you want to read one of the biggest reasons the dl get outed?
this could be universal tho.
everyone who plays the following game gets exposed
so i’ll font this…
i’ll add this for effect:
that’s the main culprit that gets folks caught up out here.
it has happened to me before.
it’s not the best feeling.
you meet someone,
they claim you’re “so cool and so real”,
and ya’ll start chatting and getting to know each other.
he’s legit my type.
bawdy is crazy.
i think i’ve finally met the one.
he hits me up and asks me how my day was.
he is interested in knowing more about me.
no one has done that before so this feels new.
but i want him to see differently than the other gays.”
“i’m feeling him and i like his conversation.
i want to fuck but i don’t want to make it obvious.
ima keep talking to him so i can get him comfortable enough to make the first move”
when something happens that exposes the real agenda,
he gets turned off and suddenly starts acting funny.
that’s know as the “ghosting”.
a heavy “fuck boi” way to handle things.
you don’t act interested,
keep things real vague,
but get confused because someone felt lead on.
some gay and bi males want companionship too.
you don’t claim someone is a friend and bounce.
either before or after sex.
that whole process before that means:
Talking to someone
that whole “i’m not looking for someone”,
but the actions are completely different is the issue.
so when the “ghosting” and “bitch made behavior” starts,
folks get angry and want to start exposing.
cut it the fuck out.
this is why i think folks need to be more upfront.
my mistake not asking:
“What are you looking for?”
…and not sticking with that.
if you want my foxhole,
then say so.
if that’s all you want,
then say that too.
they’ll be no “texting at all hours” to get to know me.
if i want something more than that,
he isn’t the one so “see ya”.
the moment he fucks your brains out,
and he doesn’t want anything more but you do,
that always activates “the mess bout to start”.
most males need to learn how to communicate a lot better.
that will save a lot of hurt feelings and outing clean ups.
lowkey: some may have gotten outed because they entertained a whole demon.
they ignored all the red flags because the sex was good.