This Will Be (An Everlasting Luck)

I love to hear about happy endings.

I have always liked to hear about people falling in love.
Men, women, aliens… whatever.
It always seem to do something to me on inside.
I use to get sad and wonder when will my Prince come couple years ago.
But, these days, I actually love to hear a good love story.
Makes me want to search harder to find someone to call my own.
But I had to ask:

Are some people just lucky in finding love?


Last night, a Wolf I was actually suppose to get with two years ago called me out the blue.
We were actually on each other digging, but he was already in an online relationship with a Fox he hadn’t met for 3 years.
“I tried to have told him” that it was “cease and dismiss”  but he didn’t listen.
He was convinced that this Fox was the one.
He ended up getting screwed over and was through with “love”.
Since he was a serious D/L Wolf, he was over the whole love game.
He ended up traveling around the world for his career throughout the last year.
We would speak but this mofo was running up my damn phone bill!

He is back in his home state and he wanted to call me with some good news.
He wanted me to know that in his travels, he met someone special and pretty much fell in love.
I know him and his love stories but I still continued to listen.
His Fox is in the army and they met one one of his “stops” in another country.
They both decided to live together and been together for the last couple of months.
The sex is amazing and they both will attend family events together.
It seems my once closeted D/L Wolf is lowering his walls for love.

He also gave me some advice from Wolf to Fox.
He said he always admired and respected that I was never like the other Foxes that he spoke too.
I wasn’t all about sex, meat, and when can I meat his meat.
He said a phat ass will get you fucked but a good personality will make him stick around.
He told me to keep on being that way and I will find my love.

(Thanks Mr. Wolf…)

It made me wonder about love and luck.
When you go to a casino, your luck determines your win.
When looking for love, your faith in luck determines your outcome.
Do some of us have that great relationship luck?
And is there a way to turn that luck on our side from all the negative outcomes?
Here goes a Wolf who was pretty scorned to love, is now rushing home to fix his Fox lunch for work.
I want someone to fix my lunch for work lol

When it comes to rabbit foots and four leaf clovers pointed in the direction of the big L…

Can we turn our luck around?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

77 thoughts on “This Will Be (An Everlasting Luck)

  1. great story and i can agree a fat ass and a nice slong will get you attention but a personality will make the wolf/fox stay. just everybody wants sex now but hey i see there are wolves lookin for foxes like us. a good convo can lead to awsome sex

  2. Man most gay relationships are doom to fail plain and simple especially if you are a brother. Luck has nothing to do with the success of a gay relationship it is how you sling the dick in dat ass and how you keep the BS to a minimum. Men don’t look for romance they look to fuck!!! Check it I been on this site for a few days and all I see is convos about fucking lol. If you want a long lasting gay relationship then focus on the fucking and not the feelings cuse most masculine brothers are not all that into feelings it is the fem dudes that be all about you ain’t treating me good. Shut the fuck up spread them ass cheeks and get ready to get pounded into submission. I don’t know too many bottoms complaining about “oh he don’t love me when he is getting his guts split apart every night. Show me an unhappy bottom and give him a good dick and he will be okay lol

    1. ^you sound vulgar.
      i love that shit BUT
      ….i don’t agree with that at all!

      some people, masc or fem, want more than that.
      i like a good fuck because i am a freak,
      but can a brotha get some love with the dick????

  3. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^you sound vulgar.
    i live that shit BUT
    ….i don’t agree with that at all!
    some people, masc or fem, want more than that.
    i like a good fuck because i am a freak,
    but can a brotha get some love with the dick????

    LOL yo I am any thing but vulger, believe it or not I am a well educated brother, and a successful business man I am a speaker of the truth, and I thought this was an adult site lol. Look most black men think about pounded some ass or pussy over every 8 seconds or so hell while I was typing this post I had 20 thoughts about being need deep in some ass.I mean we are all talking about fucking most of the time true? We are in a cyber version of a locker room so what’s the point in talking about sex especially with a top if he can’t act like the king of the Jungle that we are!!! Yeah you can have love with the dick because it is the love of the dick being in you that you love!!! Dude all I know is I never seen a bottom too unhappy when after I have them crawling all ova the bed, the floors, the walls, or the grass in the back yard. I have DICK hear me roar!!!!! Lol

  4. No I am not saying a fox can’t love me cause I been in a couple of long term relationship where we loved each other very much. What I am saying most peeps who talk about wanted loving relationship either A. Never really been in love so they are really talking about wanting some long term live in dick lol. B. They are so mentally jacked up that they would not recognize love if it were to beat them on their heads. All I am saying quit talking about wanting love and be about being in love!!! Cool speaking of taking dick have you ever had a dick that you could not handle and what was the most craziest shit you said when being hit by a proper pipe?

