we all live in our own forests.
thing is,
no one’s forest is truly the same.
when it comes to dating,
and not fuckin’,
everyone has a different scent.
it makes us who we are.
the scent of sex smells like “half naked pictures” and “suggestive texts”.
anyone can do that.
you can get anyone to fuck you if they are horny enough.
the scent of a hoe is pretty easy to smell.
when it comes to what makes someone stick around,
do you know what your scent is?
what it was?
well we need to take a trip inside.
deep inside.
so my question to you is…
What scent are you giving off?
i am better at intimate gatherings.
no sex parties.
i rock in places where i can let my fur down.
i thrive in environments where not to many jackals around.
i am the:
“who is that?” – when i come in the room
“i want to be on his team” – during a game night
“yo tell your friend i said wassup” – when i use to be with star fox
nowadays i’m not too successful at meeting anyone online.
i’m not the instagram attentionisto.
my dms on twitter are pretty dry.
back when bgc and a4a were still new,
there were not a lot of jackals and hyenas roaming those parts.
now that the game has changed,
there is always a bigger and better hoe willing to do whatever.
all in the name of being able to ride some dick.
i want more so that makes this fox pretty boring to any potentials.
in my own forest however,
people tell me i come off intimidating.
this is how I’ve been trained to survive in the concrete forest.
i never meet wolves in person,
but i always have the “curious” wolf trying to sniff me out.
he usually really attractive and has all the vixens interested in him.
it never goes anywhere but stress and depression for me.
the wolves i did talk to were all masculine and attractive.
average to thick builds and all handsome.
listen i always had good taste with who i let inside me and my world.
the two with really nice bodies fucked the shit out of me.
why you think i have a fetish for muscles?
they were all dominant,
had money,
and were either discreet or d/l.
some of the best ones i talked too didn’t even live in my state.
i find the non new yawk wolves were more interesting.
the discreet ones in ny were more open to going to dinner or the movies.
the d/l ones were more interested in cumming.
they all had jobs or were in the industry.
some can get the bunz and throat again.
especially the two with the nice bodies.
we can definitely try to pick up where we left off.
others are fell off the face of the earth and can stay there.
never had luck with the outs.
the ones interested in me were super club heads or looked down on me.
so because i’m discreet doesn’t mean i don’t love myself?
right now i’m not talking to anyone.
sigh.
now what about you?
do you know your scent and your forest?
there are people who have luck online.
they can meet just about anyone they choose.
from attentionistos to baller wolves/foxes.
others fair better in the club scene.
the lucky ones just seem to always get someone in person.
its all in what scent is strongest and what works for you.
some of us spend too much time in the wrong forests tho.
we look at the jackals and try to emulate what we think is easy.
“why is this not happening to me?”
i don’t think you want what they are attracting into their forests tho…
you tend to attract what you are.
watch the outcome in a few days/weeks and you’ll see.
there is someone out there for everyone.
don’t settle.
once you know who you are,
and what you give off,
it should make things easier.
so i had to wonder…
I believe I give off a good aura. If someone around me doesn’t, they won’t be in my presence too long. I’m very big on vibes. People have told me that they thought I was imtimidating, stuck up, conceited, and no bullshitness before meeting me. I guess because I have a serious look on my face most of the time and I’m always on my phone. I don’t realize it, I just have shit to do and places to go. lol. So I’m working on that. I guess they say I’m stuck up and conceited because I don’t mess with a lot of people. Like you, I’m more of the “Who is that?” type of person. When I go to parties, I normally greet my friends, mingle a little, and leave early. If you’re good to me, I’ll be good to you. I just have to fill you out first. Everyone starts with a clean slate though. You’ll fuck your own self up, not me.
I realized my scent is not one of thotness, and I’m happy about that. My scent is strong and delicate at the same time; it is goal oriented, not accepting of bs, loyal, exciting and laidback, independent, complex, patient, loving and spiritual. Hopefully there is a special person out there who will appreciate my scent because I know I will appreciate theirs.
