like the word,
“mature“.
he chose “seasoned“.
i like that word.
foxhole,
i have a question that i hope isn’t offensive…

Continue reading “pride might not be for the lowkey types (or it might just be)” →

have you been in a situation,
i’m sure many of you have,
where someone took their shirt off and it was like…

“Jesus,
give me the strength…“

i’ve been in many of those situations.
some on purpose; many by accident.
i’m surprised i didn’t spontaneously combust.
i put the following video on the foxhole ig today.
i want answers… Continue reading “a “Jesus, give me strength” type of situation (my thought are unclean)” →

mark…
oh mark…
a good fox always lurks in the background.
every morning,
i check in on my fav attentionistos and other igs.
you never know where there is a story.
sometimes you’ll miss a damn good ig story.
so i go to the ig of “foto119” this morning and…
Continue reading “the missing piece that is foto119” →

folks really like to invite nonsense into their lives…
gay relations can be different than straight ones.
we move a lot differently in relationships,
even though with many situations,
it can still have the same outcome.
we are still humans like our hetero counterparts,
so some shit might not fly.
so a foxholer sent me the following and asked me my thoughts…
Continue reading “i want my manz to take some weekends to have sex with whoever he wants” →

so i’ve been thinking about the job duties today over bed.
i’m kinda tired and lazy af today.
sheesh.
i want to ask the foxhole something i’m not sure of.
we family in this neck of the woods.
so this gig is going to be something that i have to heavily cater.
how…

Continue reading “cater to (them)?” →

i have a question for the foxhole.
this is a random question,
but i’m very random.
so here goes…

Continue reading “How Dangerously Do You Live With Your Phone?” →