settling.
there was a time in my life where i was cool with settling for a wolf.
in those important “seeing if we are compatible” stages,
i wanted to be the ultimate fantasy to date or fuck.
“I want someone who will suck my dick every morning and let me fuck every night.” – wolf 1
“Yup! That’s me.”
“I only want to be in an open relationship.” – wolf 2
“I’ll do it!”
“I want to date both you and my current girlfriend.” – wolf 3
“That won’t be a problem!”
or one of my past favorite lines that never was me:
“I’m not looking for anything serious like you are either.”
…when i actually was,
but that phrase sounded better so i could be picked over the others who wanted him.
it was all a “no bueno” for me,
but like a job,
i simply agreed so i wouldn’t be single.
like the jobs,
i end up not being with those wolves long term either.
i’ve been having thoughts on the great settlers on the relationship plains…
Why do we think settling will keep us happy in the long run?
hmm…
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