Relationships Might B For The Birds

Was there a memo that it was  “Break Up With A Nigga” weekend?

So many couples I know were fighting.
I mean, the statuses I saw were crazy.
I had to ask myself:

Do I really want to deal with that shit?

A Vixen friend of mine was the extreme case of breaking up this weekend.
Her Wolf cold flipped on her and kicked her out his crib.
He claims she was disrespecting him, but it was the classic case of “growing apart” and “I am not an effective communicator on HIS part“.

I DON’T WANT TO SEE YOUR FUCKIN FACE AGAIN
GET THE FUCK OUT
IMA PUT ALL YOUR SHIT ON THE PORCH
FUCK YOU. FUCK YA LIFE.


…and that was just the texts!

I’m sorry..
…but maybe I have no patience to be in a full blown relationship.
As much as I’d like a Wolf, I’m pretty satisfied being single and having fun.
Maybe I can meet a Wolf who is interested in being friends… who fuck on occasion?
I already know not every situation is the same and many Wolves are indeed different.
I just don’t want to have to punch a nigga in his throat for disrespecting me.
I also wouldn’t be shacking up with some Wolf I just met…
But that’s a whole nother story.

But you know spring is coming up so many Wolves, Foxes, and Vixens are cleaning out their winter inventory.
You know as soon as a little sun and warmth start happening,
people start to lose their minds.

SMH.

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

4 thoughts on “Relationships Might B For The Birds

  1. People who are only together for trivial things will experience this. Where if something as routine as the changing of the season is enough to illicit behaviors and ideas you’ve never paid attention to before (because I’m sure the signs were there), your relationship was doomed from the start. You can try and settle for an emotionally unavailable type who only calls you for an ego stroke and few other strokes but in the end you’ll want more and he will not be able to give it to you.

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