  5. LOL There you go see what I mean a brother try to show a tender side and he gets blasted lol. With my two long term relationship we were boys long before he started smashing and so we loved each other way before we discovered that we had sexual feelings. So our relationships were never about why you don’t love me etc cause we knew the love was already there. I am talking about gay brothers who are into the whole online dating and club shit who always complain that there are no good men out there. This is were I say shut the fuck up and bend ova lol.

    1. ^well see you had it easier because you started smashing your boy.
      we have to go thru this online (i dont do the club) shit.
      so of course, it will be different.

      in my perfect world,
      i meet a muthafucka in real life,
      we become friends,
      we realize we want each other,
      we fuck each other’s brains out,
      and #BOOM… we good.

      1. Bruh when you first approach a brother and smashing him is on yo mind then trust me dat relationship is going to be all about smashing. If you approach a brother and smashing isn’t on yo mind then you gut a chance and something deeper lol

  6. killablaq u must have a magic wand the way you sound LOL!!! but im with both of yall yes all men want sex sex sex. just when im 45 do i still wana be on a4a or grinder lookin for some ass or pipe or do i want a good in home someone??? thats the question cause as you both may know niggas hell men are full of shit an nobody wants to be the creepy old dude in the club still on the prowl for sex

      1. <
        waiting for killa response… lol

        Yo I been waiting for a month for you to answer the question is dat azz of yours is hairy or smooth? lol

    1. LOL you guys are a trip and yes omg I have a magic wand lol. Dude age is nothing but a number lol cause being black and gay may seem to be an age thing and in some cases dat is true but when ya get older the gay games becomes an economic thing. I know of lot of down brothers how are 45 and they have their pick of young and same age brothers lol. Money makes a brother very attractive to them money grubbing younger kats lol

  7. KillaBlaq :
    Bruh when you first approach a brother and smashing him is on yo mind then trust me dat relationship is going to be all about smashing. If you approach a brother and smashing isn’t on yo mind then you gut a chance and something deeper lol

    If he’s not interested in smashing I doubt he’ll approach at all. lol

  8. This is a site of adults, but not an ‘adult site’ if that makes sense. We’re not talking about how big our dacks are, if someone has a hairy or smooth azz…that stuff is best on a4a or one of those sites lol

    1. LOL dude not true how you think str8 dudes make friends with each other they make the approach not for ass but because the other brother shares similar interest and they look good. Str8 brothers especially them metro sexual it is all about being around attractive brothers who will make them look good. Str8 dudes who end up having a long term relationship it is about who sexy they find the female and how much they want to be with her more than wanted to fuck her.

  9. Bruh didn’t yo parents ever tell you to stay out of grown folk convoslol? Then again you must smoking crack or something, cause all you guys do is talk about getting dick or azz on this site. You sure you are a wolf cause you sounding like a bottom in disguise. I advise you to da hell shut up and let the grown folk talk. I hate brothers who act like they are morally superior when they are just as carnal than the rest of us. Check it bruh the fucking moderator of this group don’t have problems with me talking about slanning dick or wanted to get up in his azz. Dude if you want some of this dick all you got to do is ask, I will send you my email address lol. Hell when this group say yngwolf is really a bottom then you can try to put me in check.

    1. Wolf what you are scared about talking about azz too man yall guys are a joke!!! I ain’t never heard a true top scared to talk about sticking some azz.

  10. YngBlkWolf :
    This is a site of adults, but not an ‘adult site’ if that makes sense. We’re not talking about how big our dacks are, if someone has a hairy or smooth azz…that stuff is best on a4a or one of those sites lol

    Yo dude sorry for my last post cause I was meant to clearly say “SHUT DA FUCK UP!!!” lol My bad fake tops sometimes make me lose perspective.

  11. wolfstyle :
    thank you yngblk…i couldnt chase away all the of the idiots on my own

    Dude I also meant to tell ya fake azz to SHUT THE FUCK UP TOO lol. No disrespect to the brother Fox and the rest of the adults here.

  12. …. moving right along.

    Does location play a role in finding love? I was told if you’re looking for someone to settle down with, its better to look on the outskirts and rural areas as opposed to a big city. At least in this lifestyle anyway. Apparently when there’s a lot to choose from, men are less likely to choose just one.

