i kinda see why most of us take our chances with the “curious straights”.
it isn’t the politically correct thing to do,
but there are many of us who just don’t do the gay chat sites.
entries like the last one keep a foxholer on guard nowadays.
i miss when things were just starting…
the days when chat sites were new and you had to search to find it.
how about when you knew “no orientation” on a profile,
like facebook or blackplanet,
was a green light?
those sites in the beginning had all the good dick on there.
i should know because i rode a few of them.i’d go meet a wolf and was not disappointed.
in those times,
it lured a lot of discreet males who were getting the hang of things.
sometimes you didn’t even fuck on the first encounter.
it was great to meet someone like you looking for the same things.
all those sites are trash now.
the type of gay has changed.
sure you can find a treasure within the trash,
but it’s a legit search.
you gotta go through:
high school cliques
she-jackals pretending to be males looking to expose
“i’m too sexy for my shirt” try hards
…and let’s not forget the murderers and robbers.
you gotta bring a bullet proof vest,
and a bat signal just to meet up.
it is a whole mess now.
i hear it’s better on instagram,
but folks out here trying to expose what’s left of the good meat.
folks get a dm from a baller wolf or a celeb,
hell even the finest of the fine,
and they sending screen shots to “the shade room”.
so i get it.
i’m one of those foxholers too.
i get why we get attached to someone in the forests we feel is “one of us”.
it’s face to face and you get to that instant vibe.
that method is also full of games that can literally drive you crazy.
i just don’t know anymore.