when jlo got with a-rod,
i seriously thought that it might work.
a-rod manifested jlo into his life:
they seemed really into each other on socials and their kids seem to take to the relationship well.
in typical jlo fashion,
something went wrong and they broke up.
( x see it here )
jlo has the ability to get wolves and a ring out of them,
but somewhere down the line,
it never works out.
i had to wonder…
Is it “her” that is the issue?
jlo comes off very high maintenance,
but it seems the wolves she picks are either fuck bois,
make way less money than her,
or are kinda sus.
i thought r-rod would work because they seemed to have the same kind of synergy.
i think most wolves are drawn to her intense leo energy…
…but i don’t think they can keep up with all that she brings.
she brings the lights,
and social media posts.
We see this is a lot of relationships these days.
you can tell by all the laying it on thick on social media.
this trying to prove they’re happy,
but bts is a whole nother story.
Many people that are together are not compatible with each other.
they don’t want to admit this.
one is googly-eyed; the other is miserable.
one is trying to be “the one“; the other is there for sex and comfort.
instead of breaking up,
they lay it on thick to let everyone think it’s working.
once it ends,
it usually is a whole mess and a ton of revelations behind it.
you can’t run from the truth forever.
i think jlo needs to casually date and have sex when she pleases.
her idea of love seems to differ from all of her past relationships.
i think they like the idea of “jlo”…
but can’t handle “jlo”,
if that makes sense.
it’s similar to how some of us date these days.
we like the idea of the person but it’s laced in fantasy.
she also needs to take a break from finding “the one”.
she breaks up with someone and jumps into another relationship at the speed of light.
Did you take time to clear out the baggage from the last relationship?
she tends to become the males she dates too,
which makes me think she might not know who she is.
i don’t know who jlo with end up with next,
but i kinda think she needs to be with herself for a while.
“the one” might need her to do that so they can work.
lowkey: i have had so many males waste my time that i thought were “the one”,
i’m wondering if i’ll find anyone that will be what i’m looking for anymore.
the last wolf i was really interested in last year hurt my feelings tbh.
thank God i’m moving forward in optimism,
but it be hard yo.