i hate when people who don’t want kids are continuously asked why they don’t want kids,
like certain childless celebs or people who get continuously asked by their parents or relatives.

BECAUSE THEY MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE THEM OR DON’T WANT THEM.

not everyone’s desire is to be a parent.
better yet,
some people can’t have kids because their bawdies won’t allow them to.
that can be very insulting and nasty especially from parents.

“when you gonna get me some grand babies?”,
like,
you weren’t even a good parent to me so why would i leave my child with you,
ya insufferable bitch.

Foxhole,
don’t go sayin’ that to your mother cause she may slap you.
i was thinking to myself yesterday:

“at no point in my life have i ever wanted to be a dad.”

i have never felt the urgency for fatherhood.
i see cute kids all the time,
and many of my friends have adorable kids but…

… but i don’t want ANY of that in my house.

#sorrynotsorry

imagine all the shit i go through,
and then add taking care of a kid on top of that?
i would have lost my fox azz mind.

imagine if God had an awful sense of humor and males could get pregnant?

OMG…
all the shit i go through,
add a kid,
and add a work wolf as a baby daddy on top of that?

barf.

the thing that annoys me is those who judge you for not wanting kids.
remember the old rules?
males and vixens who don’t want kids were “gay, weird, or evil“.
these days,
people will proudly boast they don’t want kids because:

the economy sucks
the future is looking bleak
kids are fuckin’ annoying

i don’t care if my manz has kids.
he better be a good dad cause i don’t “do” deadbeat DILF,
but don’t even ask me to do that “kid thing”.
“that kid thing” better be a puppy,
kitten,
or some child in another country we sponsor every month.
from my observations IRL and under burners on reddit:

there are a TON of people who regret having kids.

either life didn’t go as planned,
to stop the gay rumors,
parental pressure for “them grand babies”,
the “ain’t shit baby daddy/momma files“,
or it was cute until the honeymoon phase was over.

if others want kids,
more power to them,
i 110% do NOT want kids and i’d appreciate not being bullied because of it.

lowkey: i’ll never forget someone telling me…

“jamari,
you need to have a kid because when you get old,
who is gonna take care of you?”

sooooooo,
i’m having a kid so it can be my future caretaker?
how gross is that?
what if that child can’t stand me to even visit in the old folk’s home?
like,
that toddler could turn into the teenager who hates my ass QUICK.
please.