She Got “A Train” Ran On And Then Jumped Infront A Train

how sad.
this was her last tweet before she jumped in front of a train:

@feliciagarcia97
let this be a lesson to everyone…

The tormented Staten Island teenager who killed herself by jumping in the path of a train was bullied to death by classmates after she had sex with four football players, police sources said Thursday.

Felicia Garcia, a 15-year-old freshman at Tottenville High School, was driven to her death when two classmates blabbed about the encounters — and she learned that it had been recorded.

“Kids are saying she had sex with some guys from the football team at a party after the game,” said a friend of the doomed girl who asked not to be identified. “Later on they wouldn’t leave her alone about it. They just kept bullying her and bullying her.”

After the weekend, the bullying sent Felicia into the final tailspin in a long-troubled life.

“I cant, im done, I give up,” she tweeted Monday.

School officials heard of the bullying and set up a mediation session Wednesday with a counselor and one of the 17-year-old boys. The teenager denied harassing the girl, the sources said.

Leaving the office, Felicia later ran into the other 17-year-old who had been making her life miserable — and they exchanged words, the sources said.

Even before her suicide, Felicia’s life was marked by tragedy, the sources said. She was living with a foster family and a chronic runaway who had been reported missing seven times, they said.

Detectives are now questioning the students accused of harassing Felicia and combing through Facebook and other social media for evidence that she was bullied. They have also questioned the four varsity football players with whom Felicia had sex.

They are between the ages of 15 and 16, the sources said.

Police did not say what was said. But it was enough to send Felicia marching off to the Huguenot station of the Staten Island Railroad, where she killed herself in front of horrified classmates.

Senior Alissa Compitello said she saw Felicia on the way to the train station and the girl told her that she had the mediation because of the bullying.

“She was smiling though, like everything was going to be okay,” said Compitello, 17.

But a quick look at Felicia’s Instagram account would have revealed the depths of her despair. On it, she placed a picture of herself with the word “Depressed” covering her eyes.

“Just because someone is smiling doesn’t make them happy,” read her caption.

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/15-year-old-throws-front-train-staten-island-article-1.1191808#ixzz2ARZ6jf9k

that is sad,
but i couldn’t help but wonder if she was the cause of her own doom?
she allowed them to choo choo on her…
… so her action caused the ended reaction of those idiots.
if she didn’t let all those wolves inside her,
she would not have been bullied.
people need to start thinking 5 days or months.
not 5 minutes.
but:

no video.
deny.

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

49 thoughts on “She Got “A Train” Ran On And Then Jumped Infront A Train

  1. You know, I felt sorry for this chick yesterday but I didn’t know that this was what happened. I’m gonna keep it real. This is all her fault. I don’t care what no one says. What girl lets football players run train on them anymore? We all know that they will bad talk you in a heartbeat. When you put yourself in situation you need to be aware of the outcome. Just like when promiscuous people have sex with multiple people raw and then want to cry when they have HIV. I don’t feel bad for them either. Some things can be avoided. Period.

    1. Again, she’s still a child. Everyone doesn’t have the same support system, upbringing, or values instilled. Even then, they go astray. Kids are wild, hormonal, rebellious, & look for love/acceptance from their peers – and often that’s seen as sex. Idk if they’ve been suicidal, but I have dealt with teens who felt unloved & searching for acceptance…and make bad choices. And shaming/slut-shaming them does nothing more but make them continue to make the same poor choices cuz no one tries to help them do better — be better. Maybe I’m just more empathetic/sympathetic to something like this. Not to mention that suicide is really a mental illness, so…yeah. I think it’s great that you made it through your trials, but everyone isn’t like you; some don’t know there is better, let alone do better. Why is no one talking about the boys who recorded it? The ones who talked? Or the ones who mercilessly teased her?

      And to be clear, I’m not saying its okay or right that she had sex w/those boys. It’s sad. Just that its indicative of her mental state, and if people treated her like it was all her fault, instead of helping her to make better choices, then maybe that only added to her depression & eventual suicide.

      However, you have your opinion, and while I think it’s unduly harsh, I’ll leave it alone after this & say I disagree…strongly. There are bad people & there are good & normal people who make bad choices/decisions…I think this girl was in the latter category.