  13. Yeah bruh I will move it right a long check this

    Bruh no one finds love based on a damn location , there is no formula for finding love. Finding love isn’t about looking for it bruh it is about you loving yourself and demanding everyone you meet to treat you as such. I don’t know too many people who are sure about themselves who are complaining every night online not finding love that is just str8 BS. It’s them fools who don’t think highly of themselves are unlucky in love. Get yo ass off line and start living life and quit complaining about not having any body. Fuck am I the only one who get’s this aside from a few other peeps on this site

    1. So what you’re saying is that all it takes is having a healthy level of self-esteem in order to get men to say “he’s the one”? And can you give a definition of “living life”?

  14. Bruh it’s like this remember in high school all the ass holes got all the girls, and the freaking geeks were the ones who were lying about getting laid and secretly desiring to be with the ass holes? Simply living life yo is waking up every morning knowing that you are God’s gift to the world, and making sure others know it. Meaning that if anyone steps to you it betta be fucking correct. To me bruh a person who lives life never talks about going on vacation and never going they freaking go on vacation. A person living life sees that sexy person they want to smash across the room and go talk to them without fearing rejection, a person who lives life goes to the gym and get that six pack instead of looking at dudes with six packs and complaining they don’t have them. Yo know if yo ass lived life when ya go to bed and you feel like damn I had an exciting day, and yo have more exciting days and borning days. Yo know when you are not living life when you hate waking up in the morning and you hate going to sleep at night cause your life is so fucking routine and boring. People who live life always draws other people who lives life close to them

    1. Interesting. I hear you about doing things you enjoy. That’s pretty much the common thread when people preach about what “living” is.

      However, based on this, It isnt enough to just do the things you enjoy then. You must put yourself out there as well (referencing the part about not fearing rejection). Do you believe a person can find love without having to approach? Can you go to a place, stand there with high self-esteem but not engage anyone at all, and men will approach asking for your name and number?

      1. Bruh check it my best friend is str8 and an very attractive brother he is ripped , he enjoys being a man really likes being a man and he goes to bars and he just stands up in the corner and ignore the sisters and they will come up to him and he will get into dat ass. However, he only seems to get the ghetto type dramatic females cause somewhere in his mind he don’t think he can get the high class, educated sisters like I get. He is always complaining about having low class sisters and I am like then don’t. When I take him to industry functions he gets all mousy and shy cause his game is weak lol and I tell him this all the time . Yeah I go to many industry parties and the high class females come up to me trying to holla cause they usually see my $4000 watch or my designer suit, (side note yo Industry chicks can smell money and success a mile away), when all I am doing is just chilling and enjoying da vibe, but when I see a sister or a brother that I like I go and I talk to them.

        To be real very few brothers has never come directly and try to hollar at me cause I don’t put out that vibe,but I can tell if they are interested in me by how they approach me, what what we talking about, and the convo always ends with hey you got a business card here is mine we should hang out or hey bruh what kind of workout you do cause I can’t get my bicepts to look like that. Man all the brothers I hang out with we like to go to the islands, scubba dive, walk on a nude beach, go skiing which is always a prelude for some azz cause you are up in the mountain with it being cold outside and a warm fire place in the room. Yo on another side note if you ever want to get some azz or dick male or female spend a day doing extreme shit for example just spend the day at Six Flags/Magic Mountain, Kings Island/ Kings Dominion and just ride the every roller coaster in the park all day if you don’t get sexed up real good after than they yo either couldn’t close the deal or they really are not into ya. For me it works all the time, and the sex is really intense lol

  15. Yo know if yo ass lived life when ya go to bed and you feel like damn I had an exciting day, and yo have more exciting days and boring days. I meant to say you have more exciting days and less boring days yo

  16. Man speaking about living life all this talk about ass is making want to get out my celly and start making some calls lol

  17. KillaBlaq :
    all I am doing is just chilling and enjoying da vibe, but when I see a sister or a brother that I like I go and I talk to them.

    We can’t really compare our experiences with that of straight peple because although there are similarities, the cultures are not the same. But i understand you’re underlying message. So would you agree that you must be in places where the people you are interested in are then?

  18. UrSoVain :

    KillaBlaq :
    all I am doing is just chilling and enjoying da vibe, but when I see a sister or a brother that I like I go and I talk to them.
    We can’t really compare our experiences with that of straight peple because although there are similarities, the cultures are not the same. But i understand you’re underlying message. So would you agree that you must be in places where the people you are interested in are then?

