there is usually one reason why most gay or bi males are usually extremely closeted.
the parents.
growing up,
i was literally scared of being a “buller”.
that is the bajan term for “faggot”.
my parents would toss that word around about males that were gay.
whenever they would point out someone crazy or shunned in barbados,
he always had a “buller” background behind him.
“He wears dresses and walks around talking to himself in broad daylight.
He a buller!”
bad enough,
i was struggling with liking the same sex.
i hated myself for even being different than the other boys.
just fonting about it triggers me.
so there is a video going viral of a little boy dancing to megan thee stallion’s “savage”.
this is what i saw on my twitter timeline…
I’m crying pic.twitter.com/bhAR5mb64q
— YLOVENCHY???????????????? (@ylo_gang_) May 8, 2020
this was her ig statement about it:
what a filthy rat.
i bet if her baby daddy popped her upside the head because it was “monday”,
she probably would have an excuse for that too.
this is what the cousin had to say:
This what her cuz had to say ???? pic.twitter.com/TufigYvw9m
— ODI (@odiammar) May 8, 2020
yeah,
there are people doing worst shit to kids,
but the emotional scars that kind of treatment leaves.
referring to a child as a “gay ass bitch” is disgusting.
he might not even be gay.
he might be just being a kid and doing whatever is exciting to him.
if he is gay or bi,
that is what makes kids turn into homophobic teens and adults.
that is what makes them sneak around with males,
while trying to keep up an image as “the man” to society.
it causes him to fuck every inch of pussy that crosses his path to prove himself.
it’s not that he even likes pussy.
Fuckin’ Tons of Pussy = I’m “Straight”
the worst part is he meets a gay males he’s into and plays mixed ass signals.
the minute he is exposed or has to confront his sexuality,
that could lead to him to feeling he did something “wrong”.
he will always remember how he was scolded for being remotely feminine.
next thing you know,
he is dead as a door nail or abusive to everyone who crosses his path.
Raise your fuckin’ children better than this
i was treated horribly by my parents and i’m still dealing with that shit.
i’m still battling demons from my childhood.
fuckin’ idiot.
listen i’m really passionate when it comes to dragging dumb ass parents.
they shouldn’t be having kids if they’re fucked up themselves.
Besides all of that…..Can we discuss that the video has 20,000 plus likes. That means that many people are fine with this. They find this acceptable which means they probably do it themselves at home.
Now, first let me say this. I am masculine and I don’t lean toward embracing feminine ways personally. I have nothing against feminine men unless they act like messy women, just as much as I don’t fool with messy straights.
I do want to run and hug that child and show him love like I would my own children. The look on his face and the action from the parent is a precursor to I should hate myself for being myself.
I don’t play when children are involved. That’s the quickest way for me to fvck you up swiftly.
I wish I could slap that bitch!!
She’s his Aunt, but the parents co-signed her response. Smh
No, the mother didn’t co-sign it. The mom and godmother got the police involved after both were made aware of the video 3 days after it was posted. https://twitter.com/filmovrfood/status/1259207040976646144
Has anyone ever watched “The Trials of Gabriel Hernandez”? It’s a 6-part documentary on Netflix that chronicles the murder of an 8-year old boy by his mother and her boyfriend. Such a tragic story of how his mother and the child welfare services failed him. One of the running themes of this story was his mother and her boyfriend referring to him as being gay. Parents can do so much damage to their children. That video should not be taken lightly. It’s going to be rough for that little boy growing up in that family.
Wow the whole family is jacked up from the mother to the cousin, I already see that this is the kind of parenting style of thinking you are a good parent because you are supplying all your child material needs but none of their emotional needs. This poor baby will have to be like so many millions of children who have to grow up with shitty ass dumb parents who have no business raising anything much less a child. This mother is a hateful ass bitch who is going to probably damage all of her children. Somebody call CPS .
I really hate ignorance.
People fail to realize that words have power and the harm of others do as well. This young boy will forever remember this moment. The moment his mom slapped and called him a “gay ass bitch”. Now he will forever question if he’s gay or not, even though he probably don’t even understand what gay means. No these word will follow him all his life. He will either fight and have to prove to himself that he’s not everyday, or be the very word that was spoken in shame.
Yeah this bitch got me fucked up. She must die. The nigga too. I hope and pray that boy finds folks who love him. Now, I’m about to find her ig and cyberbully 😂
Not tolerating that gay shit?? That’s what we’re doing in 2020? 🤦🏿♂️
First of state this neither one of these kids should not be doing anything related to “Megan Thee Stallion” or any music like this! She so concerned with the boy being gay they she ain’t paying attention to her damn and the fact that she should be doing that shit either!! These new parents don’t know what they doing at all!!
These new parents just as fucked up as the ones who raised us but I hear you.
HEARTBREAKING. I was only able to watch this once!!!
I dont think this child has a chance…if his mom thinks this about him…his daddy or her boyfriend is probably doing worse to him and we will never see it
..unfortunately ignorance is rampant in our communities. Just off the grammatical errors alone, you already know what it do. But my mother always said GOD looks out for fools and babies, so I hope that baby stands a chance.
So Sad 😢
I’m praying for this beautiful boy that he is not harmed even more so by his family.I have read too many stories of little boys injured or killed by parents who subscribe to that toxic masculinity where everything except breathing is “gay” .Dancing is “gay”,eating bananas and pickles is “gay”,etc..I just saw a post on IG where a guy asked other men if they would let a guy(professional hair braider) braid their hair.I guess letting a guy braid your hair is “gay” too.SMH