many of us in our late 20s,
30s,
and 40s are still trying to find a sense of direction.
remember when we were so confident when we were younger?
“we had all the time in the world” – molly.
now it seems like we don’t have much time at all these days.
in these crazy times,
it’s easy to fall into the:

“I’m not where I need to be!”

…venus fly trap of insecure thinking.
we watch everyone else making moves,
living these amazing lives,
but we’re still at the starting line or running in the wrong direction.
that is how i felt after watching the newest episode of insecure,
“reunited okay?!”,
for their final season.
i legit cried…

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when “hello” from adele came out back in 2015,
i was dealing with a lot to feel sad about.
i was in “crush” with a work wolf that would end a year later.
it was legit “hello from the other side” when we stopped speaking.
that song would become a blanket of comfort i would listen to over and over.
i like songs that come out and speak about your exact situation.
you bee like:

“Uh,
have you been stalking me?!?!?”

 my favorite part of that song was the background vocals during the bridge.
they described my emotions at that moment.

Highs,
Highs,
Highs,
Highs,
Lows,
Lows,
Lows,
Lows…

it is literally one of my favorite songs from adele.
it would be on the soundtrack of my life.
i waited patiently because spotify told me the song was gonna be released at 7pm.
i was listening to wizkid and his album ended right at 705pm.
you know a fox gotta come fashionably late.

my thoughts…

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i saw a video on freak twitter today and i wanted to ask the foxhole about it.
in the video,
the wolf is tearing into a vixen.
judging from his face:

…he was breaking his pipe off in her tail.
i saw some comments under the tweet claiming he was allegedly raping her.
i wanted to ask the foxhole…

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 lil nas x (lnx) is one of those you gotta be careful with.
you say/font the wrong thing and you’ll be eaten for lunch.
you remember the kadoment that happened in his last entry.
( x see it here )
after the kiss heard around the world at the bet awards,
i wanted to know what was next for lnx.
while on my sabbatical,
he came out with a video for the song,
“industry baby” with jack harlow.
it was produced by kanye west which tripped me tf out.
the foxhole has been wanting my opinion on the video and ima be 110…

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i don’t like anything diet.
it takes the flavor out of things that i enjoy.
i love watching shows that highlight “the haves” side of new yawk.
that is one of the reasons i loved og gossip girl.
as silly as it could be,
it showed another side of new yawk that many aren’t privileged to.
it makes me want to be better and live better.
it would be a no-brainer that i tuned into “gossip girl 2021” even with all the weird changes.
i finished the second episode and…

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there are some artists who will have always people talking.
no matter what they do,
it will be a subject of conversation.
i’d like to think lnx aka lil nas x is one of those people.
he left “old town county road” and made his new residence at “the gates of damnation“.
as someone who loves to make people lose their shit,
it warms my heart to see the straights and church folks go into cardiac arrest.
last night,
he continued his death streak with his performance at the bet awards.
he performed his song,
“call me by your name“:

…and at the end,
sealed it with a kiss.

 it was very entertaining to watch,
but i had to wonder…

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