If you’re old enough to want to fuck,
you’re old enough to get a room
it’s one thing to be high school,
the dl wolf in biology gets down,
and you sneak him into yo mama crib while she is at work.
strangers you meet online for a hook up should get room service.
hook ups are very similar to prostitution.
most johns usually bring prostitutes to a hotel.
it’s usually one night of sex and then never to be seen again.
they shouldn’t know where you live and how to get there.
a foxholer wrote a comment that i wanted to share.
it touched on this recent wave of robbing and killing gays offline…
People got hurt and people lost their lives, so I definitely want to be respectful, but there are a lot of conversations to be had about this. The first problem is people don’t date; you have to date me, we have to go to get a good cup of coffee, go out to a couple of good restaurants, go out to the movies, concerts, plays, I have to pay for something you have to pay for something and all of this has to be going on before you get my address. The dating process typically will expose someone’s true intentions.
2nd words matter; a booty call in most instances implies a familiar relationship i.e. friends who crossed a line and are now occasional sex partners. Even a one-night stand implies something that is organic with a level of spontaneity i.e. we’re at a club or concert /function with a common interest one thing leads to another and boom you’ve done the deed, you wake up in bliss or you wake up with regret as you prepare for your walk of shame. Again, the spontaneity of a one-night stand will weed out the crazies.
What you really have now is a form of prostitution with these social media apps. The problem with prostitution is the implied desperation that comes along with it. You don’t know how desperate the prostitute is and how far they are willing to go to get your money. Things get further complicated with same-sex prostitution situations because now there are different power dynamics at play, in a man/woman dynamic the man is typically going to be stronger than the woman and so the woman is forced to be submissive , you switch that to a man/man dynamic and now all of a sudden you (the John) may be dealing with a man that is more physically capable than you and now all of a sudden you may be in for the fight of your life if things go wrong.
some will probably get insulted by this.
we know who’ll be an alleged victim in the future.
i urge the foxhole to properly pre-screen who you’re speaking to,
even if you trying to fuck on the first “date”.
as the foxholer in the above stated:
“you have to date me, we have to go to get a good cup of coffee, go out to a couple of good restaurants, go out to the movies, concerts, plays, I have to pay for something you have to pay for something and all of this has to be going on before you get my address. The dating process typically will expose someone’s true intentions.“
lowkey: your safety should always come first.