    BRuh I guess since I consider myself to be fully bisexual I don’t see the difference between apporaching a female or a brother aside of the obvious gender thing lol .I see what I like and I go for it and how no regrets if I strike out lol . On da real I only go to places that I am interested in going to , and I rarely go to a place just to scope some azz. If I am at an industry function I am there to network or to support one of my friends, if I talk up some potential azz then the deal is sweeter. If I am going on a trip then I already have my azz piece with me lol

    1. BRuh I guess since I consider myself to be fully bisexual I don’t see the difference between apporaching a female or a brother aside of the obvious gender thing lol .I see what I like and I go for it and how no regrets if I strike out lol . On da real I only go to places that I am interested in going to , and I rarely go to a place just to scope some azz. If I am at an industry function I am there to network or to support one of my friends, if I talk up some potential azz then the deal is sweeter. If I am going on a trip then I already have my azz piece with me lol

    1. If being in places where people you are interested in are is important, then you saying “Bruh no one finds love based on a damn location” stands in direct contradiction to that. So for clarification purposes, location actually does make a difference,= or it doesn’t really matter where you are (like the middle of the ocean or on safari in the congo) you can always find men you’re interested as long as you have a healthy level of self-esteem?

      And what role does your looks play? Does someone with a more in shape body have a better chance of meeting men who are interested in them than someone who is obese?

    2. ^i just started reading these new comments and I have to say something…

      I appreciate everyone on this forum because we can all learn something from each other.
      everyone has a story and has a way of success in their lives.
      I learn a lot from Stylez, YBW, Jay, Vain, and so on…

      Killa is showin me that he just does what he wants and has no apologies.
      He is aggressive and goes for what he wants.
      Even if It is all a lie and he is just speaking (and I’m not calling you a liar),
      That attitude takes many people far because ultimately they do what makes THEM feel happy.
      People who follow the rules are rarely taken seriously.
      I feel the same goes for Relationships…

      I was suppose to read these comments tonight.

      And please everyone respect each other.
      No fighting or cursing anyone out.
      Thanks!

  19. UrSoVain :
    If being in places where people you are interested in are is important, then you saying “Bruh no one finds love based on a damn location” stands in direct contradiction to that. So for clarification purposes, location actually does make a difference,= or it doesn’t really matter where you are (like the middle of the ocean or on safari in the congo) you can always find men you’re interested as long as you have a healthy level of self-esteem?
    And what role does your looks play? Does someone with a more in shape body have a better chance of meeting men who are interested in them than someone who is obese?

    LOL bruh will have to finish this convo later azz cuming ova, but I thought I said that I only go to places that I am interested in going and I don’t go there to get azz. I like going to the gym and I don’t go there to scope azz, I like going to da movies or to a concert and I don’t go there to scope ass. I go there because I like going there. I was talking about my friend who I took to a function cause he wanted to meet higher class females it was his trip not mine. Although he was in the right place his self esteem issues prevented him from hooking up with any females. Man I have picked up a chick while volunteering at a soup kitchen, and I have hollar at a brother at office depot. Look its as simple as this yo, no one likes to be around losers most people who have good self esteem like to be around other winners pure and simple. If you got a loser mind set you are going to attract other loosers, and if you have a winder mind set you are going to attact other winners.Looks always play a factor bruh in hook up with folks to a degree but Puffy 50 Cent or Charles Barkley are big on looks and they be fucking like jack rabbits Bruh I don’t know about other brothers but I have fucked fat dudes who are sexy, and it is more about success than it is about fucking looks at the end of the day if the fugly brother or sister has power and good self esteem. Russel Simmons or however you fucking spell his name or Tyler Perry are two doods who are average people but they think they are the shit and they be fucking all of the time. I know some fugly ass brothers who are always getting some azz cause how they carry themselves.

  20. I meant to say 50, puffy and barkley are not big on looks but they be fucking all of the time. YEAH its cause they got money, status, and power, but they be fucking up a storm. I had a college roommate who was average looking yeah he had a ripped body, and he treated women like shit. Man I remember one night this guy was trying to pick up women in his sleep lol the mother fucker was talking in his sleep he said yo man is that your girl. This bother was picking up women at the 7/11, while waiting at a stop sign, this mother fucker even rear-ended a sister and asked her out while exchanging insurance information and he got that ass. Me I didn’t have to work as hard as he did to get pussy cause I keep a positive game and I always got the sisters who were going places after they graduate college. On the real I did have my share of not so attractive sisters too. Bruh after I finished college women were hitting on me left and right one sister hit on me while at the DMV and about five minutes into the relationship she was talking about marriage. Bruh it is about the self-esteem for me. It is not really that hard to see.

