a majority of people are suffering in silence.
so i want you to do me a favor foxhole.
look at everyone without the:
strip away some of these masks and if you really pay attention.,
you’ll see the real person.
we see glimpses of their true selves with what they’re passionate about,
what offends them,
how they treat others,
and often when they’re in extreme cases of high stress.
more often than not,
it shows you exactly who someone really is.
the foxhole has been sending me the tragic loss of another shining star.
he was an influencer,
and hair stylist by the name is tai couture.
he took his own life yesterday.
everyone is shocked.
one title in an article said:
“A picture perfect facade masks a world of pain”
if i’ve learned anything,
being a blogger and a human in general…
FOLKS ARE HURTIN OUT HERE B
we get so caught up in beauty,
and how much they lift in the gym,
that we don’t often realize they want to feel needed.
folks are literally hurt children screaming out for attention.
social media has made it easy for anyone to achieve fame,
but we often get wrapped in their highlight reels than look at the bigger picture.
even with all the massive likes and followers,
many in his comments ogling over his bawdy,
tai was not happy.
that is telling that even with all that attention,
that didn’t stop him from taking his own life.
i don’t know tai or his struggles,
but he isn’t here with us any longer.
we have to always remember that everyone has a struggle.
some don’t express themselves because:
Their parents didn’t allow them to
They were shamed for doing so
They weren’t allowed to because of being popular/always having to be “on”
They had to be everyone else’s shoulder
They learned to direct the attention off what’s really bothering them
gay males are more suasible to this.
it can be a very lonely for one,
many gay males grew up in extremely abusive environments.
we repeat the same toxic traits that some of us were taught.
some of us act like the same straights or parents who tormented us.
it’s not fair or kind.
foxhole and all of you who fuck heavy with me:
YOU MATTER TO ME
if no one has told you that recently,
ill font you that.
i’ve personally reached out to those when i’m at my lowest and they always respond.
i thank them and thank you for being on this journey with me and holding me down.
i appreciate you.
May Tai continue to rest peacefully
low-key: we gotta stop telling other gay males when they’re struggling…
“You need to go get some dick”
tai had a nice bawdy,
21.4k followers on ig,
and pulling in close to 1,000 likes on many of his pics/videos.
i’m sure he had no issues getting sex in society,
yet his funeral is going to be next week.
“Do you need someone to talk to?”
let’s try that.