straight dating is similar to gay dating (is it more fucking than dating?)

dating in 2021 is really interesting.
it’s interesting for both straights and gays.
tbh:

Straight males are “dating” like gay males.

i loveeeeeeeeee when the straights think they are so different from us.
why?
because gay males are getting fucked in the sacred “ass”?
straight males fuck vixens in their asses.
some straight males love getting their butt cheeks munched during head.
because some gay males are feminine?
some straight males are feminine and don’t even realize it.
because some gay males are masculine?
some gay males are more masculine and alpha than straight males.
what are even talking about?

Both communities are horny,
frustrated,
and want to waste folk’s time out here.

a vix-bi sent me this video about what straight males are experiencing while dating.
if you look closely tho,
it could be the dating woes in gay dating too…

 

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…but that same dude will ghost you if you aren’t “moving fast enough”.
guess what,
idiot straight men:

Ya’ll make it this way!
Congratulations,
you’re dorks.

the crazy part is gays want to separate themselves from the heteronormative but all we do is fuck too.
no one is dating different in the gay community except maybe lesbians.
their issue is at the end of the day,
they still run on emotions and move in together after a week.
some of the straights like to shack up quick too.
you barely know each other but the best option is to live together after 2 months.
gotcha.
as much as they hate to admit it,
straight males are doing what gay males have been doing for years.
gay males aren’t doing anything groundbreaking when it comes to dating.
they’re on apps and jumping in dms like the straights looking for easy sex.
at the end of the day,
we are still men and cutting out the middle man (dating/getting to know someone) to getting ass or dick.

Males,
whether gay or straight,
are looking for someone to consistently fuck and not “date”.

straight males have two,
three,
or ten women on rotation.
as you see from onlyfans,
all gay males have a full roster of partners to drill or get drilled by.
some gay males get into relationships and some keep it open because why?

The option to have more sex.

another issue is some straight vixens are going on the  “i have a pussy so hear me roar!” mentality.
what is a “bad bitch” in 2021?
it’s really being sexually free and being rich.
again,
nothing different than what gay males have been doing with sex and our incomes.
gay males invented being sexually free.
we did it alla that in the 80s and 90s which led to many of us dying from aids.
the straights can get aids too if folks didn’t realize.
std rates are through the roof from all this sexual liberation.

some women present themselves as sex objects and get mad when they are treated as such.
hell…

Most vixens get treated as blow-up dolls because the past hoes he dealt with presented themselves as blow-up dolls.

his dumb ass thinks all vixens are the same.

i’ll repeat again:
no one is doing anything groundbreaking when it comes to relationships these days.

Gay males need to stop acting like we are so different from straight males.
Straight males need to stop acting like they’re different than gay males.
Straight women need to stop acting like blow-up dolls because it’s not working.
Bonus: Straight women need to stop acting like men because of the emotionally feminine straight males they’ve been chasing around.

it’s all about luck when meeting someone and can you deal with their flaws past the honeymoon phase tbh.

Author: jamari fox

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17 thoughts on “straight dating is similar to gay dating (is it more fucking than dating?)

  1. The Spirit is moving in you today:

    …but that same dude will ghost you if you aren’t “moving fast enough”.
    guess what,
    idiot straight men:

    Ya’ll make it this way!
    Congratulations,
    you’re dorks.

    This had me shouting and speaking in TONGUES. SAY IT!

    Him saying “he’s a gentleman” was SO 2021 male. So now because a woman admits she wants sex as much as you do and doesn’t pretend to be a virgin it’s a “turnoff”? Boy, bye.

    1. ^some straight men are acting like they’re the prize and it’s really weird to me.

      they think it’s a prize to date some emotionally unavailable asshole.
      like what?

      1. That’s where we have to take responsibility. Somebody was saying they’d wait around for a bisexual dude to quit girls and make them a honest man. And I’m like..he only sleeps with you between his relationships with women then leaves you. Why waste your best years on him? We make trash the prize. We want to be the one to ‘lock them down’ or ‘upgrade him’. We want to feel like we “earned him through abuse and trauma”.

        1. ^and honestly that is the normal!!!!
          that is the normal of what are comfortable in because of some of our trauma.
          we watched our patines deal with nonsense and abuse so we will naturally do the same.

          generational curses run in all communities.
          this is why i feel black folks will benefit tremendously from therapy.