I’m not sure what scent I’m giving off to these wolves out here to be honest. I trying to be a really nice person and I think at times it can be my downfall.
When you stated above about having curious wolves that vixens want trying to figure you out but it leading to pain and stress I could so relate. I’m dealing with that now and I find myself doing things for this pineapple I usually thought I wouldn’t do, just because he’s literally the wolf of my dreams physical wise. He’s taller than me, tats, baller , handsome face and he just has this aura that draws people in to him. he’s always around some pretty vixen on campus , but the fact he has shown some kind of interest in me makes me feel special ( I know weird, judge if you must)
I have low self-esteem at times to the point where I think that it’s paired with my niceness and these wolves have me sniffed out as some easy prey or something.
I’ve gotten “cold” and “intimidating” from people who don’t really know me. I understand why people say it though. I don’t go out of my way to be nice to people, and I don’t accept excuses or b.s from people. Very few people know what I’m thinking or feeling, and I’ve also been told I need to smile more. But the people I’m friends with love me and say they never want to be without me in their lives. Once I consider you a friend, I actually put in the effort and give you a piece of me.
My scent would be smart, silly, trustworthy, complicated, and adaptable. In terms of guys, I always attract the “straight” ones who want to hook up but that is far from what I want.
Honestly, I don’t go out and my hectic work schedule has alienated any friends I once had so I’m fairly content with the quick smash and dash with a few regulars. Not into them beyond sex at all though.
My pattern has always been chasing after the ones that essentially treat me the worse. Maybe that’s because there’s been like three very special ppl in my past that I was completely transparent with, would’ve taken a bullet in the heart for but they all chunked deuces before anything could really mature.
People seem to be more into me when I’m hypersexual, testosterone filled, couldn’t donate a fuck mind set, not when I’m honest about my feelings.
I don’t believe in the term “you attract what you are.” People sometimes want people who they cannot have, and tend to chase these people knowing they are out of their league. I’m not talking from a superficial standpoint either. We all have dealt with a person who is not our type in any way They don’t carry themselves properly attitude wise, they are irresponsible, and when they approach you they usually do not know what to say. I wonder to myself can they not see that I am not interested. When I am around people I believe I give off a good aura, which is always important because nowadays people judge you harshly. When I walk into a room, straight men cover their girlfriend’s eyes, and Wolves handcuff their Foxes to their wrist lol. Nonetheless, I am currently single tho. Men and women hit on me, but right now I really don’t have the time to entertain either to be honest.
I’m more so of a loner, but i’m down to earth and once you know me you’ll love me..and I’m very loyal…sometimes that loyalty has backfired in my face…people tell me i’m intimidating in regards to my confidence and what i want out of life…people these days get scared simply because you have bigger dreams than the average guy….but right now i’m trying to figure out more so what i want..i know who i am i just need to narrow it down to what i want because i’m beginning to think i’m not going to meet the man of my dreams until i’m well into my field…i have a thing for thugs but we all knows thugs are only good for fucking not for building and establishing….
^”i know who i am i just need to narrow it down to what i want because i’m beginning to think i’m not going to meet the man of my dreams until i’m well into my field”
^facts.
“i have a thing for thugs but we all knows thugs are only good for fucking not for building and establishing….”
^word.
i’m with you heavy m.
Oooooweeee, at first I thought this post was going somewhere entirely different. LOL! I’m a loner, so I don’t really interact with folks on “that” level. I keep dudes at a distance. We can be cool, but don’t move too quickly with me. #turnoff I really like to take my time and get to KNOW someone. I need how know how a dude moves, thinks, acts, speaks, and presents himself in different scenarios. To learn that takes TIME. I guess my scent would have notes of attractiveness, intelligence, cleanliness, neatness, seriousness, silliness, playfulness, wittyness, and independence. 😎
^i love that you know what works for you o.
many people don’t know and are moving around,
they want something serious,
but they end up being “booty booty butt cheeks”.