of all these billions of folks in this big ass forest,
you had to be attracted to the one person that might not be good for you.
it’s like no one else even matters but them.
i don’t know if it’s the conquest or the loneliness,
but this one person just shines in your eyes.
my home vixen is having that issue at this moment.
she met this dude and everything was all good in the beginning.
he would text her daily and gave the impression he was interested.
he texted her cousin,
who they met though,
“I think I’m in love with her”
of course they fucked and it was aaaaaaaaaah-mazing.
well he ghosted her shortly after.
he had some shit going on in his personal life.
it’s been a whole year,
but she is still missing and yearning for him.
he still creeps on her socials,
but he isn’t doing anything to get back with her.
i get it tho.
the way he was moving,
it looked like he was really digging her.
on the phone last night,
i had to ask her…
“Do you think if you had options,
like you had a ton of males that were interested in you,
would you be thinking about this dude so heavy?’
she had to think about it,
but her answer was “no“.
i had to ask myself the same question when i got off the phone.
Am I mentally slumming it with someone that I wouldn’t even look at if I was on “the baddest fox” mode?
sometimes we latch onto these males because we have no other options.
loneliness will have you out here slumming it.
if you had dudes beating down your door that looked like…
Would that one male you’re so obsessed with be in your radar?
the answer would probably be “no“.
you would be able to see his flaws much faster than you do now.
so next time we start getting obsessed with someone,
we need to ask ourselves…
Is it loneliness or do we REALLY see potential in this person?
the honest answer might surprise you.