    2. Yes my opinion was harsh but I’m going to stand by it. However, I get where you’re coming from. I just feel that some victims have to understand that their actions play a role in what happens in the future. Instead of acting out she should have talked to someone, which is something many teens don’t want to do.

  2. I dont think the problem was that she fucked them, It was that there were rumors that they had secretly recorded it. I feel sorry for her family because this is an embarrassing situation and its clear that she was already damaged since she was a frequent runaway and lived with foster parents. This Bullying epidemic needs to end, this kids just aren’t built strong anymore. I dont remember ever hearing about all this bullying mess growing up!

  3. This is so sad.

    Won’t say it’s her fault because–well, she’s a kid. She’s only 15. She’s not fully developed. Add that to the fact she was a foster child and a runaway, she probably felt like no one loved her anyway. Which made her even more prone to letting four boys run train.

    Sad.

  4. They need to stfu about it, at least someone hit that pussy before she killed HERSELF. nobody pushed her to no damn thing. She had sex with FOUR : F-O-U-R football players AT 15 YEARS OLD!! Why shouldn’t and won’t people talk. Niggas need to pick up responsibility for their shit, she’s on twitter , tweeting football players and leaving her number….smh.,…at least something else dint kill her first

      1. Where the hell did you come from Davon? Is what your going through that bad that you cant ask for help? You dont have to act out anymore. When youre ready to talk we will be here to help you but until that time comes my friend, Im going to need you to have a seat and not in a chair. Sit your ass, on the floor, indian style and dont a damn thing because these stunts youre pulling are getting old.

      2. James W Dalton Stull. I’ve wanted to say something like that a long time ago but I thought it would be too inappropriate. That nigga ain’t shit for real, I can’t believe him. I think he just did that for attention because we all have been ignoring him for weeks so he was a lil thirsty for attention and he got it. He might just need some dick lol. He is NOT who he says he is anyway because I have seen two different profile pics of him. One time I clicked his name link and a BGC account popped up of a chocolate skin man(he claims to be light skin now, yea right). When I asked him was that him, he didn’t answer and I couldn’t pull up the profile again, but I saved the pic the first time. That dumb ass forgot to log out of his account lol. That’s why he keeps clamming to be light skin all the time. Oh and when he posted the pic of his pipe that clearly was a chocolate toned man’s dick. No light skin man has a dick that dark. What happened to that dark skin guy in that profile Davon? He was hot and I would hit it. I may have to post it with one of my comments one of these days so the others can see how fine he was. I’m keeping your REAL pic. Davon.

    1. The fvck is wrong with you?! I pray you never have a child & have to deal with something like this. Most of the time I ignore your stupid, ignorant azz, but this is too much. Bytch azz punk nygga.

      She was FIFTEEN. Let me see how many teenagers make intelligent life choices at 15…how many of us did stupid ish then? Heck, now. The advent of FB, Twitter, social media, & camera phones just makes things a whole lot more permanent. We’re a hyper-sexualities society, where some kids think you’re a loser if you haven’t had sex by 13. And kids are mean & stupid (im replying to exhibit A-S-S right now), so it didn’t matter what she did; they’d find something else to tease her. Add in the fact that she’s a foster child & chronic runaway & like Random said, she’s lonely & dealing with abandonment issues & possibly a poor foster environment…at her age, you can feel that no one wants you (they just want cute babies). She was a CHILD, not a grown woman. I’m not blaming her. Was having sex with those dudes a bad decision? Yeah, but it would do no good to shame her, make fun of her…or make her feel worse. That child needed her self-esteem built up. Bullying is epidemic – lets get on the bullies & not the victims.

      And Man, I thought you knew better…smh.

      1. ^davon is the perfect example of a bully.
        an online bully.
        he does this same shit over at myvidster.
        he gets online,
        talking shit,
        because he cannot do this in real life.
        i learned to ignore him.
        because if he was in my face with this bullshit,
        this “shy/semi introverted gay boy” that he thinks i am…
        ….would knock his head right off his shoulders.
        he would be kissing my ass afterwards.

        just ignore him.

