when you get into a relationship with someone,
and they happen to be with someone else,
you should already know what you are getting into.
you will always come second.
sometimes in more ways than one.
well thats if the person really hate who they are with.
they are only together just for the cubs,
the thing about being on the side is things could change at any moment.
it goes from:
“i’m leaving them for you”
“i think we gonna work it out”
sometimes with the latter,
you end up getting left in the dust.
well the story of ex baller wolf,
is sort of the example of what i’m talking about.
his side chick was not pleased with a decision he made with his wife.
The mistress of an NFL player reportedly kidnapped her lover’s wife and shot her dead before killing herself when police caught up to her.
^sandra barnett: wife
Sandra Barnett, 58, a special needs teacher, was abducted from her home in Ellenwood, Georgia, in a black Dodge Durango on Wednesday.
The driver, 49-year-old Lisa Brown, had been having a multi-year affair with Sandra’s husband Buster Barnett, a tight end for the Buffalo Bills in the 1980s, according to authorities.
Brown drove toward the Alabama border and refused to stop for police, leading to a chase that ultimately ended in both her and Sandra Barnett’s deaths on Thursday.
The dramatic kidnapping was triggered when Brown became upset about the Barnetts going on a trip together, Officer Charlene Watson-Fraser, spokesperson for Clayton Police, told the Atlanta Journal-Constitution.
A friend heard an altercation between the tight end’s wife and supposed mistress over the phone as Brown allegedly stormed into the house with a gun.
Someone driving past the house to check on Barnett saw the SUV quickly drive away.
The Durango, as well as Brown’s home in Lithonia, Georgia, were both in Barnett’s name and the pair had allegedly been having an affair for three to four years.
Officers spotted the vehicle on Thursday morning in west Georgia and chased it into Alabama.
Brown then suddenly stopped in the middle of the highway, where authorities say the fatal shootings occurred.
The alleged mistress, also a school teacher in northern Atlanta, was on probation for another kidnapping in Texas, where in 2013 she had abducted her now 12-year-old child after losing custody.
^lisa brown: side chick
Sommer Brown, 12, was the subject of an Amber Alert in April of that year and it took three days to track down the mother and child.
Brown, who also left her teaching job in 2013, was sentenced to eight years probation in March,11 Alive reported.
Sandra Barnett had reportedly recently changed the locks of her back gate after becoming concerned someone had tampered with them.
Buster Barnett is not implicated in the kidnapping.
did he miss the red flags?
or was he just caught up in fuckin’ her?
people don’t know when someone’s crazy will get released.
you might be “strong” today and go absolutely mad tomorrow.
all because of someone else.
some people can get in your life and penetrate you so deep…
you don’t even realize you lookin’ like a damn fool.
i can’t tell you not to get involved with someone already in a relationship or married.
that seems to be the new “trend” these days.
some people can do it and get the perks.
others get their emotions involved and become the next news story.
don’t even act like the person can’t get attached as well.
he/she may want you to never be with anyone else.
this story is sad,
and rip to his wife,
but there is a big lesson in it somewhere.
i’m sure you’ll find it.
buster now has no one.
a sad case of karma?
his wife’s funeral is going to be very interesting.
i wonder if buster will show his face for lisa?
i would tell an f-bi to go…
but that would be wrong.