SO WE KEEP THIS KIND OF MALE HIDDEN FROM THE PUBLIC OR…?

 

let’s say i’m out and about,
minding my business,
and manz comes up to me and starts kickin’ his interest my way.
it could be in the streets,
at an event,
or in dms.
he is my type and i’m hella interested.
he takes me out and i end up really feeling this dude.

He ain’t NOTHING I’ve ever kicked it with before.

we go on more dates,
conversations are dope,
my interest intensifies and we finally have sex.

SEX IS MIND-BLOWING

…and,
AND,
the mofo calls and wants to see me again.
so i’m open in all ways but he looks like this…

he is white and looks like aaron taylor-johnson.
i’ve been into aaron since godzilla and savages.

 

here is the thing:

I LOVE BLACK MALES AND LOOK FOR BLACK MALES FIRST

…but what if i meet a white male who is high-key interested in me?
one who has flava cause i ain’t dating no wonderbread.
i don’t want to be accused of self-hate because the foxhole knows me.
others will still go:

“MMMMMHMMMM.
Here go Jamari with his white man”

…but am i supposed to wait forever for a black male?
i’m sorry if i meet a wolf that looks like aaron taylor-johnsonnnn…

folks will have to “get it“.
don’t even get me  started on the fact he has face,

bawdy,
pipe,
and tail to boot.

( x see more here )
it’d be hard to turn a fine white male down tbh.
you’ll get judged for coming out with one regardless.

lowkey: he looks like my first in so many ways.
i think thats why i’m high key attracted to aaron.
he resembles someone i use to know but he wasn’t white.

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

34 thoughts on “SO WE KEEP THIS KIND OF MALE HIDDEN FROM THE PUBLIC OR…?”

  1. The issue to me isn’t dating white guys it’s the standard they hold black men to while dating unattractive white men

    Black boys gotta be masculine , 6 pack , 6ft plus, educated, hood, professional, aggressive

    But all the white dudes gotta be they dating is: white

  2. Everyone else can want US, but WE are constantly encouraged to look elsewhere…

    Everyone, do you…but MISS me with that. LOL

  3. who cares what anyone else thinks…make yourself happy….all these people with their opinions are not paying your bills or walking in your shoes..who cares what strangers think

  4. It’s not interracial dating that bothers me. What bothers me is whenever Black Men date other women or Men from different races they have to go on a rant about why they don’t won’t date Black people. They’ll even say No Blacks. Whereas a White person would say they prefer BBC but won’t go a rant disrespecting their culture. That’s the self-hatred indoctrination. Love is Love but they shouldn’t diminish themselves to appear pristine for their white dating prospects

    1. ^okay i see your point.
      it def wouldn’t be me because i’ll still date a black male in a heartbeat.
      i’m attracted to atttractiveness tbh.
      i’ll date whoever is interested in me and i’m interested in them.

    2. PREACH That!!! Don’t care who people prefer to date…but don’t disrespect us black people to uplift them! That’s like that black guy who disrespected black women all on social media, while uplifting and praising white women, only to be KILLED by a WHITE woman. Isn’t that ironic. Just love who you love and leave us alone. #blacklove

  5. I date what like me. If that mean white, Asian, Latino. I refuse to limit myself to what other people think.

    1. PeriodT! I’m not about to stick to black to impress a bunch of crabs in a barrel ass muhfuckas. I’m gonna be the nigga y’all talking shit about because you’re jealous and bitter that I found love and you’re still on Grindr at 56 talking bout you a professional dick sucker since thats all you’ve been reduced too.

      I would love to be in a black power couple like J Bolin and his man from Styling Hollywood. But I’m not holding my breath or limiting myself.

      1. You need to just go on head and date outside your race permanently. I’d hate if I ended up with a negro like you.

        1. Trust you don’t stand a chance with me. I need mental stimulation which is something we all know you can’t provide. That’s cute and flattering that you actually thought you had a chance though lmfao!

        2. He did too much Normie. Hence him getting defensive and going off. Why have “To Be Young, Gay and Black” as his username? For all of these “don’t make it about race” peeps, that seems to be ALL that they do.

          He clearly wants a white prince charming to rescue him so he can talk about how Callum did him right and Tyrone made him struggle.

          1. Boy shut up with your sensitive hotep wannabe ass. I don’t need to be rescued from a damn thing. The crabs in a barrel love commenting on my comments once I strike a nerve. It’s giving y’all are the ones on Grindr offering up blowjobs and ass because trade won’t claim you.