      2. Why do I know better because I speak the truth? SMH. I hate it when people want to make excuses for peoples actions because of their past and present. I’ve been through it all and I haven’t acted out because of it.

  5. Man….it’s never the answer man. I have been at suicide’s door but it’s NOT WORTH it! THIS is why you need your parents to love on you and teach you the way. People have many reasons why they do what they do!

  6. YOU GUYS ARE IDOTS YOUR THE REASSON SHE KILLED HER SELF THEY SHOULDINT HAVE RAN THERE MOUTHS !!!!! AND QUIT RUNNING YOUR MOUTH ABOUT STUFF YOU DONT KNOW BUT IM SURE YOU CANT DO THAT IN LESS THE SHOES ON THE OTHER FOOT AND YOUR THE ONE BACK AGAINST THE WALL

  7. i dont think she had people she could talk to. she didnt seem to have anyone who she trusted enough to be able to share what was on her mind. she made a bad decision and it had a consequence and i dont think she realized what would happen if she did what she did. bullying is always going to happen i think but those people who feel like they dont have anyone thats there for them or feel like they have anything going for them feel like its the end of the world and they dont have the inner strength or have high enough self worth to even care what happens to them in the future. i been bullied my entire life about things i couldnt avoid so i kinda knows how she feels. maybe things would have turned out better if she had someone who loved her. high school was extremely hard for me. there were lots of rumors about me. but i had wonderful people who backed me up all the time whenever i problems with bullies they were there for me. when i had people ready to jump me i had friends who were there to help fight with me. i didnt have my dad who was there for me in high school as a person who i could talk to. my dad cared about him and his girlfriend the only thing my dad cared about was if i was getting A’s and B’s. i had and still kinda have low self esteem but i had someone. most of the mistakes i made were something i didnt talk to anyone about i just did it on my own. i wish i would have talk to someone i think id have been a much stronger person than i currently am now. some of the teachers knew i was getting bullied but they didnt bother getting involved they felt like kids do that i guess. going to a psychologist coulda helped. i applaud those that have the strength to not act on doing negative things to them self out of negative issues but its hard not to.

  8. Hey guys, it’s been quite a while since I’ve commented and, even though it’s quite late, I can’t seem to let this go until I add to the discussion, namely due to comments from two posters which have left me very troubled. I have to co-sign completely with YngBlkWolf.

    I have noticed stinging comments from Davon which have frequently been off-color. I have not bothered to say anything because it seemed to me as though this person was seeking to stir up things and I figured it best to not encourage him. Tonight’s comments — “Cant wait to hear of more bottoms doing the world favors and removing their infested selves from planet earth faster..” — struck me as, possibly, a cry for help.

    Davon, how do you suppose bottoms get infected? It’s not from spontaneous generation. You sound as though you have been burned and are very angry and hurt. Ronnie, very graciously, suggested you reach out for help. Thanks to Jamari, this site draws a vast readership and, even though many of us are not frequent commenters, I have no doubt that many would not hesitate to embrace you with the support you need, including referrals.

    And, now onto you, The Man: next to my devastation at the horror of this 15 year old child taking her life, was your extremely harsh and insensitive judgement. Although I’ve not mentioned it, I’ve always felt a sort of special kinship with you and YngBlkWolf, as two fellow wolves, albeit much younger. I remember offering to show you guys the ropes at the Penn Relays, and just yesterday was rather amused that you, YngBlkWolf and I, all preferred the contestant D in a post from Jamari.

    Although hoodrats abound and we’ve seen some in posts on here, not all teenagers are savvy and streetsmart. Many 15 year olds are still virgins, including boys. This child was troubled, was in foster care, and had a history of running away. She was obviously a very fragile being. We don’t know whether or not she had been drugged at the party or pressured into having sex. But, that’s not the point. She jumped in front of a train! She is dead.

