“Do i look fat in these jeans?”
the straight wolf knew that question was coming too.
as soon as she waddled her ass in the room,
legit “i know i do but i need to tell me i don’t” look on her face.
you can kinda sense when someone is feeling insecure.
so when she asked that question,
his first instinct is:
“Let me tell her a lie to avoid confrontation.”
that right there.
that is where the issue happens.
instead of him telling this vixen the truth,
he lies to her so it…
a) keeps her happy
b) reassures her she doesn’t look like a land whale
it is allows him to get comfortable in lying,
while temporarily helps her low self esteem.
so when he is out there doing wrong,
he knows that lying will help him smooth things over.
see how that works?
in dating these wolves,
when he says to me:
i’m not looking for anything serious.
i just got out a relationship and my ex was…”
…i’m already cancelling him.
that is the biggest crock of bullshit a wolf can tell you.
so in his mind,
he says that so it allows you to think you can “change his mind”.
he will still give you the “perfect boyfriend experience” tho.
texting you “good morning” promptly
“when we gonna chill?”
…which all is jackal code wording for:
I’M TRYING TO FUCK
I’M TRYING TO FUCK YOU REAL GOOD
…and then after that’s done,
he’ll disappear into thin air like dhalsim from “street fighter”.
no more “good mornings” or even a reply to your texts.
he might leave your shit on “read”.
instead of him saying:
i’m feeling you,
my jackal ways won’t allow me to be honest…”
he won’t say that,
“…i just want to talk and whatever happens; happens.
i don’t want to rush into anything right now.
let’s chill and see where it goes. “
if i’m down with it,
if i want something serious,
then i know he isn’t the one for me.
if i’m sexually attracted to him,
we can cut the “talk” and get straight to business.
if you start off being honest,
then there won’t be so much hurt feelings.
males wouldn’t be outed and life will be so much smoother.
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