This may end up having a GREAT discussion…
I know that my Foxes and Wolves are on another plateau of the game,
but are some of us missing the skills to pull the man of your dreams?
The article below breaks the down the ever questionable “gay face“…
Gay men do not differ from straight men in the size and shape of any facial feature. Rather, the use of certain expressions can become ingrained in the musculature of the face over time. Since effeminate gay men utilize similar facial expressions as women, they develop female aging and muscle contraction patterns in their face. For example, gay face includes tightness around the mouth from pursing the lips, a facial expression common to gay men and women – but not to heterosexual men. Also, gay men are more emotionally expressive, leading to a general “tightness” and muscular activation through out the entire face. Gay face includes an eye expression that is both surprised looking and predatory. Eyebrows are usually arched higher than that of straight men, and eyebrow hair is manicured. There is often a slightly tan and/or leathery look to the skin, especially among older gay men. Lesbians also have a version of gay face that emulates the facial muscular usage patterns straight men. They exhibit an under expression of emotion, relaxed brows, relaxed eyes, and less taut mouth and cheek muscles than straight women. The skin is usually pale and splotchy.
Article: The Case of the Gay Face
Now Prince has those same qualities and is as hetero as he wants to be, so is their opinion is flawed?
When I think of a gay face, I think of:
Mouth slathered in lip gloss.
Eye brows arched like the Golden Arches at McDonalds.
Permanent pursed lips with automatic smacked gums
Even as far as this example:
Ya know, this whole topic made me think…
Foxes and Wolves are always on the prowl in public.
I was told if you look too “masculine”, you may miss your mark.
If you look too “feminine”, you may turn everyone else off.
So which is it?
Wolves hunting on online chat sites want masculine ONLY, but they always end up wifing up the opposite…
The Jackals and Hyenas have no problem getting the Wolves of a Fox’s dreams.
And all they do is walk out the house…
Is this how the finest D/L or “trade” find Foxes these days?
And why is it so hard to find “masculine” when we automatically think he is straight?
Also, what if you are discreet and just a regular dude, is it that much harder?
From Butch Queens to No Queens, it seems everything has a title in this lifestyle.
You can’t just be normal because normal is against the rules.
You have to either push from one extreme or the next.
They say gay knows gay and a gay face, eyes, mouth, nostrils, or body language speaks a thousand words…
But if those qualities don’t apply to “you“, then “you” are single and alone….
I couldn’t help but wonder: