f0xmail: I Think My Mama Boyfriend Likes To Watch Gay Porn. Help!

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Hi Jamari

I’m 17 years old and oldest  of three children. I’ve got this big problem. And as much as I really wish this was about my own issues it’s not and I need  to figure out how  to go about so he go…

Ok so the last of July my mom’s boyfriend came and ask to see if he could borrow my phone so I let him he had it for like no longer than 30min. When I got my phone back I checked the app that he had used. He made a couple of phone calls and was on the internet. He also had a video app open and there was some BBW porn on, but I  didn’t pay any mind to it. However he came back and asked to borrow it again for  like another 10-15min. and when i received it back this time there was gay porn on the app (this is not the first time I saw this). When I found out that I went to go confront him about it and he claimed I was “making him
feel uncomfortable” so I left there room. Keep in mind that my mom is at church gettin’ her praise on and straight after that she was coming home to change her clothes so that she can go to the doctor because her throat was bothering her
So once she left out again this pineapple would not leave me alone. calling me out  of my room to play cards so that we could “talk,” or coming into my  room and basically hover over me. He even asked to see
my phone again where he showed me the website that he got it from (which he already had claimed that it just popped out of nowhere) even asking me not to tell because he has seen in my history that I watch gay porn too. After that he hasn’t been the same since. (acting super nice, like nothing  happened)

Now Jamari I don’t really  know the dynamic of he and my mother’s relationship, all I know is that he is the lying, manipulative, and super clingy ex boyfriend, that we had so many problems with, and that when they broke up we had to move out the house we were living in and move in  my grandma and all of  the pineapples that were staying there. I feel like maybe she’s being seedy and using him for money but then again she might be stupid and chose to try one more  time with him all I know is that I don’t really like him.

So my question  is Jamari:

how should I go about telling her that I’m gay and also that her boy is too?

p.s. : I think he has mom issues.

MY ANSWER…

i love when my cubs hit me up for advice.
thank you for reading and reaching out.

this one is a tricky one.
we have:

the maybe gayish boyfriend
the church praising mama
a phone with evidence
you

its no surprise that black vixens,
especially church going ones,
will worship the wolf they’re dating.
i have seen vixens slice their own mama’s throats over some so/so peen.
you already said that this wolf is “lying” and “manipulative”.
he already proved that,
trying to act “nice” because he isn’t smart enough to clear his browser history.
people.
PLEASE CLEAR YOUR MESSY BROWSER HISTORY!

if you want mutual destruction,
you can throw the grenade and blow up both your spots.
that move might end up blowing up in your face tho.
if your mama decides to run to him,
and leaves you lying there a singed mess,
you will definitely feel like she forgot she pushed you out 17 years ago.
my advice is that a smart fox,
wolf,
or hybrid learns to set traps here and there.
you let the other person expose themselves,
while keeping your hands clean.
once they do enough dumb shit,
you use their own shovel to bury them.
then add a little this:
“OMG mom!
when he used my phone sometime ago,
i went to look at something and gay porn was everywhere.
i really wanted to tell you,
but i was so scared because i didn’t know how you would react…”

i call that plan of attack: GASOLINE.
you pour it all over the flames as the fire is burning underneath the offender’s ass.Raven-Smirk-GIFso my reader,
proceed with caution.
don’t end up in any issues due to someone’s lies and manipulation.
sometimes the best offense and defense is none at all.
a little prayer and letting god handle your enemies works like a charm.
now if you want to get rid of him because you don’t like him,
remember a little something called:

KARMA

it knows all hearts and comes to collect sooner or later.
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….oh
since he is acting all nice,
and apparently has some change,
this is the perfect time to get some free shit.
couple dinners.
maybe even a cute outfit.
he should be feeling pretty generous since you do hold the shovel right now.
buying your silence can be used in “GASOLINE” as well.

NayaSmirkhope this helped!

best,
jamari

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

10 thoughts on “f0xmail: I Think My Mama Boyfriend Likes To Watch Gay Porn. Help!

  1. buying his silence as long as he dont expect nothing in return…………………………………………………………………………………..

    Also, if your mom is a total bitch, which im sure she isnt, you could always get the dick.

    1. NOacid, you know better. That’s the scandalous trifling mess people be talkin about man. Plus this dude is not legal. Everybody would be in trouble. DAMN

  2. J, the advice you gave reminded me of the little devil on one shoulder, and the little angel on the other. Of course we all know you should listen to the little angel. The plan to out him might not go so well for yourself but J is right, you do have the upper hand in the situation. I noticed your frustration with having to live with grandma and the pineapples. I think it’s best to not say anything but do keep tabs on him.

  3. I believe you should sit back and let the situation play out itself. Do not blackmail him or use him to get what you want. If you chose this route tho be careful, you are a young kat playing a grown man’s game and shit can get dangerous and out of hand. You could easily get caught up in his lies and deceit. If he is exposed, he might be willing to drag anyone down with him, including you. Whether the situation gets messy or not, you need to play it safe to protect yourself. He could easily claim you made advances towards him, which will make you look bad. Also, as long as this drama is going on, I suggest you stay in the closet to save yourself from harm. Do not come out to your mother as long as this man is in her life.

  4. Listen to the advice that someone who knows what can happen. Your mother already know that you’re gay it does not have to be told unless you feel comfortable with talking w/ her. Take your time and think on how and when you can tell her. Be very nice and calm when you do. Do not do it in a heated moment, because like others have stated it can become hectic and stones can be thrown at you especially if you go to her about the boyfriend, so relax, pray about an it will work itself out!

  5. he needs to read carefully, be safe because some men are willing to hurt others to not have their sexuality exposed, so don’t think for a second you can just tell your mother and all will be okay….i say since we live in the digital age record some of the conversations he has with you so that you can show it to your mother…or just fall back and wait and see what happens..hell who knows the mother may know about the man’s bisexuality…i know a few females who say they wouldn’t be against dating a bisexual male…*sigh* just saying…but this situation is tricky…and he has to be careful i dont like how the boyfriend is being extra close with him i have a feeling we might hear from this reader again and the boyfriend might make a move sexually…i’m feeling from the undertone of this message the boyfriend would rather be with the son…smh

  6. He can’t possibly be that desperate and stupid to use your phone to look at porn and then not make sure he cleared your history so I’m guessing he was testing you to see your reaction to the BBW porn and then the gay porn.

    Who looks at porn on phones anyway?

    1. Unless the boyfriend knows the reader is gay, which is possible. You know gay knows gay. Being masculine don’t mean shit in 2014.

      When I didn’t have my laptop for a month, I used my phone for everything. I don’t watch porn that much tho…maybe three times a week lol.

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