In the Concrete Forest,
it is important to have a great team behind you.
Sadly with the small amount of people to trust,
you must have a “Bad Friend Beacon” on everyone who comes into your space.
It is relatively easy once you have been fucked over by bad people.
They start showing their true colors even if they come off a standard black and white.
Never think that because you tell all your secrets to someone,
they are actually keeping them.
They could keep them in storage OR telling someone else that is their friend.
So how can you spot someone with the evil eye?
How can you make sure you never fall into the “bad friend” net?
I had to wonder…
What ABOUT the people I call my “friends“?
I have had a 50/50 mix of people throughout my life.
I am lucky enough to have friends for years that I trust.
Then, I know who are my associates and acquaintances.
I use to call EVERYONE my friend.
I would end up with egg on my face and a couple of stab wounds in my back.
To this day, I still have the scars.
I have gotten used before in my past.
I let people who didn’t even like me into my home,
borrow my car,
and put food in their mouth.
Now, I realized that it was all just a lie because I had “nice things”.
I treat people like I treat a potential Wolf.
Because of this, I can spot a fake a mile away.
I know who is lying, fronting, and just talking out their ass.
In this lifestyle, it seems like everyone in every corner.
Here are a few tips (out of the hundreds) I have put together for the rookies out there:
They talk about EVERYONE.
I mean, they will talk about their own mama.
They never have anything positive to say about anyone..
They are always nit-picking someone for the smallest things.
Things that would need someone who was really paying attention to figure out.
If you meet anyone out the gate who is talking shit about people,
they will ultimately talk about you.
(they do make for great spies and background checkers.
use them wisely.)
They never have money and always want you to pay.
They never have somewhere to go, so they are always at your house.
They never have any good advice for you, because they are always talking about themselves.
They never invite you anywhere, because they are scared you will take their shine.
Always watch out for the highlighted word.
They are useless.
They don’t have goals.
They are broke as shit.
They can never go out because they never have money.
But have money to buy weed and likka.
They are ALWAYS depressed.
They are surrounded by a cloud of negativity.
They start off every fucking sentence with what is wrong.
I mean damn,
didn’t you wake the fuck up this morning with all your body parts still in tact nigga?
I know life gets hard but come the FUCK on…
Believe it or not,
that cloud will land over you sooner or later.
I believe people can transfer energy to each other.
Watch out for people who have continuous bad luck or never have good experiences.
Key sign: how many friends do they have/how many have they chased away?
They have a history of sleeping with other people’s Wolves/Hybrids/Vixens/and Foxes.
No explanation needed.
When you grow, your quality of life should also.
Why would you still live in the projects with 100,000 in your savings account and 500,000 in checking?
If your friend is fighting, instigating, or simply just ghetto, then you may have to do a strong re-evaluation.
Why would you want to introduce this person to potential clients, your boss, or even your family?
You know what they say: Show me your friends and I will show you who you are.
Segue into the following rule:
you can tell a person by the people they choose to hang out with.
I don’t care how much of a slut their friends are,
why would a virgin hang with them?
Sooner or later,
the influence will jump in their spirit.
Next thing you know,
they are face down; ass up on the Choo Choo train express.
If your friend is masculine,
but he chooses to hang with queens,
what do you think you are about to get?
If your friend finds joy with their messy ass Hyena and Jackal friends,
your business is about to be all over the club scene.
Watch people who do the opposite of what you say,
especially when they came to you for advice.
I sat here,
after your poured your heart out to me about that triflin ass Wolf,
and then went and spin on his dick again and gave his money?
Do NOT trust that person.
Watch out for bullies who come off like “friends“.
It will be a constant power struggle and you will ultimately lose.
LIARS, LIARS, AND MORE LIARS.
I HATE LIARS.
AUTOMATIC NON RENEWAL OF FRIENDSHIP IF YOU LIE TO ME.
Never fuck with people who are liars.
The firsts sign of a bold face liar needs to be called out.
If it continues, then you need to GO!
a true friend is someone is someone who makes themselves available for you.
Whether it is good times or bad,
you know they are there and have your back.
The favor is always returned because it is a smooth game of ping-pong.
If your friend is lazy and the flow is always disrupted,
then why would you even fuck with that person.
I always believe that sometimes we can blame EVERYONE for things that go wrong,
but we ever look in the mirror and ask this simple question:
“WHAT DID I DO TO CONTRIBUTE TO ALL OF THIS?”
You may just find our answer.
Hope you learned something.
Tips are greatly appreciated—->