    You are in college. Your upbringing may have been vastly different from hers. She would not have been passed around in foster care if her biological family situation were stable. She would not have been a habitual runaway, if something wasn’t amiss in the foster homes and/or within her. Suicide is the exreme last resort and we should not be dismissive about it. I’m happy that you, despite any trials you may have experienced, have been strong enough to not go that route. Not everybody is as strong as you may be. I’m going to attribute the brusqueness of your comments to youth and young male bravado. In time, I am hopeful you will come to realize there is a lot of mental illness out there. Times are hard. Suicides are up

    In wrapping this up, because of your brash comments, you are going to have to get in line and be #3 to tap D’s ass after YngBlkWolf and I have had our turns. Being a respectful young man, I know YngBlkWolf will defer to me to go first.

    1. When it comes to these situations we don’t know the full story. It’s times we feel sorry for victims and it’s their fault it happened because of the choices they have made in their lives. While other times we don’t feel sorry for people and it’s really not their fault. If we later find out that she choose to act out and did have people to talk to, I would expect some of you to feel differently about the situation. The posts about what happened to Brandon White will prove my point. This is my last time addressing the situation because we are going to agree to disagree, lets just move on.

      When it comes to guy D on the other post I rather go last anyway, here’s why.

      1. Y’all are my elders. It would only be fair to let you guys go first.
      2. If ol dude is tight as hell, I don’t wanna strain a muscle trying to fight the hole so I rather you guys loosen him up a little.
      3. You know what they say, the best is always yet to come and you two would be the appetizers to him while I’ll be the meal 😉
      4.Oh and last but not least, when Wolfie is trying to catch his breath from exhaustion and you doze off like an old man from the sexual encounter, I’ll sneak ol dude off. HA! You know us young men have the most stamina lol.

      1. While you’re waiting your turn, just make sure you’re attentive as you study the technique of the stroke. You’ll want to be able to carry on in the grand tradition.

  9. So I want to get this clear, she stays on Twitter sending her phone number out to different boys and asking them to hang out with her, agrees to have sex with four of them at the same time and then kills herself when people talk about it and you want to question ME for saying it was her fault? You want me to act like anybody honestly gives a fuck and cry, and blame EVERYBODY else but her? Or do you want me to say it is not the same situation bottoms put themselves in? Let’s be real,life is hard, she did that to herself and if you can’t be real, why is it that I need to act phony?

    1. As i said if i had it my way people like you would be taken in a ally and beat to hell and left for dead thats all i got to say so why dont you take your worthless ass off here and show some good dam respeact you peace of trash

  10. Funny you say that @James W Dalton-Stull and still have the nerve to claim what I said is “wrong” and what you said isn’t? @TheMan did you read YOUR comment before mine? Silly hypocrites
    @TheMan CLEEEEARLY the account you clicked on I RECOMMENDED jamari to click through to it, I don’t gallivant on those sites. I read this blog sir, and make my humble opinions just as you all are. I don’t think I’ve ever quoted anyone but the author here nor have i replied any of you till now, so how is that a ploy for “attention”? You however can’t seem to mind your business and run after every single thing I say whether as a joke or I mean it..you should learn to mind your business. You wanna know who ol dark boy is, sure thing, ask me rather than get salty about it.He’s old news though.. PS I don’t consider myself EXTREMELY light, eh PAUSE..nah i have my days….I like to think of myself as a light light brown NOT dark and stop saving random strangers pics psycho
    @Jamari – silly ass, I’m worse in person, honestly I think… i get that a lot in real life, and I will say it to YOU and anybody else you want me to.. everything I’ve typed here and MORE maybe..why type what you can’t say?? Sounds stupid to me..plus i dint know you keep stalking me on myvidster?? Damn, what can i say.Now I have online groupies in addition to the real life ones…that’s dope. I don’t come on to see replies to me, unless like now I see ya new posts and you asses are saying shit on here.I am a very personable person, (i like to think, and I’m extremely intolerant of bullsh*t) .. You gotta admit too I brought life to ya blog (j/k).. you’re a good writer dude stop bitching me out and being an ass..
    @Yungblkwolf don’t ever call me a punk dumbass you don’t know me and should keep ya retard opinions to yourself weirdo.I I wish your dumbass will say that to me in person.. To answer your retard ass question:
    was grown at 15, I know a lot of young boys and girls who are at that age and make informed decisions. Granted she is a minor, however responsibility IS responsibility. Maybe her parents are to blame.. that too maybe.. the only sensible thing you said was that perhaps she was a runaway child, then yes, I rescind my comments and maybe I was a bit too brash, I guess I was just irritated that people do dumb stuff nowadays and expect everyone else to take blame .
    “We’re a hyper-sexualities society”….spell correctly.
    @Oldhead No sir, I got tested for STDs as of August 2012 and I’m negative for HIV, Herpes, Chlamydia, Syphilis, and Gonorrhea. I haven’t had sex since March and I only have sex with people I know, I am upset however at the news I hear especially within gay folk, fine I know some tops do infect bottoms, however have you read some of the comments these bottoms make at the sight of dick? Have you read the thirst they give off in messages? #Cmonson, you can’t deny they are willing to have sex with any and everything moving..

