Bottoms have something in common with the average female.
Not because we have to take the dick however it is offered.
we are in the submissive role.
Or we sometimes go through the same Waiting 2 Exhale shit.
Some of that maybe true.
But, we deal with the same things they do.
While thanking our lucky stars we do not deal with periods.
I am like a female, but still a man.
And I will explain why,
without sounding like I was snorting coke tonight…
So let me see if I can get this right.
I’m like a female.
A pretty female in this gay world we reside in.
Truthfully, I have come to the conclusion I do NOT get along with other bottoms.
And I am starting to only like hanging/talking too/chillin with TOPS.
The same way some females say they only hang with guys.
After these latest events with some “friends” of mine,
I am starting to notice a particular trend with bottoms I become friends with.
It always ends in some kind of drama.
Not that I haven’t tried to make lasting friendships.
Jamari is all about meeting new people and getting connected.
BUT, when it comes to gay men, alot of them tend to act like catty females
and I am definitely a threat to the insecure ESPECIALLY when it comes to men.
That is why I like hanging with TOPS, a cool female, or straight dudes.
The way I see it, there is a balance.
We are NOT competing for the same thing.
Well besides the female, but she should be attracting STRAIGHT men.
I’m not saying I can’t chill with bottoms
but I can only chill with the bottoms who are less drama; more friendship and know they have dicks.
Even though we are men,
this lifestyle has ALOT of little girls that play little girl games.
I’m not for it.
I hope that made some kind of sense. LOL
maybe it was too deep to be understood.