so i was talking to a foxholer on one of my socials today.
we were discussing someone being personally offended they didn’t attend ny pride.
according to them,
the animal said:
“oh you can be gay,
but you can’t go show love at pride?
what are you?
this was coming from a straight vixen who was going.
who is more discreet,
felt they may have been doing something wrong because they didn’t go to pride.
i would have told that animal:
“shut your fuckin’ mouth”
…with a lot of love attached to it.
going to pride doesn’t make you any more or less:
happy with yourself
going to pride is a choice.
its the same choice as:
carribeans who don’t attend the labor day parade
spanish that don’t attend their countries parades
skipping on the thanksgiving day parade but eating turkey for dinner
personally i don’t go to those things.
it’s just not my thing.
i’m not a fan of crowds and i gravitate to more low-key events.
don’t let anyone bully you into feeling guilty you don’t attend pride.
make them feel guilty they’re so upset about it.
Is it wrong to feel like this?
let me know.
i think animals who chose to live their lives more discreetly,
or maybe even more dl,
tend to get flack about not attending their cities pride events.