    1. This is all great… from a wolf’s point of view. If you have power and prestige people really arent interested in you as a person, they’re more interested in what you can do for them.

      I just don’t think its the same for us foxes.

      Typically, wolves like to talk about how they want to be approached and x,y,z and i find when they are approached, they feel emasculated. I find that as a fox, when you do have self esteem wolves come at you like “i was too scared to approach.” Happens a lot. This idea that there are plenty of wolves out there, cute ones at least, who are approaching foxes left and right just isn’t the case. You yourself, killablaq, maybe be in the minority, or better yet, the exception. Sure, its easy to pick up men for sex when you’re like that. All confident and self-assured, but I haven really seen it turn into anything long term. You can’t sex a man into being with you. Not as a fox.

  21. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^i just started reading these new comments and I have to say something…
    I appreciate everyone on this forum because we can all learn something from each other.
    everyone has a story and has a way of success in their lives.
    I learn a lot from Stylez, YBW, Jay, Vain, and so on…
    Killa is showin me that he just does what he wants and has no apologies.
    He is aggressive and goes for what he wants.
    Even if It is all a lie and he is just speaking (and I’m not calling you a liar),
    That attitude takes many people far because ultimately they do what makes THEM feel happy.
    People who follow the rules are rarely taken seriously.
    I feel the same goes for Relationships…
    I was suppose to read these comments tonight.
    And please everyone respect each other.
    No fighting or cursing anyone out.
    Thanks!

    Bruh you know you just called me a liar and tried to pull it back lol that shit is already out there the seed has been planed lol. Bruh that’s the thing peeps and I am not saying it is you lol, but peeps who know they are the stuff they don’t go around thinking someone is lying to them cause we could care less cause we know our stuff is that together. My bad yo on the cussing thing I know how to respect peeps house tho so if you don’t want me to cuss I am cool with that. I just get like WTF when peeps come to yo site you got porn on it and talking about taking and giving dick so I am like oh we are in a locker room so lets keep it real cause we men and men always talk shit and clowning each other you ever played basketball with most brother all we do is talk shit about each other its all apart of the game of being men. MEN TALK SHIT!!! Bruh at the start and at the end of the day when I am in the play pen I AM AN ALPHA MALE!!!! Not to be confused with the frat although they got some real sexy brothers

    Man I been reading some post on this sight and peeps be going on about wanting real men and when a real brother comes along a speaks his mind he could be a liar or he ain’t being cool. Dude I respect you cause you keep it real you let us know that you are a freak and you like freaky shit. Anyway my cuddle buddy is here is that soft enough for you all lol.

  22. LOL i just saw the messages..omg i laughed my ass off…that shit is funny….but then…its sad too..LMAO!!!

  23. I’m in love with this Asian dude named Walter. He works at my campus library, total book nerd and has the phattest ass for an Asian dude. Ugh, I want him so bad. It doesn’t help that he’s way nice to me. I know we haven’t said more than like three words to each other, but I just know he’s the one. I just don’t know how to approach him.

    1. Just approach him bruh cause all of this lusting from a far seems to be driving yo ass crazy. What’s the worst that could happen? Peeps who don’t have nothing are peeps who don’t take risk to get something. Worst the Asian dude can tell you is no, it may sting like hell for a min but at least you know lol

  24. UrSoVain :
    This is all great… from a wolf’s point of view. If you have power and prestige people really arent interested in you as a person, they’re more interested in what you can do for them.
    I just don’t think its the same for us foxes.
    Typically, wolves like to talk about how they want to be approached and x,y,z and i find when they are approached, they feel emasculated. I find that as a fox, when you do have self esteem wolves come at you like “i was too scared to approach.” Happens a lot. This idea that there are plenty of wolves out there, cute ones at least, who are approaching foxes left and right just isn’t the case. You yourself, killablaq, maybe be in the minority, or better yet, the exception. Sure, its easy to pick up men for sex when you’re like that. All confident and self-assured, but I haven really seen it turn into anything long term. You can’t sex a man into being with you. Not as a fox.

    Bruh you might be right but I think maybe your mind is just too set on things being a certain way and that’s all yo mind is going to accept. Actually bruh you paint a bleak picture for the life of a bottom lol. My think is this how does a brother you want to approach knows you are a bottom? Shit the brother don’t have to know you are a bottom until you are in the bed room. Just because you are a bottom don’t mean you got to act like one, shit perhaps you need to act more like a top who is really a bottom and no I am not telling you to go around telling peeps you want to fuck sum ass lol.

