So as our wonderful president, Pres. O, tries to pull us out of this recession
The rest of the world is dealing with a dating recession… especially the same sex folks.
Don’t it seem hard to find a damn man?
Where have all the good Daddy-like material gone?
All of em seem to be taken, married, or straight.
I feel like Little Mister Peep and I looking for all my peen.
Can someone help me find them?
I been putting out my resume HEAVY.
I been dressed for success on many of occasion.
Shit, I even stopped looking and worked on me.
But I do not know about anyone else for whatever reason in this big city, there is a man shortage going on.
I am starting to be really confused.
Since I do not go to the gay clubs,
that outlet is null and void.
I do not know anyone who does the “DL Invite Only” parties right now,
and more than likely they are just sex with 3 or more in a hallway closet anyway so check that off the list.
The gay websites that is/was/could be my outlet
has too many dudes on there playing games.
You think you meeting Person A and you meet Person F-ailure.
The fantasy of meeting dude on the train/public is just that – a fantasy.
So…. have all the potential draft picks dried up?
Are we doomed?
I remember back in the day,
I always had a date.
And not just anyone…. but fine ones.
Cars, jobs, and their own apartments.
Even though they all had their issues,
they took me out to nice restaurants and courted a brotha.
Paid for my dinner or bought me shit.
Wasn’t fem or queens – dudes who were just dudes.
I would log onto the gay websites and would always have something (or someone) to do.
But it seems like the game has changed.
Those websites have lost their luster.
Ever since BGC started becoming “The Gay My/Book“,
it is all about who is “hot” and who is “popular“.
Back in the day,
it was all about genuinely meeting dudes and meeting up to see whats good.
Dudes wanted to actually date.
Now, things are just whack city.
Like the hard financial times of our country,
it seems that way with dudes and the struggle it is to find one.