          1. I’ll never forget that Tyler Perry movie where the mother blamed her daughter for her husband beating her. Then Madea told her to throw grits on him. It was one thing to see it in real life, but seeing it ON FILM scared me of how much BS we accept as “the way it is”. It was like a movie coming out about your family’s darkest secrets.

          2. ^if there is ANYTHING i want to change in the world is the way how we all treat people and understanding the trauma we have within due to generational curses

  2. Bonus: Straight women need to stop acting like men because of the emotionally feminine straight males they’ve been chasing around.

    This would blow Twitter UP. People don’t like the truth.

    I read a tweet you posted a while back about how men play games with the one they want and expect her to wait around. Now that women are taking charge of their sex it’s a problem, huh? But you would marry another girl who wasn’t what you wanted when she was begging for engagement for 9 years and you call her after your wife has had a few kids and isn’t as snatched saying “It was always you”???

    NEGRO, PLEASE. Men want to have their cake and eat it too.

    I operate on emotions, not physicality so the gay dating world has been jarring and got me together real quick. I’m not built for it.

  3. I hate how y’all generalize. It reinforces stereotypes that really aren’t true and convinces younger gays that sex is all they have to look forward to. Stop being so jaded. The vast majority of single people are not out here fucking like nymphos. Gay or straight.

    1. ^ didnt lnx have a whole performance at the bet awards with a song about gay sex and kissing some dude on stage?
      the video had him dry riding the devil.
      hell,
      some of the younger gays are more open to sex by all naked behavior on social media and onlyfans.

      not only that,
      i made sure i said “some” within my entry.

    2. I think it’s safe to say the younger gays have been convinced, considering they’ve been watching their ‘gay mothers/fathers’ hit 45 having never been in an actual committed relationship, and rly thinking jakd is ‘dating’. Gay men are a whole fukn dumpster fire, as a mental/emotional whole. And while the trash ass society that we’ve inherited and had to exist in lit the match, we continue to keep adding extra gasoline!

    3. I am not sure where you live but the vast majority of young people Gay and Str8 are out here Fkking like Nympho’s and I am way past young and I know this. You have to live under a rock not to know this. Social Media has changed everything. I have young Str8 nephews who are Fkking anything that moves. I know from my own personal experience as my DM’s will attest too young 20 something Gays who I can Fck easily literally every night if I chose to and I old enough to have a child in their early 20’s. These young dudes dont give a damn, no dinner, no movie, no dating, lets just Fck and get it over with. Str8 Girls are a lot more aggressive than in years past and are down for whatever as well.

      1. @Tajan! Welcome back big bro! I was literally thinking about you the other. Good to know you’re still a member of the foxhole!

      1. It’s literally not true. Statistically, it’s not true. There are literally studies about it. Social media is not a real representation of the world real and your DMs being full of ready and willing hypersexual homosexuals is more a reflection of your own life than the lives of others.

        Social media’s given us more access, but we are not actually having more of sex.

        https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/03/quality-over-quantity-gen-zs-sex-recession-looks-more-like-an-upturn

        https://www.insider.com/teens-less-casual-sex-generation-parents-did-2021-3?amp

        https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/americans_are_having_less_sex_but_is_that_a_problem

        https://www.forbes.com/sites/janetwburns/2016/08/16/millennials-are-having-less-sex-than-other-gens-but-experts-say-its-probably-fine/amp/

  4. I find this interesting because men will do this same thing and say its nothing wrong w/ being that intense but a woman does it and now they understand how intense that type of energy is. lol

    I haven’t seen any form of gays saying they are dating better than straights and it not be sarcastic energy.

  5. I get that a lot more women are attempting to live their best lives, but it’s not sustainable. Straight men aren’t checking for women moving like them. Men want their women to be exclusive while they get to ‘sow their wild oats’. We ask 3rd grade boys if they have girlfriend’s in class, and ain’t nobody running up to lil Keisha asking her the same.

    BW are at the mercy of BM because like I always say, hetero BM are never held accountable for shyt! So BW normalize that trauma they all share and accept generation after generation, for a BM. I know we see all of these shows and films that keep trying to push hot girl summers, but that can only last until 100+ body count each BM start calling her a pass around for having 20.

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