i want a conversation with the foxhole.
this will be a judgment-free zone.
i won’t judge you,
but i’m sure others will pretend to be perfect.
many of us have been fucked over by jackals we thought we loved or fucked with.
they left our lives and moved on,
but sometimes those feelings of animosity still linger.
like my sister,
we actually want to see them do better.
when someone casually mentions their existence to you,
you genuinely have a good word for them.
“I hope they’re doing well.”
…and actually mean it.
this is how you know you’ve healed and moved forward.
other people from your past might get a completely different response.
i wanted to ask a question to the foxhole…
Is there anyone(s) who you REFUSE to say anything nice about?
they could have won the lottery and given the check from Jesus and you’d still be like:
“Fuck that bitch.”
you know “it’s not of God” to mention that loud.
people will say you’re holding onto grudges or it’s bad karma.
is it thooooooo?
i was talking to the pretty vixen earlier about this wolf from our past.
even though he turned out to be fake af,
i genuinely wished him well because he has been down bad.
i’m def not gonna be watching his life play out on ig.
when i’m done with you; i’m done with you.
i went on to font:
“You will not get me to say anything kind about ________,
my last job and the bosses i worked under,
and ______ with _______.
You simply won’t.”
i feel like it’s fake to send well wishes when you aren’t being genuine.
plus and being 110,
but some people don’t deserve well wishes and kind words for their nasty behavior.
folks really create trauma out here for others and move on like it’s all good.
they are free to destroy lives and we have to speak highly of them?
what about murderers and rapists?
so i had to wonder…
Should we always wish those who did us wrong…
or is it okay to genuinely say “fuck that bitch”?