I’m having a lil dilemma reading this past prison wolf Im employed with. When I first met him 2 months ago I noticed the natural attraction I have for him. He’s dark skin, about 45, 6’3, permanent gold fronts and hella cool. He’s a daddy type, a SEXXXY daddy type. So everyday we come in to work he sees me, makes his way over and starts up a convo. Every convo ends the same; on sex. He talks about how he be fucking women, how big. His dick is, his stroke game, alotta mature real black man shit. It’s so sexy to me, but anywho I’m a very attractive male with a nice physique. I’m masc and I have a big round butt that alotta guys require. No one here knows I’m gay except him. He can tell for some reason but I can’t tell about him. He’s always talking about sex as people he’s gonna fuck, I just need some help. If he is down, how do I proceed. how would I know if he isn’t? I just don’t wanna be rejected I mean I have before but not by someone I’m naturally attracted too and yes Jamari he can tell from my smiles and the way I respond back, I even brought him lunch yesterday and I don’t know what to say. I think he wants to fuck me and I would love to let him on the regular.
Plz give me some of that infinite knowledge and wisdom.
(viewer discretion strongly advised)…
there was a “straight” wolf i knew back.
he ran with some other straight wolves i went to school with.
he was cute.
a dark exxotical mix.
black and dominican.
beautiful long hair he kept freshly braided.
he was also insanely popular since he played ball.
just my type.
well this wolf liked to talk about head.
anytime i was around him,
he would talk about how he wanted his dick sucked.
“i need a bitch to give me some good head yo!”
it was very random,
but i knew he was secretly directing it to me.
the staring in my eyes and the way he watched my mouth as i spoke…
well one day,
he randomly showed up at my crib.
when i opened the door,
i gave him dap,
and he said he wanted to come through to “chill”.
when i told him that some of the other wolves was already here,
he said under his breath…
“damn these n*ggas always here…”
some wolves talk in codes.
some are still in the closet and use those codes for you to crack.
he knows you are gay,
he is straight,
and is trying to prove his manhood.
that jailbird wolf wants those round buns and he wants them bad.
just continue to speak with him as normal.
don’t do anything out of character.
remember you’re at work.
act like a horny teenage girl,
or do this:
just chill and go with his flow.
i have learned with wolves like this,
they want to be in control.
its all in the chase for them.
some move much slower than others.
if you fuck up the tempo,
then the spell will be gone.
plenty of deep eye contact and be open with your body language.
be bold and ask:
“so did you make them cum?”
“damn it sounds like you out here making these people dickmatized.”
“damn it sounds like you should be teaching classes then…”
…in a joking way of course.
see where he takes that.
learn to flirt by “playing the dumb fox”.
the dumb fox knows how to ask the right questions.
one thing you said did bother me tho:
“I even brought him lunch yesterday”
you did what?
this is where you will fuck up.
you will go from buying him lunch,
to paying his phone bill,
and then his rent if he is lucky.
this is a sexual thing.
you don’t need to be buying him anything out of insecurity.
remember: he is a jailbird wolf.
they are natural born hustlers.
the streets raised him to hustle.
“fuck them beyond good and they will sponsor my life”
so if you want to ride that dick,
and i can tell you want it,
then keep it strictly as sex.
anything else is OD and grounds for foxhole termination.
keep me updated.
MAKE SURE HE PRESENTS THE PROPER TEST RESULTS
again: he is a jailbird wolf.
they are natural born hustlers.
hope this helped!