    TO all of you who think I have an issue..eh I don’t think it is an issue moreso than the fact that I don’t see why men (especially the receptive partners in sex – bottoms , “foxes” etc) can’t act as MEN ..you know, why don’t you do you and still be a man, I’m not saying become hyper masculine but why must you go all the way out to be “worse” than a female? obsess over dick etc.. Now if i can get a REFERRAL to a bottom who can explain that properly and help me UNDERSTAND their mindset, then maybe I can be more “civil” in my comments.

    1. so what in your mind should a man act like? for that matter what should a human act like to you? if you were getting bullied how would you handle the situation?

      1. As a man. IMO, a man should be a man, I’m not dictating how people should live their life, although sometimes there is a threshold that can be crossed..completely heterosexual males wear pink, and sometimes the completely homosexual male might be depicting a tough image with “timbs” (lol).. the baseline is discourses for social norms can and are often crossed, however it seems like homosexuals…correction…BLACK homosexuals are often too obsessed with their sexuality that it defines every other facet of their life – “he looks like he has a big dick” “I would let him fuck me” “i need that type of dick in my life” “I want him now” “He looks straight” etc..I despise… rather.. I don’t “LIKE” those attributes particularly when they are used at me.Barely do you see other ethnicities living off the description of their sexuality..did you know the guy from the real world acted in gay porn, actually living in the gay dorms.. did you see him sashaying or acting HYPER masculine. Nah. It’s just sex. Did you know several lacrosse players in Nebraska etc were fetured in gay porn too…do you know that several Male models and athletes are adult actors? Do you see that coming off in their personal life? Nah. I dare you to use a black athlete..he will either crumble completely or overtly hyper masculin-ize himself.. Why? That’s the answer I don’t have. If someone can answer that or fill me in…maybe I’m missing certain pieces of the puzzle? Heck, when black actors DARE act gay… they have to “GO the extra mile to PROVE they are NOT gay” what for? Do your research and tell me if I’ve made up any of these things.
        I would not want to circumvent this discussion to become about “Davon and His perspective(s)” it would be selfish, the issue here is this young girl…maybe I exhibited tough love..maybe there are blanks I am missing. Educate me.

        How should she have confronted the bullying? By admitting it to herself. That what she did was “wrong” (by whoevers standards), that will make peace with herself and then she can move on. Kat Stacks made a living smashing dicks.. what she DID NOT do was deny EXACTLY what she was doing. Doing so would /may have sent her to kill herself. Before you start Kat Stacks is older, Kat stacks STARTED at 14. Now she could either admit and continue or just say hey you know what I thought these guys wil like me, they don’t so you know what, my mistake. Sure people will still talk however she will feel a lot better and time heals, another story will come up and she will be old news. Now not everyone has the capacity to reason like this, especially at that age, I could and I know several other people currently who even reason farther. So that being said the lesson to youngER people should be to ensure they are capable of the situation they enter. I would want a second chance, I would want forgiveness, I am sure others would. to that I rescind my initial comment maybe it was bit too brash and even possibly unwarranted, but it was definitely REAL.

    2. I’ve said my piece & explanation behind this young girl, teens in general, and you, AND I stand by all of it. Should I ever meet you in person, I’d be glad to call you a “Bytch azz punk nygga.”

      And thank you for being petty to point out my one spelling error — hyper-sexualized* society; I appreciate that – btw, you spelled my screen-name wrong. Reading is fundamental, though, so apparently you missed the part in the article that said she’s a foster child & frequent runaway, so she doesn’t have parents to help her (to your point that because of that you may have been too harsh).

