Have you spoken to him?
What about them?
Well, I have and I learned two things talking to all of them:
I have excellent ass taste in men and, they were fucking liars.
I was on Thug Rugged earlier, getting my fineness fix, and saw all their pictures in months earlier.
“OOOOHHH MMMM GEEEE….” I said outloud, thanking God that our interactions didn’t last longer than a couple long drawn out conversations.
STRAIGHT! STRAIGHT! STRAIGHT!
or until proven gay/DL.
WHAT IS THE POINT OF STEALING SOMEONE’S PICTURE ONLINE AND PRETENDING IT IS YOU?
Someone explain to me.
It always confuses me.
Is it done for the thrill?
I always wonder what was the point of it? I mean, are you THAT ugly that you need to become another man (or woman)?
And another thing that bothers me! You go and steal this person’s picture to meet people online. Okay, cool. Sounds harmless. But lets say you meet someone along the way that you could really kick it with. Your PERFECT someone. You talk to them online, but how long do you really plan on keeping up with the charade?
True Story: I know someone who went to Florida from up north to go meet a dude they had been speaking too online for a good 6 months. It was actually a surprise. Well, the friend of the fake called my someone and told them the whole story. The fake admitted to the first class fuckery, but decided to meet my someone in a public location.
Yooooooo………….. my someone told me that they were missing teeth, gear was wreck less, and also confessed to living in a trailer. Looked NOTHING like the dude in the picture. I mean so much down to skin color being different. My someone was about to bust their ass right there and then. I would have.
I am a strong believer that if you go around stealing pictures, and the person you were lying too is all for poppin’ your lip, I say you deserve it!!!! No one wants to be lied too.
So, if you decide to meet dudes off the chat sites, here are a few tips from Jamari:
1: Never trust that Sexiest Online shit on BGC.
2: Cute boy + Down Lo + Open Pics = A debacle waiting to happen
3: When you start getting heavy, demand recent pictures.
4: A picture with them holding a piece of paper with their screen name written on it wouldn’t hurt.
5: Never trust a phone voice.
6: If they are hesitant to meet you; start asking questions
7: If your gut tells you something ain’t right, it’s probably not!
And finally, BE CAREFUL.
Crazies prey on the foolish.
You may think you have come up with some fine dude, but you could be led into a trap.
Not saying that gay/bi/DL dudes CANNOT look like the dudes in the stolen pictures, because I have met/messed with/got smashed by dudes like that. There is hope. Not all gay men are ugly or feminine.