there are some males that will fall for you,
give you the most passionate slow strokes and tongue kissing,
may/will lure you into a relationship,
but will lose their shit when you want to tell the world about it.
those types will still see themselves as “straight” even tho…
Even tho they’ve been knee-deep in your foxhole.
(or you in their fox holes)
some males want to have the same sex experience but privately.
naasir johnson may have thought found the one.
kylen pratt allegedly took naasir’s life so people wouldn’t know it was him.
per the advocate…
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Police in Philadelphia arrested a man they say killed his gay lover and left the burning corpse in a local park in an effort to hide the pair’s sexual relationship.
Kylen Pratt, 20, was taken into custody Wednesday, June 15, and charged with the murder of Naasir Johnson, 20, whose charred remains were discovered just after noon on February 20 on a cobblestone trail in Fairmount Park.
Police believe the two men were romantically involved and Pratt, known locally as 29th Street Rich, killed the openly gay Naasir after the man threatened to go public with their relationship, according to Metro Weekly.
Cynthia Johnson said her grandson left in an Uber on the evening of February 17 and never returned. She reported him missing the following day. She said police told her Naasir’s phone last pinged at 12:20 a.m. on February 18 in the vicinity of Pratt’s home.
Police believe Pratt shot and killed Johnson at his home in North Philadelphia. The medical examiner found the cause of death to be a gunshot wound to the neck. Police allege Pratt later transported the body to Fairmount Park where it was discovered by passersby on February 20.
foxhole,
i want ya’ll to understand something:
If you find yourself having to threaten a male with his/ya’ll secrets,
you really need to understand it will not end well.
If you have to threaten a male,
because he wants to keep ya’ll relationship secret and you don’t,
you need to realize he might not be the one for you.
not everyone wants to be in a secret relationship.
some folks meet the dl male,
fall for him,
and then want everyone to know who he is.
some males are not ready for that.
If that doesn’t go with your ideas and beliefs about a relationship,
don’t date or fuck him.
Period.
you know what you’re getting into.
some of these males are very upfront with how they are gonna move.
YOU believe you’ll change him or act confused about why he isn’t budging.
Find the dick or foxhole that wants to claim you publicly if that’s what you want.
stop dealing with dl males that may kill you for potentially outing them.
yes,
he looks good and his masculinity is on point,
but he is also insecure af for even dealing with you outside the sex.
dl males need to stop dealing with other males that are looking for more.
yes,
he looks good and you can explore sexually with him,
but he will fall for “the fantasy” and your ass ain’t ready for all that.
Do people even talk or is it “let’s fuck and figure it out later”?
even though he left earth in the most horrific way possible,
may naasir rests in perfect peace.
lowkey: do these things happen because of two emotionally immature people?
i feel like if you have an honest discussion about expectations and boundaries,
maybe these things won’t happen so much?
article cc: the advocate
So horrible. Rest in peace, young Black gay king Naasir Johnson.
So sad, Handsome dude too, coulda got something way better, but sadly we be infatuated with the trade, and the young naive gays be thinking they have a “straight” man. No baby you got a gay nigga that has enough masculine traits to be able to pass into straight circles, but with that ability to pass also comes a desire to STAY in those circles by ANY means necessary
well said
But the ironic thing is Manu of these DL men want to hold the camera while receiving head and do all kinds of sexual rendezvous without outing themselves. Then on the flip many will try to hurt you when you say that you’re done having sex with them. It’s not love it’s obsession. Whether the openly gay guy falling for the DL trade. Or the DL trade wanting to keep his life as a “straight,” Man while engaging in gay activities. I’ve never threatened to out someone but I’ve been in situations where folks have this sense of entitlement, whether openly gay or DL, and they want you whenever they’re in the mood. Living in Philly I’ve heard about this story. It’s sickening. Foxhole please be careful in these streets.
^ ” these DL men want to hold the camera while receiving head and do all kinds of sexual rendezvous without outing themselves. Then on the flip many will try to hurt you when you say that you’re done having sex with them. It’s not love it’s obsession.”
“I’ve never threatened to out someone but I’ve been in situations where folks have this sense of entitlement, whether openly gay or DL, and they want you whenever they’re in the mood.”
110%
Hate recording…never liked it. Don’t even like pictures much buy I get it.
Baby,
You said an ENTIRE WORD!!!! 💯
You better speak it! Even when you tell people to let you know ahead of time when they want to get down, they never do. It’s so rude and disrespectful
That precious human being totally underestimated this heinous monster’s desire to keep a secret a secret. I wish the Youth could pipe down a notch and be a little more old skool with relationships and involvements.
In my day, a good fuck STAYED private between me and the individual involved. I think mystery is erotic and intriguing, but alas, this generation must tell, tell, tell.
This is why it is called a private life, because it should remain private. Now Kylens simple ass is outed, Naasir is dead, nobody wins.
^ tell,
tell,
tell and end up paying the price.
society has changed but the dl won’t ever change.
if you can’t handle what comes with it then don’t do it.
I agree and I def remember those days..and it’s not always about insecurity….sometimes it’s just privacy