      This is the clearest, cogent, & concise you’ve ever been – maybe if you talked in this manner instead of pretending to be some b-boy, there could be a productive discussion & exchange of ideas, opinions, & debate. Try it, instead of being an azz.

      1. I gladly will knock your jaw off your frame, but you sure are welcome. I’m not pretending to be anybody, I don’t have time for that, I’m not a square so try and embrace the whole package. Your screen name is irrelevant , at least you got the point boi!

    3. First of all, I don’t respond to all your comments so lets clear that up right now, and I don’t write comments like that all the time like YOUR insecure ass does so therefore a hypocrite is something that I am not. I didn’t mean any harm with my comments and the others know that’s not how I get down. Saying that at least someone got her pussy before she died is just fucked up. Wishing bottoms would die is just pure evil and wrong. It ain’t their fault you ain’t had sex in forever and a day, and you know damn well that you have directed negative comments towards me and others on here. Many of us including me tried to get along with you and you still ended up shitting on us every time. What I don’t get is, if you dislike everyone here then you should leave for good cause you, your hate and negativity are NOT wanted around here. You already know I don’t like your ass and I’ve made THAT clear many times. It don’t make sense how your whack ass comes here and starts shit. Oh and when I was talking about the dude in the profile I was being sarcastic cause I thought that was you and I STILL do. Trust and believe I wouldn’t want you*gag* or anybody you know, and if you REALLY think I kept a pic of a damn stranger then you’re sadder than what I thought. You disgust me to the fullest Davon and I mean that. I rather run through a fire and burn to crisp than to read your hateful comments, and that’s real. And the thing is, I hate talking this way because that’s not who I am about, but individuals that are as mean,vile and hateful as you bring out the worst in me.

      1. This clown…I dont have sex because I CHOOSE to, if i accept EVERY offer of sex I have and get FREQUENTLY from girls AND guys (matter of fact, one won’t stop sending me pictures almost DAILY) I will have sex at LEAST twice daily. Secondly, stop making yourself believe shit, I don’t “reply you”. For fucks sake can a nigga just read this without getting bashed on..damn.I don’t dislike anybody, I won’t be petty, I dislike certain THINGS and ATTITUDES Mr. You bring out the worse of yourself, stop looking to blame anybody for your foolery. I don’t see why you would lie about petty shit, that’s Immature and ridiculous.
        Find yourself to the nearest gas station, I hear fires are quick to start there. ! I don’t know that you don’t “like me” , I’m crying out loud cus I give fucks or because I knew about it all along. And Jamari since you wanna be bold you can come find me @ the Step show going on in NY in Jan. I’m a very nice polite young man, I don’t see why you all want to be mean to me.

      2. Nigga on a thread you did reply to me. I said something about how masculine I wanted my man to be. I said I want my man to walk like a man and have a nice deep voice and you asked me what was I going to do next bend over for him? Don’t worry I’ll find the post.

      3. I got a receipt.

        He quoted my comment and responded to me while I was talking to Vain.

        The Man :
        To me, the definition of a true masculine man is a man who is truly masculine, it’s that smiple. Masculinity is a big reason why I’m attracted to men in he first place. I like a man’s nice deep voice and the way he walks with his back straight and shoulders up. I mean, a dude doesn’t have to play a sport or act like a thug, but just be manly. Is that too much to ask for Vain?

        Davon’s comment:

        So if a bottom who fulfills all that come along, what next? You bend over for him?

        The name of the post was CASTING: A FOX TO BUMP BOOTY BUTT CHEEKS WITH (MUST HAVE FAT ASS)

        I got a receipt and I want my money back. Pick your battles wisely. You don’t want none of this. I’m done with you Davon I’m tired of arguing with you. Have a blessed night.

