he is into you.
it’s pretty obvious that he’s attracted to you.
he treats you like you are his boyfriend without officially saying/fonting it yet.
the issue tho:

he is in a “situation” with a vixen,
whether married or partnered up.

those types are always so attractive,
aren’t they?
forbidden fruit usually is.
so you are fakin’ it til you make it,
being open and available while he navigates between you both.
like a temp-to-perm job,
your goal is to be hired.
have you noticed something tho…

…is that when they are not doing well,
he is front and center in your life.
he talks/fonts about how he isn’t fucking her anymore,
they are always arguing,
and “blah blah blah” but the second he vanishes:

they are back “on” and you are now on the back burner.

you have to be careful with males who are in a “situation” with a vixen.
i mean,
this could go to being the “side” in general tbh.
when he is with you,
it feels like you have met “the one“.

nope!
he has met “the one he is acting out his forbidden fantasy with”.

it’s just that “emotional attraction” has gotten mixed into it too.
it’s easy to get open up off the vibes.
to make it worse,
if he got money,
he is not selfish with it at all.
he’ll be quick to buy you something,
but when he talks/fonts about “bitches”,
they won’t even get more than a happy meal from him.
you never have to want for anything but see:

this is all a selfish plot to keep you hooked while he does whatever he wants.

they’ll try to slide in how they hate her,
how they are tired of her,
and all the little problems they are having but:

when they are having a good moment,
or they start fuckin’ regularly again,
you’ll never hear from him until they’re not.

that is why that “fakin’ it til you make it” doesn’t always work.
like jobs,
you should always keep your options open.
it could turn into a beautiful love story to give hope to others,
or you could get passed over for a new vixen with far less qualifications.
worse?

you could spend years proving you’re the perfect candidate,
only to realize the “M4M” position was never available in the first place.

don’t age out of your peak years on assholes or jobs,
Foxholer.
when they peep your warmth,
hard work,
and kindness,
they will try to suck it dry until you have nothing left.
they’ll drop you in a heartbeat and give it to someone who won’t try as hard.

stay woke.