i like those who can admit they do dumb shit from time to time.
those types make you want to live your truth tbh.
there is someone who is UN-apolgetcally themselves in a healthy way that i love.
personally,
i’m over people on bey’s internet who are pushing perfection.
they do and font “the right things” that give us hope,
but behind the scenes…

we hear many stories of these same people being awful.

they’re known for being “nice” but mean boys/girls with clique mentalities
stark church people who are foot soldiers for the devils
flaunting their relationships but cheating all over the place
telling us how to be better but chaos magnets
“i’m black and i’m proud” but secretly hates other black folks
“i’m not like the other white people” but they are, in fact, like the other white people
telling us to work hard but they are no strangers to sucking dick for a come up
lets make the forests better but “i voted for this current president”

or my favorite:

i am an alpha male who critiques vixens and homophobic AF,
but when i say i secretly lovvvvvvve being pounded by a real alpha gay?
nothing brightens my day than secretly being another man’s dirty cum slut.
mmm,
i love being a dirty little cum slut for daddy.

it’s the grifting for me.
i’m tired of the grifting.
the endless grifting because they know people be followers out here.
this is why i font and tell to everyone:

i am NOT perfect and i DO dumb shit.
not all the time but i be a dumb ass on occasion.
i’m not beyond saying or fonting something stupid.
when i give advice,
it’s based off of my dumb shit or other people’s dumb shit.

i don’t ever want anyone getting comfortable with “i got it together”.
oh God no…

…and honestly:

that is not a real life human

lowkey: i think because 98% of people in my life are all,
“this is who i am and you can like or don’t because that’s not my issue”,
i like that quality in others because i can sense when its genuine rather than fake.