    1. Because you can look at me and tell. There’s no fooling anyone. So if im going to be approaching with this idea that somehow Im going to be the dominant one in the situation, you’re feelings are going to get hurt. If i act more like a top, that would mean i would be the one doing most of the initiating. I’m going to ask for the number, hit you up, tell you when im going to pick you up, what we’re going to be doing, and so on and so forth and that… just… isn’t going to happen. Not when I have to inkling to wanna do it and i know this wolf doesn’t want to feel like a quote-unquote “bytch.” All the confidence in the world is not going to get a guy to approach you, there’s more to it than that. And if im going to be the one doing all the approaching, im setting the standard that that’s how its going to be when dealing with me and that just isnt the case.

      Lol, it isnt the same for our two species. It just isnt. You have to look at it from the other perspective. And i dont know if the reality for a fox is “bleak” but a lot of times… it feels that way. So we go about our lives pretty much walking the line between being confident on one end and then allowing the wolf to sort of be in control on the other without making him feel like we’re competing or challenging his “manhood.” Blah blah blah, live your life and what not but i don’t think it we’re addressing the real issues when we gloss over it like that. You see a lot of “dick hungry”, willing to do anything to get your attention even if it means simply being your cuddle-buddy or “azz-piece” foxes because the prospects just aren’t there. Even on social media, i find the extent to large amounts of people will become groupie to some masculine thing with a fitted cap, muscles, and a webcam because honestly… there aren’t very many of “ideal types” those to choose from. And if there are, they’re either emotionally unavailable, whores,… or straight.

      1. ^i agree with Vain.

        Yes, you can say Killa is it easy to go approach someone,
        But you are in whole other category than we are.
        As a Fox,
        They will eat that shit up if you go approach someone like that.
        You even said yourself you are feeding them dick.
        There are not a lot of Wolves out there that even want to be approached.
        Yeah, you can talk to him and get to know him on an intimate level (Ie work, school, or whatever u can have in common with him)

        But realistically,
        It ain’t easy.

        I always get that I am intimidating.
        I am not particularly doing anything than just dressing fly and knowing my worth.
        I love myself and it reflects in my body language.
        Plus, I am good looking and many people tell me so.
        I tend to have to dumb myself down just to relate with certain people because I’m sometimes left rolling my eyes at the stupidity of others.

        Wolves will bypass me and go for something easier because they like easy.
        You get Foxes going after you because you are an alpha male + you are aggressive + you 10 to 1, mess with idiots who just want dick.

        I’m just keeping it real with u.
        I’m not making it excuses or being bleak,
        But that is just the way it is…

        1. ^ so you have to understand if we find ourselves drooling after Ballers Wolves,
          As much as they are negative,
          Those are the types we want that we havent met because the ones who do try to spit game are either ugly, dusty, broke, or all of the above.

      2. Bruh I feel ya and I don’t what to say man shit …. I mean it seems like you suffer from the “YEAH BUTS” which no matter how many positive scenarios or suggestions I give you are going to say ” Yeah that’s cool , but… lol. I am not a bottom and I don’t have a gang of gay friends cause I just don’t get along with most self-identified gay peeps, but I know a few bottoms how are happily fucking all the time (no whoring) and they seem to be fine. They carry themselves like tops is all I can say. Shit one of my exes is a confirmed bottom and this brother is mad sexy; masculine, ripped, and he is very competitive, because he played football and ran track both in high school and in college. The Kat had a full athletic and academic scholarships. The thing that worked for both of us was that we were both competitive cause I also played sports in high school and college. So our fucking became competitive this mutha fucker would not let out a hollar unless I banged it out of him lol. He would just look at me while he grit his teeth and give me that look if yo want me to hollar then you are going to have to earn it lol. He also used to play basketball 4 azz if I beat him at hoops then I would get the azz anyway I wanted it, and if I lost I got no azz. This brother kept his word when I lost I got no azz lol. In bed sometimes I had to take that ass or get none. I never felt my man hood threaten and in many ways he affirmed my man hood because I was fucking a real man and not a bottom. His approach to sex kept the sexiness in our relationship, and he kept it fresh. Sometimes when he wanted to have sex and I didn’t he would grab me and say there is going to be some fucking here tonight either you are going to fuck me or I am going to fuck you and the battle was on lol, cause I wasn’t about the get fuck especially this kat had a big dick lol. So bruh I am at a loss for words

  25. Wolfstyle i got to agree with you im in tears readig theses comments LMAO. Killa youre something else thats all i can say!