  6. Do you Jamari — Aaron is a snack, white or not!

    How about a Black man from a European country, or from Africa? They appear to be more worldly than a brother from the US, with less baggage…whaddya think?

  7. As long as you dont become one of our black brethren who PREFERS LIGHT, BRIGHT, AND/OR WHITE over everyone else, I aint got no problems with it. Have fun and enjoy the ride!

  8. J, all that matters is if he treats you well & respects you as a person. A person’s race shouldn’t be a factor. More power to you if you’re getting a fine man like that. You deserve happiness w/someone!

    I haven’t seen anything w/Aaron in it since his turn as the naked redneck on the outdoor toilet in Nocturnal Animals, loved that movie. Loved him in the Kick Ass movies too. He is truly packin’ in every sense of the word & talented af.

  9. Jamari. You are not gonna end up with a White man just based off the fact that sexually they are selfish & lazy. If you ever find yourself in a relationship with one, you will be the TOP! I see so many Black “tops” wanting white dick but never getting it because the small amount of White tops there are, do not fuck Black men. Hell the White tops themselves want to be dicked down by their own kind but can never find another White man to do it. TO be truthful that’s why so many White men getting dicked down by Black men.

    You have better chances getting a Latin top. If you’re yearning that bad for a White man move to Europe or Canada.

    1. We have to talk about this also the issue with Black men is we haven’t repaired our image and that’s internally within the community how we feel about ourselves as well as how we appear

      Some Black women are divesting meaning dating outside of their race if they see fit but they’re doing corrective promotion working on their image so as to not be perceived by the world as fat lazy or unattractive

      Black gay men need to first get therapy for these sex addictions so we value our worth as more than BBC this is a barrier when it comes to dating bc other races want us to play into a trope that’s why it’s rare you see Latinos or whites wanting to top us because the public image is that we are all big dick tops so when you aren’t a top, you’re seen as weird or week.

      Corrective promotion will help us be better and help good Black men find other good Black men versus scrubs and therefore less of us will have the mindset “I’ll just date a white man” that comes from a history of disappointment

    2. I have encountered white men in person who made it very clear they wanted my cheeks without me even stating my preference. (White men are very bold) But I believe a white TOP, would be a TOP with a white man and a vers top with a Black guy. I feel like the Black guy would have to be SUPER fem and not packing for the white guy to top exclusively.

      It’s not that white men are all bottoms, it’s that white men have been at the top of masculinity in the media and I’m sure they want to bask in their bottomness once in a while.

      What you said about Latin had me dying! They and Middle Eastern men have so much internalize homophobia from their cultures you will get your strict top without looking too hard. For Middle Eastern men, masculinity is a huge deal so trust he will be piping you DOWN and if you try to rim him, he may just end up taking your life.

  10. If that man wants you and he looks like Aaron, Jason Momoa, Chris Evans, Tom Holland, it doesn’t matter, long as he treat you like the man you want to be treated as, that’s all that matters. Regardless of his race. Look at Shaun T, Scott love that man to death and their kids are adorable. Give me a Scott or whatever Karamo new boyfriend name is anyday. Love is love. Racism exist but that doesn’t mean we have to act like all people are racist. Some people need to look in the mirror and start with them first. Long as the love is real, who cares what anybody says or thinks. Don’t let them block your blessing.

  11. Considering how bgm can be in a room full of bgm and all they do is stare (at dudes or their phones) and remain silent when they’re not talking to the clique they came with, blame them. Mofos can always suddenly use their words once they see a black man dating ‘out’.

    As long as it’s not an ‘I don’t date blacks’, token black in a circle talking about how they don’t see color, and dude knows that he’s gonna have to be down to leave Whitelandia and hit the BBQ w your cuzzins in Negronia sometimes, do you.

  12. As someone who is attracted to all races of men, I personally would always have to understand that if I were to look at an interracial couple in a certain way, then I have no room to talk if someone looks at me the same way for doing the exact same thing. A man is a man, yes there are cultural and social differences, but if you both are hitting it off, I’m sure that becomes more fun than scary.

    It would be incredibly foolish to throw away a good (and apparently HOT!) man because you are waiting for an option that you don’t necessarily see as more ideal yourself, but one that would make it easier for you to operate in your circles . In my opinion if those people are worthy of being in your life, instead of responding with “MMMMMHMMMM.
    HERE GO JAMARI WITH HIS WHITE MAN” it would be something more along the lines of “Oooh! his man is a cutie!”.

