Sooo I’m clearly a fem bottom. I always have had a light voice it never really got any deeper. I’m young I enjoy and love sex. My throwback game strong I give some of the sloppiest bj’s ever I’m told by almost everyone I have sex with that I’m amazing and I do all the right things that they like and turn them on. But usually I deal with punk ass niggas that spread my business. I’m fem but I just want to establish some type of NSA with someone discreet or DL but then it turns out almost all the DL/discreet niggas get exposed on places like tumblr n shit and all they business out there.
What do I do?
A lot of them either aren’t attracted to me or think I’ll tell their business cause I’m fem. But all I really want is for them to come lay the pipe and get the fuck out. Im NOT one of those niggas that screams slay queen or slay Beyoncé but I enjoy lots of other “feminine” things. It makes it hard for me to find someone who I can casually fuck but also keep my business my business.
So what should I do?
Who should I try to establish a relationship like this with?
It’s hard to trust other queens out there because they are always involved in drama and outing each other.
you know the game has changed when you read:
ALL THE D/L AND DISCREET ARE GETTING EXPOSED
now you knowwwwwwww….
i love a good “d/l or discreet” who keeps it lightweight in these forests.
you could never truly know who was d/l or even discreet.
everyone was super careful with who they talked to/banged.
it’s a free for all of free nudes and screen shots.
the same wolves i suspected and drooled after have turned me off.
you can’t even fuck a celebrity/baller wolf,
or someone’s boyfriend/husband,
without it getting messy af.
before you could be on the side with no issues.
everyone wants to post EVERY SINGLE DETAIL online. now
i miss the days when privacy was high key.
everyone is desperate for sex and have gotten sloppy now.
i use to think the fem foxes had it easier.
they got all the good meat the forests had to offer.
i guess it was easier to point them out in a line up.
for some of us,
we do play a good “straight”.
that isn’t exactly a compliment because it deters the right bait.
so unless someone gets to know us and plays the bullshit:
I’M CURIOUS AND I THINK YOU MIGHT BE AS WELL!
I’LL PLAY GAMES UNTIL I LEAD YOU ON AND GET BORED!”
this foxmail just proves the grass isn’t always greener on all sides.
it seems to me that you are living in the internet forests.
a place where it can get real messy.
maybe it’s time to try to catch bait in your real forest?
some of the best are actually not the “popular ones” online.
think of it like one big ass high school we all attend.
social media is the lunchroom,
a messy animal will fuck the fine “straight” jock eventually.
to prove that messy animal’s online worth,
he will either leak the nudes or tape the experience.
ithe types you are looking for might be outside of all that.
it may take longer,
but for all you are looking for,
you will have to take that chance.
once you find him,
you need to set those ground rules early.
if you choose to continue navigating through the social media world,
i would suggest be choosy who you give your bomb sex to.
if it’s as good as everyone claims,
why give it to everyone?
i would only give my good stuff to the deserving.
once you get a light whiff of:
…then it’s time to bounce and block.
i find those who send their nudes too early fit that description.
good luck on your journey!
i hope you find the type of dl or discreet you want.
the foxhole should provide better insight as well!
keep us posted!