  26. KillaBlaq :
    Just approach him bruh cause all of this lusting from a far seems to be driving yo ass crazy. What’s the worst that could happen? Peeps who don’t have nothing are peeps who don’t take risk to get something. Worst the Asian dude can tell you is no, it may sting like hell for a min but at least you know lol

    I want to approach him, but I kinda get the feeling he’s not into dudes. I don’t know how to vibe Asian dudes on a romantic tip, because most of the time, I can’t tell if they fuck around. He’s the polar opposite of me, I’m more the the jock type dude and I play for our school’s team. He’s kinda really into his studies, and very quiet. I mean shit, he works at the school library LOL. but he’s mad sexy, and I would dick em’ down. If he were gay, I’m betting he’d be into white boys anyway.

    1. ^well Charlie,
      Don’t count it out so fast.
      How do you know he isn’t into dudes?
      Has he done things to make your Wolf senses tingle?
      And by senses… I mean your pipe lol
      OR… Are you just attracted to him because he has a fat butt?

      And I never knew Asians to have cakes.
      You may need to snap a pic to make me a believer lol

    2. wolfstyle :
      if by “something else” u mean coming off as a ignoramus i would have to agree

      Wolf I have dick here for you otherwise shut the hell up and let the real men speak. LOL Dude for a top you are coming off very weak but then again you may just be simply week.

  27. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^well Charlie,
    Don’t count it out so fast.
    How do you know he isn’t into dudes?
    Has he done things to make your Wolf senses tingle?
    And by senses… I mean your pipe lol
    OR… Are you just attracted to him because he has a fat butt?
    And I never knew Asians to have cakes.
    You may need to snap a pic to make me a believer lol

    Haha, I don’t know if he makes my “Wolf Senses” tingle, but he is really friendly. Last spring semester, he smiled at me when I saw him outside his work setting. I was walking to class.

    I’ma have to find a way to snap a pic of his ass lowkey. Most Asian dudes don’t have ass, but this particular dude has A LOT of ass on his back. I think he’s Korean, but he’s not foreign. Real sexy and slim.

  28. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^well in the case,
    Approaching him is too much.
    I say get to know him slowly and see where it does.
    He could just be a friendly Asain… With a fat ass lol
    But sneak that pic and send an email to Jamari.fox@gmail.com ….
    Ya know, for research purposes.

    Lol, you a fool man, I’ll see what I can do (:
    BTW, I been lurkin on here for a while, I really enjoy reading your blog and the comments.

  29. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^ so you have to understand if we find ourselves drooling after Ballers Wolves,
    As much as they are negative,
    Those are the types we want that we havent met because the ones who do try to spit game are either ugly, dusty, broke, or all of the above.

    Bruh I don’t know what to say but okay why are you going to lower your standards by holding back the of your self for some lowlife who ain’t going to be for you anyway, and drooling for ballers is fine but if you don’t feel good about who you are by having to change who you are to get some dick don’t work out well in the str8 or gay side. Bruh I been blessed to work around very successful people most of them millionaires. I study them and I talk to them and most of them had to earn their money and they are successful because from the time they wake up in the morning their mindset is I am going to fucking succeed at whatever I choose do today. Shit Kobe, Jordon, James, Obama, etc all have that mind set and look where they are today. Shit do they have bad days hell the fuck yeah but their mind is geared for success yo. Regardless if it is fucking sex or business success.

  30. Man ya know why fuck it I am out life is too short, and brother comes in a speaks his mind and some of the kats on this site start coming out of their BS attacking other folks because their game is weak. I am saying fuck the siting on the sidelines wanting, craving, lusting but not having. I say shit go for it what’s the worst that can fucking happen , and I am getting heat for saying my mind. I am not talking about the bottom brothers on this shit it strange that it is coming from the supposedly tops on this joint. Moderator you seem to be cool yo but I am going to tell ya that the true successful Tops that may visit yo sight ain’t going to put up with the BS some kats come out with . Shit ..hell I am thinking about doing a Top forum the problem is that true tops are not going to be posting their fucking woes all the time cause we are to busy living life or fucking some deserving bottom.

  31. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^i agree with Vain.
    Yes, you can say Killa is it easy to go approach someone,
    But you are in whole other category than we are.
    As a Fox,
    They will eat that shit up if you go approach someone like that.
    You even said yourself you are feeding them dick.
    There are not a lot of Wolves out there that even want to be approached.