    As far as the discussion of Divesting…. I think that whole topic is frankly idiotic. Saying “I deserve better so I’m going to stop dating Black people” as opposed to “I deserve better so I am going to work on myself and be a better me, which will in tern bring in more ideal partners” honestly makes me think that said person has a low IQ and problem solving skills.

  13. Remember when DeBlasio made a joke about CP time because his wife is Black? That’s interracial gone wrong. When now they think you’re their pass to the culture. No, you stay quiet and be grateful you were invited.

    Jamari, there’s a difference between telling other Black men to give other men a chance if they pursue and that “the white side is the right side” because “Black men are too emotionally immature to be in stable relationships and white men are more well-adjusted”. That’s coon speak. Notice how it excludes EVERY other race as if white is the only race?

    Telling someone to give a chance to a guy interested in them who isn’t Black, isn’t “stop dealing with n*ggas, they ain’t got no net worth, get you a white man, sis”. Gay Black men do very well for themselves so if YOU attract bums, that’s on you.

    I have been entertaining non-Black men all pandemic. I haven’t slept with or dated them.

    But the sad part is when they’re not Black, they feel they have something to lose. When it’s another Black men, the sense of urgency is “Oh, it’s just you. I can get another”. NonBlack people see us as not replaceable because being Black IS the moment. They know it’s not easy to impress us.

    You hear nonBlack men say they feel Black women don’t want them, because Black women are quick to call anyone who isn’t Black, “corny”. Black women are loyal to Black men, which is a shame as it’s not reciprocated. NO other race downs their women as much as Black men. Black man have their finger on the pulse and like CUCKS CONSTANTLY disrespect Black women! It infuriates me. People look to straight Black men to dictate what is “cool” and what do they do? This lightskinned and exotical mess and uplifting anything but Black.

    LOOK AT CHRIS BROWN. Black women LIVE FOR HIM. The darkest he’s been with was RIhanna and she is biracial(not many people acknowledge that) He also is known to disrespect Black women in person and Black women STILL go up for him. If anybody needs to date out, it’s Black women. Black men like “Fresh and Fit” use their status and wealth to disrespect Black women. So when it comes to Will Smith, it’s about darn time he stood up for a Black women. With all of his roles, it’s usually with a non-Black woman, so his “OscarsSoWhite” had me sideyeing him.

    At any rate, date who you want. But if you give them a “cookout pass” that grants them Blackness or to “speak on Black issues”, expect us to come for you.

    And yes, this was directed to that Britney fan.

    1. But the sad part is when they’re not Black, they feel they have something to lose. When it’s another Black men, the sense of urgency is “Oh, it’s just you. I can get another”. NonBlack people see us as not replaceable because being Black IS the moment. They know it’s not easy to impress us.

      You hear nonBlack men say they feel Black women don’t want them, because Black women are quick to call anyone who isn’t Black, “corny”. Black women are loyal to Black men, which is a shame as it’s not reciprocated. NO other race downs their women as much as Black men. Black man have their finger on the pulse and like CUCKS CONSTANTLY disrespect Black women! It infuriates me. People look to straight Black men to dictate what is “cool” and what do they do? This lightskinned and exotical mess and uplifting anything but Black.

      LOOK AT CHRIS BROWN. Black women LIVE FOR HIM. The darkest he’s been with was RIhanna and she is biracial(not many people acknowledge that) He also is known to disrespect Black women in person and Black women STILL go up for him.

      AMEN. And Chris was with Tina, his former manager but she was a groomer but she was in her 30s and dark skinned but of course that was always under wraps

      The thing about urgency is spot on

      I was enamored by a Dominican guy who only dated white boys so I had to cut that ass off but he said the reason he dated the white guys was bc they were willing to get into a relationship it wasn’t a 2 year talking phase and also they didn’t know his friends so he didn’t have to worry about his reputation in the community and other black boys having one up on him by fucking on his man

      And I gotta say it took years but I get it now

      However, I explained to him he’s always going to be the liability . They always will think he’s beneath them especially bc he lacks college education and he’s “from the hood” no matter how many coffee houses he visits, he’s their spicy Latin

  14. He just looks like a blank wall to me Lol. Sorry…well not sorry. But I have NEVER and won’t EVER be attracted to a white man. Well any non-black man. There is nothing like the beauty and the love of a good black man. But for those who do date interracially, that is awesome! Do you and whomever you please. Enjoy #blacklove

If you wouldn't say it on live TV with all your family and friends watching, without getting canceled or locked up, don't say it on here. Stay on topic, no SPAM, and keep it respectful. Thanks!

%d bloggers like this: