this is an entry for my male readers.
we need to keep our erections in full check.
sometimes when males are horny,
and really attracted to someone,
we get way too aggressive at times.
check: the social media comments of attentionisto/nistas.
i’m guilty of fonting while horny on the foxhole.
some people are for it and others…
in real life however,
some folks are way too aggressive with the touching.
Do NOT touch random folks you might be fully attracted too
i don’t touch anyone unless they prove they’re into me.
i let them control the narrative.
i’ve dealt with a few who i thought were interested in me,
made it seem they were,
but turned around and said otherwise.
i had to me wipe my forehead because my horniness was on tier 8.
if i would grabbed his pipe,
or even feel up on arms,
i woulda ended up looking crazy.
this is a brand new era of #metoo.
even as gays with the straights,
some folks can be trife af.
i’ve seen straights lie and say someone gay tried to come onto them.
everyone naturally believed the straight,
while ruining the innocent rep.
it happened to me once.
i thought was cool with me,
said i invited him over to my crib and tried to come onto him.
crazy part is,
he’s never been in my apartment.
he blatantly lied to folks we were mutually cool with.
some they took my side and banished his ass.
he was low key jealous/attracted to me but that’s another story.
i’ve seen someone at a past job get fired for that shit too.
they thought a vixen was into them and decided to hug her from the behind.
being the dirty jackal bitch she was,
she told a supervisor how uncomfortable it made her feel.
she claimed he was “grinding his erection into her tail” with that hug.
next thing you know,
he was out the door.
so to avoid mess with folks:
keep hugs brief
keep hands on waists or small of back
hand shakes if you feel unsure
it’s easy for things to be taken the wrong way nowadays.
the moment you do,
they’ll hashtag your head and fuck up your reputation out here.
folks are fucked up.
it’s worst when you have money and power.
you will lose everything you worked hard for in a heartbeat.
so i had to ask the foxhole…
What signs give you the green light to touch someone?
that “ariana grande scandal” inspired me.
i think this might be an important font today.
lowkey: ive around males with fat butts,
and delicious prints,
but i keep my erection out of my line of thinking.