see,
i knew going back would be an issue.
you’ll never feel comfortable the second/third/tenth time around.
as much as you’ve “talked about it”,
nothing ever changes.
some folks just don’t change as much as you’d want them too.
it’s just a honeymoon phase,
a few rounds of make up sex,
and social media status updates.
i got a text today from my friend who went back to their abuser:

“i think he is cheating on me.
i’m about to trash this whole crib…”

um…

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i was talking to pose one day and she said:

“There are a lot of males out here that are experimenting.”

social media and the foxhole have show me this also.
males you think are “straight” are secretly experimenting.
personally,
i believe that folks aren’t 100% straight or gay.
yes,
this includes males too.
i believe anyone can fall into same sex relations,
even if it’s jackin off or a strong emotional connection.
well a foxholer sent me an article that may prove me right.
it seems there might be some truth to this theory.
this is what i was sent via “the daily mail”…
Continue reading “No One Is Really 100% Straight” →

foxhole,
i’m currently at struggle city right now.
that daylight savings time knocked me completely off my tail.
i’m so tired because i didn’t get enough sleep last night.
3 hours is probably what i ended up getting.
i tossed and turned the entire night.
during that brief time i slept,
i had an intense dream…

Continue reading “When A Familiar Presence Visits You In A Dream” →

ya know,
i was all for queen naomi getting her bag with skepta.
i thought he was sexy too…
…until i saw this video...
Continue reading “Well, I’m Sending Best Wishes To Naomi Campbell!” →

so beyonce is back with a big surprise.
well someone allegedly leaked it on ticket master first,
but this is the actual official announcement.
she announced that shes going on tour with jay on her ig.
it’s left me wondering…
Continue reading “Beyonce Is Bringing Some (Extra) Baggage On Her New Tour!” →

ya’ll play too much in the ig foxhole dms!
out of controlllllllll.
sooooooo…
i like to think of milan christopher as the little engine that couldn’t stop.
he keeps going,
and going,
and going,
and going for those fifteen minutes.
sex tapes and horrible music be damned!
well a ig foxholer sent me the following and i gotta ask…
Continue reading “Milan Christopher Has A Special Delivery For The Foxhole” →