  11. Davon
    OCTOBER 27, 2012 AT 6:59 PM
    As a man. IMO, a man should be a man, I’m not dictating how people should live their life, although sometimes there is a threshold that can be crossed..completely heterosexual males wear pink, and sometimes the completely homosexual male might be depicting a tough image with “timbs” (lol).. the baseline is discourses for social norms can and are often crossed, however it seems like homosexuals…correction…BLACK homosexuals are often too obsessed with their sexuality that it defines every other facet of their life – “he looks like he has a big dick” “I would let him fuck me” “i need that type of dick in my life” “I want him now” “He looks straight” etc..I despise… rather.. I don’t “LIKE” those attributes particularly when they are used at me.Barely do you see other ethnicities living off the description of their sexuality..did you know the guy from the real world acted in gay porn, actually living in the gay dorms.. did you see him sashaying or acting HYPER masculine. Nah. It’s just sex. Did you know several lacrosse players in Nebraska etc were fetured in gay porn too…do you know that several Male models and athletes are adult actors? Do you see that coming off in their personal life? Nah. I dare you to use a black athlete..he will either crumble completely or overtly hyper masculin-ize himself.. Why? That’s the answer I don’t have. If someone can answer that or fill me in…maybe I’m missing certain pieces of the puzzle? Heck, when black actors DARE act gay… they have to “GO the extra mile to PROVE they are NOT gay” what for? Do your research and tell me if I’ve made up any of these things.
    I would not want to circumvent this discussion to become about “Davon and His perspective(s)” it would be selfish, the issue here is this young girl…maybe I exhibited tough love..maybe there are blanks I am missing. Educate me.

    How should she have confronted the bullying? By admitting it to herself. That what she did was “wrong” (by whoevers standards), that will make peace with herself and then she can move on. Kat Stacks made a living smashing dicks.. what she DID NOT do was deny EXACTLY what she was doing. Doing so would /may have sent her to kill herself. Before you start Kat Stacks is older, Kat stacks STARTED at 14. Now she could either admit and continue or just say hey you know what I thought these guys wil like me, they don’t so you know what, my mistake. Sure people will still talk however she will feel a lot better and time heals, another story will come up and she will be old news. Now not everyone has the capacity to reason like this, especially at that age, I could and I know several other people currently who even reason farther. So that being said the lesson to youngER people should be to ensure they are capable of the situation they enter. I would want a second chance, I would want forgiveness, I am sure others would. to that I rescind my initial comment maybe it was bit too brash and even possibly unwarranted, but it was definitely REAL.

    im asking you because you came at it saying someone got they nut off good! like thats all shes worth. just because she doesnt know her self worth doesnt mean we should jump on and put her down futher by saying what you did. i think thats why she acted the way she did because of people already saying shit like that.

    i have no clue who kat stacks is but was she being called all kinds of of things?

    my point is that people like yourself who say shit like that is what drives people to do shit to them self becuase it isnt one or two people its groups of people. no matter if they have threesomes or are a fag or are black whatever the case may be. are you perfect no. no body is but still the point is people need to watch what they say out they mouth period. jay didnt agree with everone either but he didnt say what you said.

    i have no clue where you think that just black homosexuals are into that “be a man” thing cause its all homosexuals. trust me when i say its all races. black people might be the first to get put on blast maybe but ive got turned down by lots of different races about the “your not masc enough”. white people on x-tube are OBSESSED with big dicks not just black. in fact they so obsessed they dont care if its black blue orange purple they just want a big dick.

    and out of all the shit you know you still said what you did and made yourself look like all the other assholes who been talking shit about how hoes should die. thats fucked up to me. im just saying

    1. This clown…I dont have sex because I CHOOSE to, if i accept EVERY offer of sex I have and get FREQUENTLY from girls AND guys (matter of fact, one won’t stop sending me pictures almost DAILY) I will have sex at LEAST twice daily. Secondly, stop making yourself believe shit, I don’t “reply you”. For fucks sake can a nigga just read this without getting bashed on..damn.I don’t dislike anybody, I won’t be petty, I dislike certain THINGS and ATTITUDES Mr. You bring out the worse of yourself, stop looking to blame anybody for your foolery. I don’t see why you would lie about petty shit, that’s Immature and ridiculous.
      Find yourself to the nearest gas station, I hear fires are quick to start there. ! I don’t know that you don’t “like me” , I’m crying out loud cus I give fucks or because I knew about it all along. And Jamari since you wanna be bold you can come find me @ the Step show going on in NY in Jan. I’m a very nice polite young man, I don’t see why you all want to be mean to me.

