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all zednray want is u

i really like how zednray handle their fame.
they could go absolute next level attentionistos,
but they keep a sort of mystery about themselves and their relationship.
they are both extremely sexy so there’s that.
as you know,
or didn’t,
but they’re music artists as well as being extremely sexy.
they have a new video out called “all i want is u” and…

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Posted in A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI GOOD MUTHAFUCKIN' TIMES LIVIN' THIS LIFE WE LIVE

when a youtube legend reaches out to you!!!!

i was telling my therapist how i’ve been in my emotional bag today.
i’ve been off af.
things are weird.
the energy is weird.
as he put it,
i am probably in an “emotional plague” and to go with it.
after therapy,
i felt a little better and decided to check my ig dms.
foxhole…

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Posted in BULLETIN BOARD IJF: THE PODCAST

9 to 5, the 5 to 9, and everything in between feat. non-corporate girls

i’ve known my bff,
pose,
since 2002.

we actually met through someone else and became tight.
i watched pose go from working at the “toys r us” in times square to a multifaceted business vixen.
i’m so proud of her and it was a no brainer she would make an appearance on my podcast.
ย last weekend,
she was joined with her other half,
rich auntie” from their own podcast,
non-corporate girls“.
we had a discussion about working a 9 to 5,
juggling a 5 to 9,
and everything in-between

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Posted in BLACK LIVES MATTER THE VIXEN FILES THEY ONLY LIKE THEIR WATER AT ROOM TEMPERATURE X MARKS THE FOX YOU GET A GOLD STAR TODAY!

michelle obama breaks (it) down

michelle obama is a great “everything”.
i am always impressed by what she has to font and say outloud.
one of my dreams is to meet her one day.
as you know,
the united states witnessed a very low moment in recent times.
everyone is either still talking about it or trying to purge it out of their systems.
i’m here for the purge.
michelle obama shared her thoughts via font on her twitter today…

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Posted in BULLETIN BOARD LET ME CUM IN YOUR EAR

one of the foxholers took my virginity last week

the holidays are a tough time for many of us.
this year,
during the wonderful world of the rona,
it took seasonal depression into overdrive.
confession:

I’m going through one of the worst seasonal depressions ever.

i’ve literally been dragging my paws on many things.
ask me when i’m watching “the undoing” rather than sleeping in?

when i started the podcast,
i always wanted to make sure we could have good fox talk about issues like this.
well…

I had my first foxholer on the podcast as a guest last week!

blue,
who has been following me since ’09,
was the first to grace the foxhole podcast about this rona-rific holiday season…

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when love dies in your arms on the dance floor

we can spend a lifetime searching for the love of our lives.
dating ain’t easy ya’ll.
it requires a shit ton of energy tbh.
in this life,
we meet some males and think:

“YES!
THE ONE!
FINALLY!
I WON’T HAVE A HOUSE FULL OF CATS AND MEMORIES.

…and a majority of the time,
it turns out to be “the one who was sent from satan“.


i haven’t given up on finding someone,
but i’m taking a sabbatical.
if someone comes along,
i’ll entertain,
but i’m done searching.
the following story broke my heart today.
life can have a weird sense of humor.
it was about a gay male by the name of pierre,
who moved from paris to atlanta.
he met the love of his life and well…

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