sit lets have a talk.
one on one…
so you would be surprised who reads my site.
i have a ton of lurkers from all walks of life.
i have some industry lurkers who also check me out.
i feel this should go out to them,
especially after that kevin terry debacle that happened today.
this is for ANYONE already in the public eye,
pursuing a career in the public eye,
or simply have a lot to lose in life.
so you happen to be in the lifestyle.
and having fun right now.
you are trying to be “on the low” and trying to become public figure.
whether you are the next luther vandross or trying to be a blogger like myself,
you can’t do what the regular joe blows would do.
going out the gay clubs,
making sex tapes,
having fights with the queens,
and just being completely ratchet is now out of the question.
we live in a digital world where nothing dies.
you have to carry yourself differently.
your movement needs to be more thought out.
people will start to look up to you and respect you.
businesses will start investing in you.
your life will change.
depending on where you’re trying to go in your career,
gay scandals are hard to bounce back from.
a fuckin GOSPEL ARTIST,
should have known not to have his lips on anyone’s pipe on FILM.
something that could ruin your life,
and your money.
you can’t pursue being a public figure with secrets that could destroy you.
its one thing for people to think or assume,
because its face it everyone has a great “gay rumor”,
but when there is solid proof like videos and pictures…
regardless of being out or not,
scandals are bad for any business.
you are BLACK living in a WHITE world.
we don’t bounce back as easily especially with the crab in barrel shit.
you are not an armenian hoe who was born into money with a vulture for a mama.
people have to start making better choices and stop being so sloppy.
s’all i’m saying.
you may think i’m being mean or rude,
but the truth hurts.
now i will give you one caveat:
find a way to have those secrets put to rest before entering the industry.
and why you got dusty “nothing to lose” commoners with your secrets for anyway?
this is why i can’t stress enough:
mess with people who have just as much to lose as you do.
you’re free to go.