you ever notice in the 90s black movies,
the hot wolf always falls for a bonafide main character bitch?
sanaa lathan.
jada pinkett.
gabrielle union.
they always played some straight up bitches in those movies.
the main character was always on some,
“i like you but you gonna have your shit all the way together to deal with me”?
i’ve been stewing on a video i saw a few days ago.
it was a fed up vixen venting about how black males are hard to love.
this is the video here via “the neighborhood talk“:
i can sit up here,
fonting about how “ain’t shit” many black males are…
but ima keep it 110%…
many of us have low self esteem,
so we don’t check a pineapple when they show up stupid.
we allow them to do whatever because we are so desperate for HIM.
we like to entertain bullshit with the same ain’t shit black males,
whether he is straight or gay.
we see the red flags a mile away,
but we like to still walk towards the red flags a mile away.
many of us think we over pour the love and niceness,
and for some the finances,
he will see we are special and gonna treat us different.
no baby,
you not special and he’s gonna treat you like a dumb bitch.
to be treated different,
you gotta act different than what a pineapple is used to.
high key,
and they can deny all they want,
but they love when you talk back and treat em like an afterthought.
deep down inside,
some of these black males are insecure AF.
when we lead with our own insecurities,
they feed off our insecurities and use it against us.
a lot of these pineapples that got a lot of bark ain’t got no bite.
that’s why when they meet their match,
they are bow the fuck down very quickly.
their “match” has audacity because they have dated/fucked good looking males before.
its like rich folks don’t worry about getting money.
when we are use to something regularly,
we never worry about how we gonna get it.
that is why its easy for them to bag any fine mofo off rih’s socials are on in the forests.
it’s like:
how we know how to handle someone we aren’t attracted to.
we have a lot of brand new confidence and mouth when we aren’t interested.
it’s bringing that same energy to when we are into someone as well.
i’m just keep it 110%.
which means,
who cares if he got muscles,
a big pipe,
or a fat butt.
you gonna drop him like a bad habit at the first sign of disrespect.
…but because some of us live in lack,
that is why we put up with bullshit half the time.
also:
we gotta go out there and date around.
black males can be our first choice but there are other flavors to try.
…but that doesn’t mean become a self hater.
we are seeing what’s out here,
while pouring into ourselves in the process.
so i get what she is saying,
and i got my own “pineapples ain’t shit but hoes and tricks” stories too but…
…i can point out when i was being a dumb bitch with jackals who weren’t gonna love me.
when we can point that out,
we will see that many of those black jackals weren’t for us.
lowkey: when i look back,
a lot of males were attracted to me.
i wasn’t attracted to myself tho and that is where i went wrong.
