Bottoms have something in common with the average female.
Not because we have to take the dick however it is offered.
Often times,
we are in the submissive role.
Or we sometimes go through the same Waiting 2 Exhale shit.
Some of that maybe true.
But, we deal with the same things they do.
While thanking our lucky stars we do not deal with periods.
I am like a female, but still a man.
And I will explain why,
without sounding like I was snorting coke tonight…
So let me see if I can get this right.
I’m like a female.
A pretty female in this gay world we reside in.
Truthfully, I have come to the conclusion I do NOT get along with other bottoms.
And I am starting to only like hanging/talking too/chillin with TOPS.
The same way some females say they only hang with guys.
After these latest events with some “friends” of mine,
I am starting to notice a particular trend with bottoms I become friends with.
It always ends in some kind of drama.
Not that I haven’t tried to make lasting friendships.
Jamari is all about meeting new people and getting connected.
BUT, when it comes to gay men, alot of them tend to act like catty females
and I am definitely a threat to the insecure ESPECIALLY when it comes to men.
That is why I like hanging with TOPS, a cool female, or straight dudes.
The way I see it, there is a balance.
We are NOT competing for the same thing.
Well besides the female, but she should be attracting STRAIGHT men.
I’m not saying I can’t chill with bottoms
but I can only chill with the bottoms who are less drama; more friendship and know they have dicks.
Even though we are men,
ALL MEN,
this lifestyle has ALOT of little girls that play little girl games.
I’m not for it.
I hope that made some kind of sense. LOL
If not,
maybe it was too deep to be understood.
Later Foxes.
Im gunna have to go against the grain and say all my friends are bottoms and we get along pretty well. The difference being we have a mutual understanding that we are not in competition. We have jobs and cars and struggles and use each other as a support system. Plus we’re way over that self-hatred thing.
Can you send some of them my way!? Lol
Man this is so so so true we bottoms do like so much like women lol, funny but true. I like your blog man keep up the good work.
I agree…bottoms can be so messy and childish.
And that is the problem. That is why I am liking hanging with more TOPS. They have their own messiness but at least we aren’t competing.
I understand where you coming from.
Iam a bottom & all the bottoms Ive ever met were catty, trifflin, jealous, sneaky, and needed to be center of attention. Now I only kick it with tops & a few straight folks.
😉
p.s. i love the blog!
Thanks baby. Don’t be a stranger.
What’s good baby boy see you still holding it down