The Curious Case of Being A Wolf

Ya know, I love being a Fox.

I do Fox very well.
And it takes a certain kind of Wolf to handle all this good stuff *wink*.
What can I say, I like a masculine fit Wolf with nice style, logical mind, and money in the bank.
I know I am a catch and I look/act like one… so why wouldn’t I want one in my presence?
I love the feeling of a Wolf being aggressive with me when he wants me.
I love when a Wolf gets jealous and I have to stroke his ego to shut him the hell up.
I love those moments when I am laying with my Wolf and he has me in his arms.
I love dominance….
… just without the crazy and insecure.

I think a Fox really has it easy even though we have our mental issues.
We can be who we are, dress nice, and have the personality we want.
We can be masculine, in-between, or fem… someone out there will want us.
We ARE desirable to someone.

Wolves,
on the other hand,
have to live up to large amounts of pressure.
They have to be that “guy” because many of us want that dominance.
We want that fly guy who looks like he will fuck every other guy up in the room.
Or, he can just be masculine and display it to fit our standards.

You see it all over the social sites and in the clubs but…

Could that Wolf you want be really rocking “insecure”?

Check it Foxes: how many feminine Wolves have you wanted to fuck lately?
I’ll wait.

Now: How many feminine Foxes and trannies have gotten fucked?
I’ll hand you more paper.

… some are even begged to be cuffed and locked down.

As much as Wolves tell us how he wants us to be,
we actually tell them how we want them to be without us even uttering a word.
Similar to the masculine/feminine scales in the world of the breeders,
and as much as gays hate to admit it,
we pretty much do the same procedures.
The only ones who thinks everyone should love each other no matter what!…

are unattractive or have no swagg.
And I’m being totally serious.

Wolves are running out there getting in shape,
making sure they wear nice gear,
and do things that they will know will attract the Foxes to them like white on rice.
They even do the shirtless pictures and the pre-sex game talk down to a science.
Some will go get good jobs and nice cars to even add onto the “image”.

Do they really think a Fox who has his shit together will want some Ragga-muffin Wolf in him?

It made me wonder about Wolves and insecurity…
As much as these Wolves play secure, are they really?
The ones who aren’t just being swept to the side for the next big Wolf?
And are they just as image focused as we are?
Furthermore, why are MY Foxes thrown to the Wolves because they want what they want?

I don’t see Wolves complaining when they are trying to make us feel like we are not good enough.
Especially when they have lists of things they expect from us.

So the:
Snapbacks, Nike Dunks, Levis, Pecs, and Potential Big Dicks…
Let’s cut the shit:

Is it really hard to be a Wolf?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

36 thoughts on “The Curious Case of Being A Wolf

  1. I think you just touched on the one quality I hate that is present in one form or another in most gay/bi men.

    I get so turned off when dude impose their standards on me from the jump. I don’t need to hear the long ass list of who I have to be for you before you even know my last name.

    Once that line is crossed I’ve made up my mind about you. I think it kind of reinforces my distaste for most dudes.

  2. Steven :
    Everyone has insecurity issues. Wolves have to live up to certain expectations…although it comes easy for some of us lol

    Steven :
    Everyone has insecurity issues. Wolves have to live up to certain expectations…although it comes easy for some of us lol

    For example?

  3. JAY :

    I don’t know Malo so why would he be the the standard for whom I compare dudes I actually meet? That would be dumb…

    not him persay,
    but the qualities especially his body…
    So let me ask you this…
    You would just mess with anyone?
    Meaning no matter what they look like or act like,
    you are willing to accept them…

    Because my point is basically saying that if you all want and expect something…
    we, as Foxes, also want an accept something…

    1. I didn’t say that.

      My standards are different though. I’ll know pretty soon if I’m attracted to you so physical attraction is out of the way, but I’m not going to tell you how masculine you have to be or how good you have to fuck for me to like you. Once I get to know you some standards and expectations may not be as important as they were initially, because they make up for it in other ways.

  4. He’s still not the standard for me. I’ve been exposed to better. He’s attractive no doubt, but that doesn’t mean a dude has to exemplify his qualities for me to be interested.

  5. Physically or personality-wise?

    Physically im pretty flexible, but I know what I like immediately when I see it. A nice ass and nice lips always get me though.

    Personality wise I like honesty, intellect, dependability, someone who possesses morals but doesn’t look down on others, someone with kind of a hidden sensitive side.

    Should I keep going? I definitely can. lol

      1. Ok!

        Where was I?

        Oh yea he has to be honorable. I was raised by one, and grew up surrounded by them so I detest a trifling man.

        You can’t take yourself too seriously either.

        I like mellow people to balance me out. I tend to be on the anxious, obsessive side so I need the opposite.

        Argumentative guys are attractive, as long as they’re debating and not being obnoxious for no reason.

        I like it when someone can teach me something to and get me to try new foods and do things I’ve never done before.

        This is kinda fun. lol

  6. JAY :

    Ok!

    Where was I?

    Oh yea he has to be honorable. I was raised by one, and grew up surrounded by them so I detest a trifling man.

    You can’t take yourself too seriously either.

    I like mellow people to balance me out. I tend to be on the anxious, obsessive side so I need the opposite.

    Argumentative guys are attractive, as long as they’re debating and not being obnoxious for no reason.

    I like it when someone can teach me something to and get me to try new foods and do things I’ve never done before.

    This is kinda fun. lol

    It is meant to be…

    so you seem to want a fox who is down for whatever.
    are you just looking for a fox…
    … or a hybrid?

  7. Steven :
    Lol don’t let that fool u. I always have foxes comin back for more. Yall don’t come back over and over and over again unless its good

    Hot boy Stevie!

  8. Steven :
    Ultra masculine…bangin body…porn star sex drive etc

    Have you ever had an experience where someone you were interested in said you were not up to their standards as it pertains to Ultra masculine, bangin body, porn star sex drive, etc?

      1. I expected a lot more responses to this thread, honestly. Like if its so tough to be a wolf, please fill us in on everything. Because with so much to choose from and so little competition… I’m not quite sold on the idea that they’re lives are so difficult.

  9. Even with the ability to hide behind a screen on the internet and therefore be shielded from judgement?

    Let us know. Who is turning you all down left and right because there exists a plethora of attractive, nice bodied, masculine, relationship oriented, available men? From what point of view are these great expectations that are imposed on you all coming from (hetero or homosexual)? At what points do you feel the most like you are not up to standard: when compared next to a breeder or another wolf? Do wolves find themselves comparing themselves to other wolves that they know and if so, in what ways?

    Elaborate. Please.

  10. I, for one, would have answered and shared…
    BUT, I’ve been SO distracted by pic #3
    That ASS <— Where its at?
    ^^^I want it *attack mode*
    That was NOT a wolf
    But it sure brought out MY wolf side
    😉

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