    Yeah, you can talk to him and get to know him on an intimate level (Ie work, school, or whatever u can have in common with him)
    But realistically,
    It ain’t easy.
    I always get that I am intimidating.
    I am not particularly doing anything than just dressing fly and knowing my worth.
    I love myself and it reflects in my body language.
    Plus, I am good looking and many people tell me so.
    I tend to have to dumb myself down just to relate with certain people because I’m sometimes left rolling my eyes at the stupidity of others.
    Wolves will bypass me and go for something easier because they like easy.
    You get Foxes going after you because you are an alpha male + you are aggressive + you 10 to 1, mess with idiots who just want dick.
    I’m just keeping it real with u.
    I’m not making it excuses or being bleak,
    But that is just the way it is…

    Bruh I am aggressive in live in general with men, with women, or in business. Just because I am agressive in going after what I want does not mean I am an ass hole; cause I am not. I work hard to respect peeps because I demand everyone to respect me and no I don’t mess with peeps male or female who just want dicks cause there is too much drama in that. Whenever I go to a club with my best friend who is st8 peeps who are about bull shit want to talk to him first because they say that I look like I don’t take shit, and they are correct. So not too many brothers who want just dick is going to be approaching me side ways. I have fucked dick hunters in the past yes but they play themselves out quick. I have really chilled with some bottoms that I met online and they have been really cool because I set the fucking standard that if you come in my fucking house you are going to be chilled or you are going to be out.

  32. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^why don’t u bring some Wolves here so we bottoms can get more opinions and more views?
    It would be nice to have a lot more voices than us….

    LOL I will see what I can do but the tops are know and pretty much like me but I will ask.

  33. OKay bruh cause I respect ya but a shut the F**K up every now and again is a good thing lol Some folks need to be told to shut da you know what up you know every now and then!!! lol. Yeah I am thinking I need to start a Top forum lol

  34. If by ‘true top’ you mean cursing & asking everyone what their azz looks like, & if they’re gonna let me smash, then no, I’m not — and I’m cool with that. I’ve been that dude, didn’t work for me. Do you. But saying you’re respectful & telling us to shut the f*ck up cuz we don’t agree with your style…yeah.

    Bottom line, a lot of what you’ve said has been said before – by some of us other tops – and they didn’t listen then either lol.

    All I was saying is all sex all the time is boring. I have 0 f*cks to give about what you think of me, but we can agree to keep it civil

  35. OH okay bruh I stand corrected I will take my shut da fuck up back lol. Although I was responding to your lecturing me when you said this

    “This is a site of adults, but not an ‘adult site’ if that makes sense. We’re not talking about how big our dacks are, if someone has a hairy or smooth azz…that stuff is best on a4a or one of those sites lo.l”

    My thinking is shit this site has fuking porn on it with people getting drilled and people giving all kind of sexualized responses and shit. However, when this brother start talking about how someone azz looks or about his dick then I get the fucking moral police? To me that is really hypocritical bruh. All I would need to do is go back to some past post and cut and paste some folks responses. This is why I told ya to shut the fuck up, and also bruh I get where you are coming from on some of the shit you are spiting at me but I don’t fucking recall saying my shit is original cause there ain’t nothing new under the son and bruh really I don’t loose any sleep on thinking anything about you after the moment I say it cause I am the only muther fucka paying my bills here son, but we cool.

  36. YngBlkWolf :
    If by ‘true top’ you mean cursing & asking everyone what their azz looks like, & if they’re gonna let me smash, then no, I’m not — and I’m cool with that. I’ve been that dude, didn’t work for me. Do you. But saying you’re respectful & telling us to shut the f*ck up cuz we don’t agree with your style…yeah.
    Bottom line, a lot of what you’ve said has been said before – by some of us other tops – and they didn’t listen then either lol.
    All I was saying is all sex all the time is boring. I have 0 f*cks to give about what you think of me, but we can agree to keep it civil

    OH yeah one last thing bruh come on I know I got a big dick but I am not crazy enough to think that I can stick my dick through my computer screen and have it come out on the other end so I can laid piple!!!! LOL. It’s called talking shit bruh, aside from talking shit and cussing on this site I have a graduate degree bruh. Damn a brother can’t even blow off some steam on a blog. This is why I like the moderator of this site he understands the nature of bull shit and he is cool with it also as it don’t mess up his blog’s vibe. I read a few posts on this site where brothers try to make points without cussing and trying to be respectful to everyone and they get put on blast harder than some of ya peeps did me.

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