so i was having a conversation the other day and it made me go heavy on the eye roll.
for some odd reason last week,
i kept seeing the sexiest wolves everywhere.
it put me in my feelings because my phone is dry af right now.
so i said:
“have you ever felt like the people you are attracted to don’t look at you?
do they ever feel invisible?”
so they responded:
“your problem is you’re looking at too much good looking males.
you need to deal with someone who might not be physically attractive,
but likes you.“
^that is where i eye rolled.
it’s funny coming from them tho because they settled.
a few week ago i was hearing an earful about someone that “liked them for them”.
it turned out that he was a demon from the depths of hell.
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we need to always remember that 90% of males just ain’t shit.
in gay males,
that percentage goes down even further.
males who are sexy af will play you for stupid,
just like males who aren’t attractive that will play you like a fiddle.
out males may do the same shit dl/discreet males will do,
but in an entirely different way.
i hate when gays say out is magically better than dl/discreet.
some of them are even worse since they “know” themselves.
a majority of these males out here are:
high or low end prostitutes
low self esteem/worth/both
uses material possessions as their calling card
narcissistic and way too self absorbed for own good
abusive in all ways (emotionally, physically, mentally)
addicted to sex sites; sex in general
spitefully spreading diseases without a care in the world
the “fuckboi demon” doesn’t have a look or checks a particular box.
it lurks in everyone,
i’ve learned some males just want to conquer you.
they see you as a challenge and will try to destroy your self esteem.
most of the times they use:
…to have you all fucked up out here.
they’ll take advantage of you because they can sniff out your issues.
your low self esteem and people pleasing are the biggest magnets for drama.
i’ve seen it happen countless times.
to others and even myself.
i know males,
who aren’t societies standards of attractive,
acting on the same level or worse than those who are.
when you add money and a high social media presence then forget it.
the ones who aren’t cute have to learn other techniques to play you.
it’s all about being an “alpha” when most of these males are “beta”.
it’s about being “the man” when the “the bitch” is on the high key.
so when folks tell you to settle,
i see that as being “desperate”.
fuck with those who you find attractive in YOUR EYES.
don’t settle because you’re lonely.
stop jumping into these “situation-ships” because you fucked one time.
you don’t even know this dude!
the demon tends to appear once the “honeymoon” stage is over.
but we try to ignore the signs.
i’d rather sleep good than go through most of these relationship issues.
some of the shit i hear/see nowadays…
…i couldn’t be gone fast enough!!!!!!
you’ll fuck with a ton of “ughs” before you meet “the one”,
if you ever do.
make sure that as you’re doing you on the single situation,
you’re living good.
sometimes you do need to learn the various stages of “fuck shit” tho.
we can’t become teflon dons if we don’t get broken.
lowkey: if ima be dealing with fuck shit,
a least let the wolf be fine.
i mean bawdy tf goals and the dick from krypton.
don’t act like you don’t screw your face up when someone else is dealing with the drama from someone ugly.
“…but i liked him for his spirit!” – they said.