      1. i honestly didnt think i was being mean……..but you can take it your a “man”. what did you think would happen when u say negative things like that? you are a hypocrite. didnt you just say “Niggas need to pick up responsibility for their shit”? where are you picking up for yours at? just asking

      2. I got a receipt.

        He quoted my comment and responded to me while I was talking to Vain.

        The Man :
        To me, the definition of a true masculine man is a man who is truly masculine, it’s that smiple. Masculinity is a big reason why I’m attracted to men in he first place. I like a man’s nice deep voice and the way he walks with his back straight and shoulders up. I mean, a dude doesn’t have to play a sport or act like a thug, but just be manly. Is that too much to ask for Vain?

        Davon’s comment:

        So if a bottom who fulfills all that come along, what next? You bend over for him?

        The name of the post was CASTING: A FOX TO BUMP BOOTY BUTT CHEEKS WITH (MUST HAVE FAT ASS)

        I got a receipt and I want my money back. Pick your battles wisely. You don’t want none of this. I’m done with you Davon I’m tired of arguing with you. Have a blessed night.

  12. TO DAVON:

    you are ruining my blogging experience.
    seriously.
    this entry and these comments are sad to me.
    and it’s sad because you seem so hurt and so insecure.
    just by reading your comments.
    you are never nice about ANYTHING, do you realize that?
    not once do you give a positive spin.
    what fox has fucked you up?
    were you a fox who was fucked up?
    who has done you wrong?
    have i done you wrong?
    has the gay world done you wrong?
    it makes no sense.
    i don’t get it.
    and then you go hard with your comments…
    like you had a bad day and you take it all out on me and the gay world.
    i seriously don’t get it.

    when i made this blog,
    i made it as an outlet.
    for myself and for people who wanted a place to feel free and safe.
    judgement free.
    you come on here and do the opposite of what i am about.
    i’m all for debate,
    but how can someone debate with you when you hit below the belt?
    you got man, old head, random, wolfie and even new taylor coming out of character.
    i have never seen them get like that.
    you have that fighting ghetto gay mindset because you want to rebel and go against everything.
    and for what?
    it is one thing to have a different opinion,
    but you come off very nasty and judgmental.

    but you know what?
    i have readers who come on and don’t always agree,
    but keep it respectful because i give them that.
    and i know my stance is i will never be who you are.
    it gets you nowhere,
    creates enemies,
    burns bridges,
    has people looking at you crazy,
    and just ultimately is a waste of time.

    so that’s all i have to say about that.
    but don’t ruin it for myself and everyone else.
    we seriously don’t deserve this negativity dude.
    we did nothing to you.

    1. You have me cracking up literally man..i can’t be laughing this loud in a study hall…you’re the bottom that got me hurt jamari .. lol.. Seriously man, I don’t have anything against anyone, my experiences have been good with guys .. so far, i guess the thing is I can come off as an ass sometimes…well..most times…but 9.5/10 i dont even remember what it is i typed, it’s not serious to me. AT ALL.. I’m shocked that I come off as hurt.. I’ve heard a lot of dastardly things about black gays… I compliment you about your writing, I make positive comments, you REFUSE to read or acknowledge them and only boast out what I did “wrong” ..aren’t YOU being judgmental?

    1. Well I think its all sad.I just wonder if she had sex with all of them willingly or by force.I remember when I was 16 or 17 I had a boyfriend who let his friends have their way with me.I knew him for awhile 2 maybe since age 14 but we were friends only and I never thought that would happen.I went to his house and we had sec then I heard lots of male voices.Then my boyfriend said you’re a slut so you deserve this.3 guys took their turn with me while I tried to fight each 1 of them.I was hit and threatened so I blacked out and took it.They dropped me off by my house and I walked the rest of the way.My mom asked me where I went and what happened to me but I couldn’t tell her.I knew she would blame me because I left while her and my sister were at the store.When I told her as an adult she blamed me because I shouldn’t have been having sex.Also the boys at school told everyone I was a slut and I believed them so did everyone else.Sorry so long.

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