is “until you do right by me, everything you do will fail” kind enough to send in a well wishes card?

i want a conversation with the foxhole.
this will be a judgment-free zone.
i won’t judge you,
but i’m sure others will pretend to be perfect.

many of us have been fucked over by jackals we thought we loved or fucked with.
they left our lives and moved on,
but sometimes those feelings of animosity still linger.
for some,
like my sister,
we actually want to see them do better.
when someone casually mentions their existence to you,
you genuinely have a good word for them.

I hope they’re doing well.”

…and actually mean it.
this is how you know you’ve healed and moved forward.
other people from your past might get a completely different response.
i wanted to ask a question to the foxhole…

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baller wolf, juju smith-schuster, takes another male to prom

this is a “feel good” kind of story.
i’m sure it will raise eyebrows as well.
so imagine going to your senior prom

…With a Baller Wolf?

^that baller wolf in the picture above.
juju smith-schuster,
who plays for the steelers,
and he did a very good deed last week.

He escorted another male to his prom

…all because he asked.
it’s that easy?
a foxholer sent me this story and…

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The Ministry of “NO” (It’s Nice To Live This Way)

wanting to be seen as nice is actually being emotionally manipulative.

i am now starting to realize that.
took me long enough.
sure,
it’s great to be genuine out in these forests.
blessings upon blessings,
but that should always come from the heart.
this is why i don’t like the word “nice”.
it’s used in a manipulative context.
one that i use to do and didn’t realize.
so i was talking to my home vixen yesterday…

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When Giving A Blessing Gets You 22,000 Likes

i love when i hear about those doing nice things.
it makes me feel like there is still compassion left in the world.
well this cashier,
by the name of sharnique dasant,
at walmart did something nice for a customer.
  she paid the customer’s entire grocery bill with her credit card.
peep why it happened via yahoo news
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