you ever been cool with someone,
but as soon as they get into relationships,
they stop returning your phone calls/texts?
they son you with the crazy disappearing act.
as soon as they are single again,
they want to be your bestest?
well get rid of them.
i’ll tell you why…
that isn’t being a true friend.
that is the notorious “fair weather friendship”.
if someone can’t balance their relationship/friendship…
do you notice you constantly build them up when they are down?
do you feel empty after speaking to them?
do you ask for advice and they never have an answer?
if you answered “yes” to all those questions,
then you need to re-evaluate that relationship.
i say let them go with the wind in this season of selfishness.
its not easy to let someone go cold turkey,
especially if you are emotionally connected to them.
those types have no place in your life.
they are self absorbed emotional users.
they need you to constantly build them up after their situation ends.
they know you will always be there when they return.
worse of all,
they want to bad mouth the relationship when they return.
everything was all good when they went missing tho?
if you want to be “that loyal person”,
but ask yourself this…
What are you getting out of it?
well continue waiting for them to come around to find out.