He Left The Fucking Outside The Bedroom and Made Love To Me

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Aaaah good ol 90’s music.

I love how that song makes me feel.
Makes me feel so so so good inside.
It makes me feel like I can feel the “love” they are singing about.
I always wanted to “make love”.
But I have never FELT like that when I was with a Wolf.
I have always felt… un fulfilled.

One: they never last long.
Two: I was always a piece of meat to them.

I started to wonder:

Can a Wolf make love to you?

What the hell is making love exactly anyway?
I heard that term in songs and even with my parents (yuck) and older folks…

But I never knew what that meant.

I always thought it meant the following:

My Wolf taking me to a hotel,
lighting candles,
and slow stroking me passionately…

^I miss having my legs that high.
sorry.
tmi.

Anyway, the actually puts more effort into making it last.
He isn’t interested in me cummin’ first or him cummin’ first.
It is just the feeling of him being inside and it actually lasting….

…but I’m confused, isn’t that the same as fucking too?

I always see images of FUCKING.
Straight up, buck wild, Wolf is tryna make you nut, skeet on your butt cheeks FUCKING.
Shit, even in fucking, the Wolf loves his hips down to grind that pipe into you.
ESPECIALLY IF HE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU.
They don’t “make love” in porn.
And in reality, making “love” sounds really boring.
No one is really going to sit there and try to jack off to two people “making love”.

It got me thinking about that other side of sex…that sensual side…
Maybe making love when out in the 90s?
Maybe it is only for our straight counterparts?
Maybe it isn’t the “in” thing to do?
Who knows.
And then, when do you make love?
Is it something you do when you are in a relationship?
Or, is it something you just feel when you are having sex?

Shit, I want to know because I am curious…

When it comes to making love…

Do you need to be in LOVE to make it?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

15 thoughts on “He Left The Fucking Outside The Bedroom and Made Love To Me”

  1. One can’t make love if they aren’t in love or if they don’t even know what love is to begin with.

    Most of us are fucking period. Some of us get treated like a top notch fuck and go to hotels or his loft and fuck on king size beds with sheets that have upwards of an 500 thread count others are fucking in the backseat of 98′ Neons and in club restrooms. All of it is sex that is a means to an end.

      1. I don’t think making love for gay/bi dudes is any different from the way heterosexuals define it.

        I’m sure somewhere in the world there are some dudes in committed relationships that aren’t into all that porn shit and have more intimate sex. I’m also sure that no matter how good it is, their “love making” isn’t the epitome of their relationship.

  2. Yes you do need to be in love to make love. Think about it, how can you make love if their isn’t any there in the first place?, you can’t, but when it does, you will feel it.

      1. Sex is making love when you are in love. Some poeple think they are making love and aint doing but making sweat. SMH.

  3. The attraction has to be more than physical. When its just sex, its first “cum” first serve. In making love, its about passionate kissing, tender touching, gazing in each others eyes. It becomes less about the nut and more about the connection.

    1. Sam pretty much said it – it’s about the feelings and love you have for that person put into the sex…a deeper connection beyond the physical ‘nut.’

      It’s also those time where you’re laid up together watching TV, or he’s cooking and you’re content being in each other’s space.

  4. You definitely have to be in love to make love, and making love is way more than a physical connection, it’s mental, it’s feelings, it’s two people becoming one, it’s beautiful…unfortunately we live in a society and in our own community it’s always about getting some dick, or ass, and not actually developing relationships where love is the basis, so making love is something that alot of us have yet to experience… But it’s out there

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