i still like their song, “stay with me”

so sam smith is “they” now.
don’t call him “he” or even “she“.
they doesn’t go by that any longer.

They has changed them pronouns

this is what they had to font on their instagram

so we shall respect their wishes.
one thing tho,
under “sex” on their driver licenses and other paperwork

Is it now “them”?

“me” is confused at if the government has caught on yet.

lowkey: is it wrong to font my confusion at all of this?
you know we can’t admit confusion these days.

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

14 thoughts on “i still like their song, “stay with me”

  1. I am confusion about this whole they them business. Like is there a singular for it , Cuzco if I tell someone ” they are coming to dinner” and one person shows up. Or someone asks “Is Sam going to be there? ” and I answer yes they is gonna come. Lol . As for the paperwork does it now have to have a check box for “”other” ?

  2. I’m gonna be real…he then fucked up his career this with this bullshit!!! No I don’t mean coming out but all the other stuff that even myself as a gay man regardless of how many times I have googled and have no understanding of this non conformity trying to be so different that you just don’t make sense bullshit!!! Stop with the explanations and just be you…”Sam Smith” !!! Damn!!!!😔😔😔😔

  3. I can’t get with the binary/non-binary stuff. I have just now accepted my sexuality but will not use pronouns. It is just confusing. Speaking of his latest shirtless picture, he gives me gay bear vibes with the body hair. If he gets in a gym and get ripped, he could really bring his career back from the brink. At least he is starting to accept his body image, an important step in transforming yourself.

    1. I’m so glad that the foxhole is so real. I’m in the same boat. I know that I’m a man who like naturally born men. I know gay lingo and have gaydar. I know how to somewhat vogue and play with my feminine side. But I do not know shit else about the gay community that I belong too. So color me fucking confused when it comes to the whole trans movement. I got love for all humankind. Just be you and fuck the rest.

  4. Chile, I knew these folks being doing to much. That’s what I be saying. They really being doing the most. I call it as I see it…He, Him, She, Her, IT

  5. It comes down to people wanting to feel special. Using the hot new words to be “deep” and “progressive”. For a group that says sexuality is fluid and gender identity is different than sex and labels are oppressive, they sure keep coming up with new ones.

    I don’t even bother with pronouns now. I say the person’s name when referring to them.

  6. And Jamari, Trump wants the word “trans” and several others to be removed from any human rights documents. So no, the government will not be participating. And that should be troubling to all of us.

  7. I’m not at all surprised by this… Sam said not to long ago that Alok Vaid-Menon was like “a guru” to him (Sam Smith). If you don’t know who Alok is, I highly recommend you look him up. It will explain “them’s” use of these new pronouns.

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